Getting Off with Natalie + Rocky Natalie Vires and Rocky Peterson

Welcome to Getting Off with Natalie + Rocky, where our mission is to help you experience more safety and enjoyment in the bedroom. First, we’d like to introduce ourselves. We are Natalie Vires - a pleasure and intimacy coach, and Rocky Peterson - a yoni massage practitioner and pleasure educator. Between the two of us, we have helped hundreds of people to deepen their relationship to their own pleasure.
In this introductory episode, we’ll talk about how we met, how our work complements each other, and some keys to jumpstart better intimacy.
We’re not here to give you tips for hookups. What we are here for is to help you find that depth of intimacy that allows your dream sexual experiences to come to fruition regularly. In this podcast we’ll cover everything from sensual confidence to safety, and the ripple effects that come with a fulfilling sex life.
Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!
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Why the blow job course? Why yoni massage? How did it all get started? In this episode we will go into deeper detail about what we offer our clients, how we came to do this work, and why. With Natalie, the blow job course started as an off-hand comment that piqued a lot of interest in other women. With Rocky, an injury forced a job change and he found a niche in teaching women how to drive a man crazy with their hands, which then turned into sensual massage, which then opened into pleasure coaching and helping women heal from sexual trauma by offering a new experience.
Natalie’s own experience in doing the work she does with her clients has given her the confidence to love her body and really be present, curious, and playful with intimate partners without bringing the old traumas and insecurities along for the ride.
In this episode you’ll get a taste of what our courses are like and how we work with our clients, as well as some translation between sexes about the importance of communication, safety, and relaxation.
Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!
Music credit: The Funkster by Sweet Spot
A Podcast Launch Bestie production

Why do we sometimes get to a place when our own pleasure isn’t a priority? Not just with sex and intimacy, but all of life’s pleasures in general. What happens to get us to that place?  And how can we tell the difference between nervous anticipation and fear?
Come along as we consider:
Pleasure vs. obligationSocietal gender roles and their effect on leadership roles in relationshipsSocietal programming around pleasureFreedom and autonomyReprogramming yourself to be able to receive pleasure
We want the most pleasurable pleasure for you, but you’re going to have to do some work to make sure you’re open to it.
Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!
Music credit: The Funkster by Sweet Spot
A Podcast Launch Bestie production

You know that feeling when you wake up and realize you don’t really know what you want? When living the expectations that we’re conditioned to follow, we’re not reflecting on what really makes us happy, what really lights us up, and what we really want from life. 
Part of the work we do is to push people to really examine what they want and get used to expressing it. Having a safe container in which to experiment is a healing experience. But, just knowing what we want isn’t enough - we also need to do the work to be able to truly receive it.
Our conversation will explore:
Knowing what you really wantCommunicating what you wantGiving yourself permission to wantBeing receptiveThe energy of reciprocityWhat RBF is about and what to do about it
Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!
Music credit: The Funkster by Sweet Spot
A Podcast Launch Bestie production

A lot of us carry shame around sexuality and everything that goes with it. That’s why we’re having this conversation today. We’ll talk about where this shame comes from. Sexuality is treated like it has to be “just right” or not at all, but it’s a moving target that we’re all supposed to just understand somehow. 
Sexual shame comes from many places, like religion, culture, and even politics as a tool of control for the patriarchy. The shame doesn’t just harm women, though - sexual shame breeds sexual violence of all kinds. So, what can we do about it?
Letting go of shame can allow you to:
Be vulnerable with others and build intimate connectionsCommunicate betterHave a more deeply enjoyable sex life
Shame is very heavy. That’s why it’s used for control. Releasing your shame around sexuality is the key to a light, joyful sex life.
Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!
Music credit: The Funkster by Sweet Spot
A Podcast Launch Bestie production

It can feel very natural to let a man lead. There are also times when a person who’s often in a leadership position wants a break from that and it’s a nice change of pace. So, the question is, how do we know when to lead and when to allow our partner to take the initiative? 
Women need to feel a sense of safety in any kind of intimacy, but guys tend to jump the gun and skip the part about learning who she is, what she’s about, and what she really likes and wants. 
When it comes down to it, leadership is:
CommunicationBeing attuned to your partnerA dance between the 2 of youRespectful and kind
Leadership is not:
CoercionForcefulManipulation
If any of this hit a nerve with you, now is a good time to start doing the inner work on yourself to figure out what you really want and how to communicate it.
Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!
Music credit: The Funkster by Sweet Spot
A Podcast Launch Bestie production