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The purpose of the Hole in My Heart Podcast is to explore how the gospel is good news for everyone every day. Most often, teacher and author, Laurie Krieg, licensed therapist and "argyle expert," Matt Krieg, and producer and "the most professional radio voice among us," Steve, all engage where the gospel intersects sexuality and gender. Mostly? The trio and their guests seek to place the sexuality/gender conversation in the midst of other real-life stories of the practical, gritty good news of the gospel.

To learn more about Laurie and Matt Krieg visit www.lauriekrieg.com.

Hole in My Heart Podcast Laurie and Matt Krieg

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The purpose of the Hole in My Heart Podcast is to explore how the gospel is good news for everyone every day. Most often, teacher and author, Laurie Krieg, licensed therapist and "argyle expert," Matt Krieg, and producer and "the most professional radio voice among us," Steve, all engage where the gospel intersects sexuality and gender. Mostly? The trio and their guests seek to place the sexuality/gender conversation in the midst of other real-life stories of the practical, gritty good news of the gospel.

To learn more about Laurie and Matt Krieg visit www.lauriekrieg.com.

    Episode 131: Season 3 Recap: Our Favorites and Yours with Matt and Laurie

    Episode 131: Season 3 Recap: Our Favorites and Yours with Matt and Laurie

    Guys! It's the season three finale!

    After walking through this episode, we felt this season gutted us in the best way and offered hope when we needed it.

    We did get practical (our theme this season), and we did get real (our constant desire).

    We were so grateful to listen back to highlight clips from some of our favorites and yours:

    1. Episode 99:A Gender Conversation Part 2 Heather Skriba
    2. Episode 92: Broken/Beloved Pastors Part 2 with Johnny and Amanda
    3. Episode 96: Healthy Friendship and Touch as a Single Person with Meg Baatz
    4.Episode 104: Practically Living Life in the Presence of God with Ken Boa
    5.Episode 109: When Life Doesn't Go as Planned with Sheridan Voysey
    6. Episode 128: Engaging Today's Suffering with Hope with Sam and Toni Collier
    7. Episode 116: Maturity is Not an Option with John Eldredge

    Join us as we pick up themes from each episode, and, of course, talk about how the gospel was good news for us this season.

    Thanks for being a part of the podcast fam, fam! See you in August!

    *You can find the links to all of the above episodes here: https://lauriekrieg.com/podcast/season-3-recap-our-favorites-and-yours/*

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    "I'm so glad that he's living in the open. And I know that pain of the deceit, and the having to hide and to mitigate every circumstance of being found out, and it's so much better on the other side." -Matt Krieg

    "Every one of us can take something away from that because we've all experience some kind of heartbreak, disappointment...whatever. And...that just really helped me to...look at it differently. And that's what intimacy with God does, it reframes that stuff." -Steve O'Dell

    "Let's get gritty...Let's turn into gold, because the fire's gonna hurt but if we're staying in the fire with Jesus and with each other, we are going to be gold." -Laurie Krieg


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    Watch this conversation: https://lauriekrieg.com/podcast/season-3-recap-our-favorites-and-yours/

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    Listen to Matt and Laurie's story here: https://lauriekrieg.com/podcast/matt-and-lauries-stories-rebooted-and-your-premarital-questions/

    And Producer Steve's story here: https://soundcloud.com/laurie-krieg/episode-5-producer-steves-story

    • 48 min
    Episode 130: Authentic Authenticity in Your Closest Relationships with Ryan Frederick

    Episode 130: Authentic Authenticity in Your Closest Relationships with Ryan Frederick

    *Real* talk: Authenticity seems to be currency we can "use" to deepen friendships, feel seen, or even to get more followers. 

    But that type of authenticity--that is an end in itself--isn't what we are calling "authentic authenticity." There is selfishness in it, and the fruit produced from it ... tastes gross.

    How can we and why should we be truly authentic? How can single people experience this? How can married people if their spouse is unwilling to go to the emotional depths? 

    Let's get this this real conversation rolling with author and Fierce Marriage creator, Ryan Frederick.

