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Feeling incomplete after a failed relationship(s)? Think you need a man to be fulfilled in life? Wondering why you stayed in that toxic relationship? Tired of the constant confusion about who you are? Weighed down by negative thoughts? Wish you knew what you were created to do? And do you wonder where the heck God is in the midst of all this?


In this podcast you will find out how I came to be complete in God. I will share how I finally moved forward in my life by healing from past heartbreaks and ditching the negative mindset, identity confusion and that nagging feeling of purposelessness. I also pull from my background in psychology to help you examine your own patterns of behavior and think about why you do what you do. My mission is to help you walk into the fullness of who you are by providing biblical principles along with practical tips to heal your heart, grow spiritually, find your true identity, break toxic behavior patterns while establishing healthy ones, and discover your purpose.

If you’re ready to leave behind toxic cycles that lead to a broken heart and emptiness and grab a hold of wholeness and purpose. You’re in the right place.


Hey sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother walking in purpose, who also has a background in psychology; but this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I was heartbroken and unfulfilled with my life. Plus, I wasn’t sure about who I was. You see, I wanted to be married more than anything, and knowing my identity wasn’t important to me; so I dated a lot, looking for men to validate me and tell me who I was. I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Each time I walked away from a failed relationship, I left a little piece of my heart behind. Not to mention, I never took time to really heal and examine my own behaviors. Then, in 2015, the last failed relationship shattered my heart in a way that I couldn’t put it back together on my own, and I knew no man would be able to put it back together either. Something in my life had to change. I finally realized that if my heart was ever going to be truly healed, and if I was ever going to be truly fulfilled in my life, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. God showed me how to use biblical principles to move on from heartbreak, become a faith-led woman, discover my true identity, and find purpose. I made small changes in my behavior that I could maintain and stay consistent with while still having fun and enjoying my life in the process. Those small changes led to grand results; I am ready to share all my experiences, wisdom, and “small changes” with you!


If you are ready to finally shut that revolving door of heartbreak after heartbreak, stop the constant confusion about who you are and why you’re here, and you’re looking for results like strong faith, positive thinking, peace in your mind, healthy behavior patterns, and contentment in your life–this podcast is for you!

Sis, kick off those shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day, and pour yourself a cup of your favorite hot beverage! You deserve this moment for yourself sis! Let’s dig in!

GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women‪,‬ Kandice A. Bateast, Heartbreak Coach, Author, Prayer Warrior

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Feeling incomplete after a failed relationship(s)? Think you need a man to be fulfilled in life? Wondering why you stayed in that toxic relationship? Tired of the constant confusion about who you are? Weighed down by negative thoughts? Wish you knew what you were created to do? And do you wonder where the heck God is in the midst of all this?


In this podcast you will find out how I came to be complete in God. I will share how I finally moved forward in my life by healing from past heartbreaks and ditching the negative mindset, identity confusion and that nagging feeling of purposelessness. I also pull from my background in psychology to help you examine your own patterns of behavior and think about why you do what you do. My mission is to help you walk into the fullness of who you are by providing biblical principles along with practical tips to heal your heart, grow spiritually, find your true identity, break toxic behavior patterns while establishing healthy ones, and discover your purpose.

If you’re ready to leave behind toxic cycles that lead to a broken heart and emptiness and grab a hold of wholeness and purpose. You’re in the right place.


Hey sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother walking in purpose, who also has a background in psychology; but this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I was heartbroken and unfulfilled with my life. Plus, I wasn’t sure about who I was. You see, I wanted to be married more than anything, and knowing my identity wasn’t important to me; so I dated a lot, looking for men to validate me and tell me who I was. I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Each time I walked away from a failed relationship, I left a little piece of my heart behind. Not to mention, I never took time to really heal and examine my own behaviors. Then, in 2015, the last failed relationship shattered my heart in a way that I couldn’t put it back together on my own, and I knew no man would be able to put it back together either. Something in my life had to change. I finally realized that if my heart was ever going to be truly healed, and if I was ever going to be truly fulfilled in my life, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. God showed me how to use biblical principles to move on from heartbreak, become a faith-led woman, discover my true identity, and find purpose. I made small changes in my behavior that I could maintain and stay consistent with while still having fun and enjoying my life in the process. Those small changes led to grand results; I am ready to share all my experiences, wisdom, and “small changes” with you!


If you are ready to finally shut that revolving door of heartbreak after heartbreak, stop the constant confusion about who you are and why you’re here, and you’re looking for results like strong faith, positive thinking, peace in your mind, healthy behavior patterns, and contentment in your life–this podcast is for you!

Sis, kick off those shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day, and pour yourself a cup of your favorite hot beverage! You deserve this moment for yourself sis! Let’s dig in!

    176 5 Tips To Deal With Negative Emotions From a Breakup or Divorce When You Have Kids

    176 5 Tips To Deal With Negative Emotions From a Breakup or Divorce When You Have Kids

    Hey Sis! Moms deal with heartbreak too. It’s incredibly difficult to process pain and heal when you have little ones, but it’s not impossible. Today I’m sharing tips that I learned when I went through the separation with my husband while my kids were 1 and 3-years-old. If you are intentional with your time, a little time can help you reap a big reward of a healed heart. Grab your journal and pen. It’s time to heal!

