Grief'd Up

Rebecca Feinglos
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Grief'd Up

Welcome to Grief’d Up, the podcast where we discuss intricate and tough conversations around all aspects of grief and loss. Join us each week as your host, Rebecca Feinglos, shares powerful stories, engages with experts, and challenges the misconceptions about loss that keep us silent. You don’t have to grieve alone; it’s time to get real about grief.

  1. Empathy in the Office: Andrea Ramirez on Grief and Workplace Culture

    3 DAYS AGO

    Empathy in the Office: Andrea Ramirez on Grief and Workplace Culture

    "You can't put your grief in a drawer, no matter how much we wish we could just lock it up." In this episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos invites Andrea Ramirez, the Senior Director of the Care Team at Empathy, to discuss the often overlooked intersection of grief and the workplace. Empathy is a company dedicated to supporting families with both the emotional and logistical challenges that accompany the loss of a loved one. Andrea, whose career has been rooted in caregiving and support, shares her insights on creating a grief-aware culture in professional environments. Rebecca and Andrea delve into the complexities of grieving while maintaining a professional life. They discuss the misconceptions about grief in the workplace, such as the unrealistic time limits often imposed by bereavement policies, and the need for more flexible and humane approaches. Andrea emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive environment where employees feel seen and validated, encouraging open conversations about grief, and the necessity of self-advocacy for those navigating loss. The conversation also explores the role of Empathy in providing comprehensive support to individuals and families dealing with loss. From logistical assistance to emotional guidance, Empathy offers a "grief concierge" service that aims to demystify the grieving process and provide ongoing support beyond traditional bereavement leave. Join Rebecca and Andrea as they challenge the status quo and advocate for a more compassionate approach to grief in the workplace. Their discussion offers valuable insights for managers, employees, and anyone interested in fostering a supportive work environment. Connect with Andrew Ramirez: ● Website: empathy.com ● LinkedIn: Empathy on LinkedIn _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    46 min
  2. Grief and Creativity: Marie Claude Marquis' Artistic Journey

    NOV 14

    Grief and Creativity: Marie Claude Marquis' Artistic Journey

    "Give yourself time. The ideas will come back… If you're stressed that your creativity is gone, it will come back, definitely." In this thought-provoking episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos sits down with Marie Claude "MC" Marquis, a Montreal-based multidisciplinary artist whose work spans visual arts, graphic design, and installation. Known for her unique approach to art, Marie Claude’s creations are inspired by vintage objects, pop culture, nostalgia, and contemporary feminist perspectives. Her art has been exhibited across North America and Europe, making a significant impact, especially within the grief community. Rebecca and Marie Claude delve into the profound intersection of art and grief. Marie Claude shares her personal journey with loss, particularly the passing of her mother, and how it has influenced her artistic expression. They discuss the challenges of maintaining creativity amidst grief and the healing power of art. Marie Claude opens up about her experiences with different art mediums, from oil paintings at age six to her recent work with typography on plates and tapestries. The conversation touches on the complexities of grief, the coexistence of happiness and sadness, and the evolving nature of creativity. Marie Claude’s candid reflections on her life and art provide listeners with an intimate look at how grief can both stifle and inspire artistic expression. Her insights offer hope and encouragement to anyone navigating grief, whether through art or other means of expression. Join Rebecca and Marie Claude as they explore the transformative power of art in the grieving process and the importance of allowing oneself time and space to heal and create. Marie Claude's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring connection between art and the emotions it evokes.   Connect with Marie Claude Marquis: ● Instagram: @marieclaudemarquis _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    43 min
  3. The Intersection of Grief and Elections: A Conversation with Nida Allam