    *Note: The QOTW we give at the end of this episode was answered in 128. 128's is answered next week in 131. ;) Sorry about that!*

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    “The beauty of [speaking emotionally deep] is that it is not a skill that is un-learnable. It’s not something that people cannot overcome. The biggest hurdle is just the desire…until that desire is there, it’s like pulling teeth.” --Ryan Frederick

    “One of the biggest issues of our day and age and culture is not the conscious, ‘I’m burying this thing because I just don’t want to got here,’ it’s more, ‘I’m just so distracted I’m not even thinking about going there.’” --Ryan Frederick

    “Prayer is not nothing. What is prayer if it is not our expression of our need for God’s explicit intervention in our lives?” --Ryan Frederick

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    Watch this conversation!
    https://vimeo.com/430860353

    Check out Ryan and Selena's latest book See-Through Marriage here:
    https://seethroughbook.com/?utm_source=fiercemarriage.com

    Their Fierce Marriage site? Here:
    https://fiercemarriage.com

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    • 50 min
    Episode 129: Pride Month, Healthy Friendships--Your Q & A with Matt and Laurie Krieg

    Episode 129: Pride Month, Healthy Friendships--Your Q & A with Matt and Laurie Krieg

    Today is question and answer time with Matt and Laurie! We cover a lot including these questions:

    How did we first meet Steve?

    How do we handle Pride Month?

    How do we plan to address our mixed-orientation marriage with our kids?

    How can straight, single guys and girls be friends without the relationship getting weird?

    If we, as a married couple, invite a single person into our home how can we prevent it from becoming a situation where one of us falls in love with the single person?

    How can I care for my bisexual friend without compromising my beliefs or pushing my beliefs on her?

    How can I be committed to a worldview that has caused so much pain and depression for so many LGBTQ+ people?

    How do we grieve well—whether for trivial things or deep, human loss?

    Let's go, fam.

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    “It always has to be this recognition of what is good about Pride Month—about people being able to be open and not hidden. But there is also this sorrow: … the unity that comes from Pride Month is not oriented toward your relationship with God, it’s about something completely different.” —Matt

    “Ya’ll, we got to repent for the last x decades of idolatry of marriage, idolatry of sex in marriage, and really? Not honoring this thing that we have eye-rollingly said is ‘Every man’s battle, every woman’s battle,’ and ‘Oh, just hurry up and get hitched and put a ring on your lust.’” —Laurie

    “Yes, it costs LGBT+ people something to follow Jesus, but the gospel should cost all of us our lives. And if it is not, are we actually following Jesus?” —Laurie

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    Watch this conversation on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/428642123

    That BOGO deal for our Journey Well Study? (We will send you two for the price of one!)It's here:
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    We mention "Safe Place Prayer with Matt" podcast episode. It's here:
    https://soundcloud.com/laurie-krieg/bonus-safe-place-prayer-with-matt

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    • 50 min
    Episode 128: Engaging Today's Suffering with Hope with Sam and Toni Collier

    Episode 128: Engaging Today's Suffering with Hope with Sam and Toni Collier

    **FIRST: We have VIDEO!! WATCH this episode here: https://vimeo.com/426335066 **


    In the midst of national and global suffering, it seems almost wrong to put the word "hope" near it.

    However, pastor and author Sam Collier, alongside his wife and ministry leader, Toni Collier, know how to carry both hurt and hope in each hand.

    How can we do that, too?

    Just ... listen. 3


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    “It’s impossible to pursue justice without hope.” --Sam 

    “The gospel compels us to be one. I don’t think we get the luxury as believers to forfeit the fight of racism or anything that is keeping us apart. It is a gospel mandate. People say, ‘Just preach the gospel.’ This is the gospel.” —Sam

    “We all need to get into our brains the if we are to demand equality, fairness, and love for our own sphere of influence in the world, we dang sure better be willing to demand it and stand for it for everybody else.” —Toni

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    GO and preorder Sam's book! Find it here:
    https://www.samcollier.tv

    Broken Crayons Still Color page that Toni founded? Here:
    http://brkncrayons.com

    Follow them on the socials here and here:
    https://www.instagram.com/samcollier/
    https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier/

    That Journey Well Study we mention? Find it here:
    https://lauriekrieg.com/journey-well-study/

    • 52 min
    Episode 127: Countercultural Parenting and Discipling with Lee Neinhuis

    Episode 127: Countercultural Parenting and Discipling with Lee Neinhuis

    How would you respond if you found pornography on your kid's phone? (Listeners without kids but who are equally valuable disciple-makers: How would you recommend your friend respond to their kids if they found this?)

    Author and speaker, Lee Neinhuis, had to deal with this exact situation, and it taught her, her son, and her family a lot about grace and truth.

    But how do we engage not only this specific satiation, but how do we cultivate deep roots in our kids/friend's kids/youth group kids when they are growing up in this extremely challenging cultural context?