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    My YouVersion Bible Plans
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 106 Dealing WIth Divorce, Motherhood, and A Broken Heart With Lashonda Dean, Part 1
    Ep. 107 Dealing With Divorce, Motherhood, and A Broken Heart With Lashonda Dean, Part 2
    Ep. 109 1 Year Of Helping Other Women Heal Broken Hearts: Blessings, Spiritual Warfare, and Lessons Learned

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 20 min
    175. Can God Trust You With One Of His Sons?

    175. Can God Trust You With One Of His Sons?

    Hey Sis! You might be thinking you’re lonely in this season, and you can’t wait to get into another relationship and find the man that God has for you. But I have a question for you–are you ready for that? I’m sure you want the next man you get into a relationship with to be “the one,” which means you want him to be one of God’s sons. However, to truly care for a man of God, you have to care for yourself in this season. Get your journal, a pen, and hit play!

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    My YouVersion Bible Plans
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 41 Have a Broken Heart? Follow This 6 Step Process To Getting Where You Want To Be After a Breakup
    Ep. 64 6 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married
    Ep. 99 5 Reasons Heartbreak Was The Best Thing For Me Before Marriage

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 14 min
    174. Think You Need A Man To Make You Feel Better? The One Thing You're Really Craving

    174. Think You Need A Man To Make You Feel Better? The One Thing You're Really Craving

    Hey Sis! Are you feeling lonely? Are you trying to find a way to stop the pain after your breakup? Then, it’s a real possibility that you think hopping into another relationship is the right move for you. But I’m here to tell you that getting another man, or going back to the old one, is not really what you need right now. Join me in this episode to find out what you’re really craving and how to satisfy it.


    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 023 Where Is My Boaz//Tips From Ruth On How To Find Your Husband//Fun With Biblical Truths
    Ep. 084 Minisode: Let God Fill Your Voids
    Ep. 164 Think You’re Lonely Because You’re Not In a Relationship? 5 Underlying Causes Of Loneliness

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 21 min
    173. Your Self Worth Doesn't Have To Suffer Because He Was Unfaithful

    173. Your Self Worth Doesn't Have To Suffer Because He Was Unfaithful

    Hey Sis! First, let me apologize for the inconsistency in the volume of this episode.

    I know that your self-esteem may have been impacted by your ex cheating on you. That’s the natural way we tend to respond when something like that happens. We look within and believe it was all our fault, or at least we could have done something to prevent it from happening. Sis, what if you were intentional about making a different choice? What if you decided to leave the responsibility of your ex’s actions with your ex? You can change your mindset in such a way that you can actually build your self-worth rather than letting it be destroyed by your ex’s infidelity. Join me in finding out how.

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 008 The #1 Decision To Make After a Breakup + The 4 Amazing Results You Get
    Ep. 015 The Deal Breaker Relationship That Led To God and Purpose
    Ep. 105 Start Rebuilding Your Self-Worth After He Cheated–4 Things You Should Know

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 18 min
    172. Is It Time To Let Go? 4 Things You Miss Out On When You Hold On To Your Ex

    172. Is It Time To Let Go? 4 Things You Miss Out On When You Hold On To Your Ex

    Hey Sis! You might think there’s no harm in holding onto hope that you and your ex will get back together. However, holding onto your ex will block you from moving forward in other areas of your life and prevent you from truly enjoying your life. If you’re having a hard time letting go of your ex, join me for this episode and find out exactly what you might be missing.

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 085 God Help Me Get Back Together With My Ex! 6 Things To Pray For Instead
    Ep. 116 Do I Need To Set Boundaries With My Ex? Listen To This Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Ep. 124 6 Tips To Let Go Of Your Ex When You Still Love Him

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 15 min
    171. 5 Timeless Dating Tips For Christian Single Women

    171. 5 Timeless Dating Tips For Christian Single Women

    Hey Sis! We talk a lot about healing, but today, we’re switching gears. I know some of you may be ready to date, or at least, you plan to someday. And while dating has changed a lot since I was in the dating pool, there are some things that will never change. Whether you are ready to start right now or if it might be awhile, I have some dating tips for you that will never fade. Listen up and take notes.

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 012 Is God Telling Me To Leave My Relationship // 4 Ways God Told Me To Leave 4 Different Relationships
    Ep. 039 Single Women Setting Boundaries In Relationships Through Effective Communication and Trusting God’s Timing With La’Toya Guillory
    Ep. 112 Am I Ready To Date Again? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions First


    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

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Customer Reviews

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154 Ratings

Dphinery ,

Amazing Podcast

Great podcast for all singles especially Christian women. Definitely appropriate for all ages with great content and principles to live by in this dating world. Upholding the integrity of a believer it’s important to have standards and heal after a bad relationship.

Texasgirl80_ ,

This podcast gives me hope

I have been praying that the Lord would bless me to cross paths with some amazing people that could possibly help me through this healing journey. I have been suffering through heartbreak for almost a year now and I finally feel like there is hope to heal. I know that I was led to your podcast by the Holy Spirit. God bless you 🙏🏽

P.A.33 ,

Lonely in Louisiana, yet healing…

OMG- you are awesome. God led me to you & aligned my path towards you. Thank you so much for clarity, faith, wisdom and the power to be able to gather hurting hearts and give us mustard seed of healing. My situation left me empty. But I’m praying and listening to you daily. I am the strong friend, but I’m broken yet & it’s hurts to not be able to be strong. So I’m saying a simple THANK YOU !

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