    NOV 10

    The Intersection of Grief and Elections: A Conversation with Nida Allam

    "Life is going to keep on lifing as we grieve, and we can hold it all at the same time. Let's hold our grief in one hand and this desire to move forward in the other. Let's name it as grief and face it head-on."In this powerful episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos takes a deep dive into the unexpected grief surrounding the recent election results. As someone who has faced significant personal losses, Rebecca opens up about the rage, frustration, and disappointment she feels with the political landscape, particularly the re-election of Donald Trump. She candidly shares her journey from a non-political family to becoming a politically active citizen, driven by a desire to help others through public service.Rebecca reflects on her first encounter with election-related grief in 2016 and draws parallels to her current emotions, likening them to the grief she experienced during her divorce. She discusses the anticipatory grief leading up to the election and the profound sense of disconnection she now feels with the American identity. Rebecca emphasizes the importance of sitting with these feelings and understanding them before rushing into action, a lesson she has learned from past experiences with loss.Joining Rebecca is Commissioner Nida Allam, who shares her personal journey of grief in politics, from losing a congressional race to the current election. Nida discusses the added layer of fear and grief she feels as a mother, fearing for her children's future in a divided country. Together, they explore the tension between acknowledging grief and the urge to move forward, highlighting the need for more good people to run for office and create change at the grassroots level.Rebecca and Nida's conversation is a poignant reminder that grief is not linear, and it's essential to hold space for both grief and hope. They encourage listeners to acknowledge their grief, connect with others, and take action when ready, emphasizing that we can hold it all simultaneously.Connect with Nida Allam: ● Instagram: nidaallam.com ● Website: @nidaallam _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com ● To Listen to Rebecca’s episode on the loss of her mother click HERE _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    40 min
  4. Grief, Faith, and the Woo Woo: A Conversation with JS Park

    OCT 30

    Grief, Faith, and the Woo Woo: A Conversation with JS Park

    “Every time I think I've seen one more expression of grief, I see one more after that. I think I've learned to expand my vocabulary and the room that I create in my heart for what grief looks like, and I think that's one of the things that makes me hopeful.” In this heartfelt episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos, is joined by JS Park. JS, a hospital chaplain and author of "As Long As You Need: Permission to Grieve" and "The Voices We Carry," provides a unique perspective on navigating grief, faith, and emotional health. With his extensive experience serving at one of the nation's top-ranked hospitals and a major nonprofit charity for the homeless, JS brings invaluable insights into the complex world of grief support. Rebecca and JS explore the often-overlooked role of a chaplain, particularly in high-stress environments like hospitals. They discuss the intersection of faith and grief support, and whether it is possible—or even necessary—to separate the two. JS shares his experiences of providing spiritual care without imposing religious beliefs, emphasizing the importance of creating a safe space for all, regardless of faith background. The conversation delves into the challenges faced by healthcare workers dealing with constant exposure to trauma and loss, highlighting the importance of support systems like Code Lavender. JS opens up about his personal journey with grief, the impact of cultural traditions, and the significance of ritual in grieving. He also addresses the societal pressures to "move on" from grief and the need for intentional mourning practices. Join Rebecca and JS as they navigate the complexities of grief, the role of faith, and the importance of community in grieving. JS’s compassionate approach and profound understanding offer comfort and guidance for anyone grappling with loss. Connect with JS Park: ● Instagram: @jspark ● Threads: @jspark ● Facebook: JS Park ● Twitter: @jspark _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    51 min
  5. Grief and the Single Life- Rebecca Feinglos' Journey

    OCT 24

    Grief and the Single Life- Rebecca Feinglos' Journey

    "I am proud to fly solo these days. I'm proud to be single and I am grieving. Both of those things are true.” In this heartfelt episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos delves into the complex emotions of being single and the grief intertwined with it. At 35, Rebecca reflects on her journey from being a serial monogamist to embracing her single life, while grappling with the lingering grief of the life she imagined but never had. Rebecca shares candid memories of her childhood, marked by her mother's battle with brain cancer and the loneliness that followed. She explores how these early experiences influenced her relationship patterns, leading her to seek companionship as a way to fill the void left by her absent parents. Through therapy, Rebecca uncovers the deep-rooted connections between her grief and her relationship choices. Join Rebecca as she recounts a recent trip to Maine with her sorority sisters and their families, where she confronted her feelings of solitude amidst the joy of companionship surrounding her. With vulnerability and authenticity, she discusses the pride she feels in choosing to be single and the simultaneous sadness for the life she doesn't have. This episode is a poignant reminder that it's okay to hold space for both pride and grief, and that we are never truly alone in our experiences. _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    15 min
  6. Redefining End-of-Life: Tracy Wheeler's Journey from Fashion to Grief