    Let's dive in.

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    "I know my own battle, I know my junk. I know what I think in my head ... They do not give you blinders when you head down the altar ... I notice all the same men the day before I got married, and I still feel attracted to them.  I still have to tell myself 'no' every day ... So, I'm just not surprised. I think if a parent doesn't spend some time exploring, 'What are you tempted toward?' and 'Where are you broken?' then this is going to catch them at a totally different level." --Lee Neinhuis

    "He has a testimony that involves [pornography]. I never would have wanted that, but I am so grateful that we fell in that pit, and we walked out as a family stronger." --Lee Neinhuis 

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    Find all of Lee's beautiful work here: http://LeeNienhuis.com

    Her book? Here: http://CounterculturalParenting.com

    Find that Mom's in Prayer Podcast and more here: http://momsinprayer.org

    Follow us and all of our own parenting/marriage madness on IG here: https://www.instagram.com/laurie_krieg/

    • 46 min
    Episode 126: Walking With Trauma While in a Traumatic Event with Mary DeMuth

    Episode 126: Walking With Trauma While in a Traumatic Event with Mary DeMuth

    Do you know anyone processing past trauma while muddling through this pandemic trauma?

    Maybe it is you? Maybe it is a friend? Maybe it will be someone you meet tomorrow?

    How can we hear and love them well? How can we care for ourselves if we have gone through pain in our past and things have resurfaced in the pandemic? How can we process how this season has been challenging for everyone--whether or not we have gone through another traumatic event?

    How can we process our pain?

    Speaker and author of "We Too," Mary DeMuth, has some tender, encouraging words for us today.

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    "Things that stay inside don't do well ... An untold story never heals." --Mary DeMuth

    "This is hard. Whether you have had trauma or not, this is hard.  But just because everyone is experiencing it doesn't mean it's not real to you." --Mary DeMuth

    "Err on the side of belief ... it's not up to you to try to dissect and try to figure out if it's true or not. If it isn't true it will come out in the end, but wouldn't you want your first response to be empathetic? Wouldn't that be Jesus' first response: empathy?" --Mary DeMuth

    "I try to look at [the healing journey] like an adventure because healing is difficult. If I look at healing like climbing Mount Rainier in Washington State, it seems a lot more interesting to me ... It's not going to be easy, it will be very difficult, but it's an adventure. Instead of dreading this fact that you had this flash of a memory, see it as a healing adventure." --Mary DeMuth

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    Explore more of Mary's resources related to "We Too" here: https://www.wetoo.org

    Find Mary's book, "We Too" here: https://www.amazon.com/We-Too-Church-Respond-Redemptively-ebook/dp/B07SSFSKYD/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=we+too&qid=1590153170&sr=8-2

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    • 44 min

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155 Ratings

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FAVORITE PODCAST LIST

Matt, Laurie, and Steve.

Ahh.

Take your ears on a magical, relaxing, hilarious vacation full of opinions, wisdom, snark, and wonderful growth. Their honesty, openness, and courage to keep sharing their story even when it’s hard will change so many hearts and minds and lead so many to the heart of the Father.

Goodness. Just listen.

Their honest and openness has seriously changed my life and my perspective. As a single female desiring to follow the way of Jesus and not feeling a desire to get married (took a lot of healing and reframing after I grew up in Christian/Disney culture OBSESSED with the idea ) this podcast has been such a breath of fresh air and life. All of us, surrendering our versions of broken sexuality to the Lord. Living out the Gospel in each of our own contexts. Following the counter-cultural Kingdom and the way of Jesus. Kicking butt. Taking names. Spreading the good news through our laid down lives. Laurie and Matt and Steve are the best.

Agh. They represent the Gospel so well. So uncompromising but so radically compassionate.

Trust me, add Hole In My Heart podcast to your daily commute or morning or food prep or bed time routine or WHEREVER you can fit it in your day. So great.

Aaaaaud ,

Thank you

Thank God. Thank God for you Laurie. You “get it” when it comes to talking about homosexuality in a hopeful and real yet non-creepy-scary-weird-churchy way. Thank God you can talk about this like a normal everyday topic. Thank God for your sense of humor. Living as a Christian with same sex attraction is not a death sentence and listening to your podcast reminds me of this! What a breath of fresh air and deep sigh of relief.

Merlion lah ,

Food for the soul

They ask the tough questions and have the candid conversations to help you listen and take stock of where your heart and faith are at. So very meaningful and needed in these times.

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