    OCT 17

    Redefining End-of-Life: Tracy Wheeler's Journey from Fashion to Grief

    "We don't do enough to tell people that it really sucks. It's really hard. You could've done everything right, and you're still left without them." In this enlightening episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos sits down with Tracy Wheeler, the Executive Director of End Well, a pioneering nonprofit at the intersection of end-of-life care and cultural change. With a rich background in fashion marketing, Tracy shares her journey from leading international marketing teams at Ralph Lauren to transforming how we perceive and discuss end-of-life experiences. Tracy shares the origin story of End Well, founded by Dr. Shoshana Ungerleider, and its mission to humanize end-of-life experiences by bridging the gap between healthcare and cultural narratives. They discuss the power of storytelling in media to reshape societal perceptions of death and dying, emphasizing the role of content creators in fostering a more nuanced conversation around these topics.  And Rebecca and Tracy explore the connections between fashion and grief. They delve into the significance of visible mourning traditions, like wearing black armbands, and how these customs facilitate communal support and understanding. Tracy recounts a personal story of road rage and the desire for a visible sign of grief, highlighting the importance of grace and empathy in everyday interactions. Join Rebecca and Tracy as they navigate the complexities of grief, the transformative power of storytelling, and the importance of community in facing life's final chapter. Tracy's insights and experiences offer invaluable perspectives for anyone grappling with end-of-life issues.  Connect with End Well: ● Website: endwellproject.org ● Instagram: @endwellproject ● YouTube: Endwell Project ● Register for the upcoming End Well event at https://whova.com/portal/registration/endwe_202411/. Drop the code GRLEW24 in the discount code section for 20% off general admission.   _____________________________________  Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    51 min
  7. From NBA Glory to Personal Grief: Shane Battier's Story

    OCT 10

    From NBA Glory to Personal Grief: Shane Battier's Story

    “When you grieve, you always say, could I have done something differently? And, I don't know. I like to think that I did everything I could. Would that have prevented something? Would he still be here today?”In this sporty episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos welcomes the multifaceted Shane Battier, a two-time NBA champion, Duke University legend, and advocate for mental wellness. As a professional speaker, advisor, and investor, Shane brings a wealth of experience and all kinds of insights.Their conversation focused on the often-overlooked intersections of sports and grief. Rebecca and Shane dive into the profound grief that accompanies transitions, such as Shane's retirement from a 13-year NBA career. Shane candidly shares how he grappled with the loss of his athletic identity and the unexpected challenges he faced in the aftermath. They explore the unique grief that athletes experience, not just in losing games, but in losing the camaraderie and structure of the sports world. Shane also opens up about personal losses, including the sudden death of his brother, Jeremy, from CTE-related complications, and the passing of his father during the COVID-19 pandemic. He discusses the importance of community and connection in navigating grief, emphasizing the evolutionary need for support from others. Join Rebecca and Shane for an enlightening conversation that challenges the misconceptions about grief in sports and life. Shane's insights into professional grief and the power of vulnerability offer valuable lessons for anyone facing loss. Connect with Shane Battier: ● Podcast: Glue Guys ● Instagram: @shanebattier ● Foundation: Battier Take Charge Foundation _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    51 min
  8. Beyond The Hustle: Facing Your Grief, with Laurel Braitman

    OCT 3

    Beyond The Hustle: Facing Your Grief, with Laurel Braitman

    "Grief is a group project." In this (surprisingly?) funny episode of Grief'd Up, host Rebecca Feinglos sits down with Laurel Braitman, a bestselling author, speaker, educator, and trailblazer in the field of medical storytelling. Laurel's work at the Stanford School of Medicine's Medical Humanities and the Arts program and her global community of writing healthcare professionals, Writing Medicine, has inspired countless individuals to find healing and mental wellness through storytelling. Rebecca and Laurel dive deep into their shared experiences of losing parents at a young age, going through divorces, and the unique challenges they faced while trying to outrun their grief. Laurel opens up about her journey of coping with her father's terminal illness from the age of three until his death when she was seventeen, and how her mother's death during the COVID-19 pandemic added another layer to her grief. They discuss the concept of "grief math"—the constant recalculations grievers do as they compare their own ages and life stages to those of their lost loved ones. Laurel shares how her coping mechanism of overachieving was a way to avoid her difficult feelings and how she eventually learned to confront them. They also discuss dating and grieving...quite a bit. Join Rebecca and Laurel as they explore the multifaceted nature of grief, the power of storytelling, and the importance of community in navigating loss. Laurel's insights and experiences provide invaluable perspectives for anyone grappling with grief. Connect with Laurel Braitman: ● Website: https://www.laurelbraitman.com/ ● Instagram: @laurel_braitman ● Books: “What Looks Like Bravery” and “Animal Madness” _____________________________________ Follow for more resources: ● Instagram: @grieveleave ● Website: grieveleave.com _____________________________________ Don’t forget to leave a review and share this episode with someone who needs to hear this!

    53 min
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Welcome to Grief’d Up, the podcast where we discuss intricate and tough conversations around all aspects of grief and loss. Join us each week as your host, Rebecca Feinglos, shares powerful stories, engages with experts, and challenges the misconceptions about loss that keep us silent. You don’t have to grieve alone; it’s time to get real about grief.

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