20 episodes

The Down ad Dirty swinger podcast is an informative platform to help other couples who are new or considering joining our swinger community. We'll discuss events and parties, while helping others navigate this complex social and sexual adventure. We'll offer not only our own, but our trusted friend's personal experiences and insights about the swinger lifestyle for today’s sex-positive couples.

The Down and Dirty The Down and Dirty

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.4 • 13 Ratings

The Down ad Dirty swinger podcast is an informative platform to help other couples who are new or considering joining our swinger community. We'll discuss events and parties, while helping others navigate this complex social and sexual adventure. We'll offer not only our own, but our trusted friend's personal experiences and insights about the swinger lifestyle for today’s sex-positive couples.

    From Vanilla to Swinging: A Journey of Sexual Exploration

    From Vanilla to Swinging: A Journey of Sexual Exploration

    Recorded in Sioux Falls, South Dakota with real couples attending the Eye Candy event on May 4, 2024. Couples from Minnesota, South Dakota, North Dakota, Iowa, and Nebraska!



    This conversation explores the experiences and perspectives of a couple in the swinging lifestyle. They discuss how they got into swinging, their fantasies, and their journey of sexual exploration. They also touch on topics such as body confidence, the stigma around swinging, and the importance of open communication in a relationship. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with the couple sharing anecdotes and answering fun questions. In this conversation, the hosts ask the couple if they have any questions for them. The couple discusses their masturbation habits and preferences, as well as their plans to attend swinging parties. They also talk about their Enneagram types and guilty pleasures. The hosts share their wildest sexual experiences and discuss their favorite types of cheese. The conversation ends with the hosts asking the couple about their sexual superpowers.



    Sponsored by: CouplesNextDoror.com

    Hosted by: Ruby & Fox

    Production/Editing by: The TA aka MrOpen

    • 55 min
    Desk of the TA: Listener Survey & Special Membership Deal!

    Desk of the TA: Listener Survey & Special Membership Deal!

    The TA announces a survey for listeners to provide feedback on the podcast. They also promote an upcoming event and offer a special membership deal. The conversation covers topics such as lifestyle preferences, event attendance, and the benefits of joining CouplesNextDoor.
    SURVEY LINK: https://forms.gle/hnAnsGJbKW9nZcbJ8

    PROMO CODE for 3 free months of membership to CouplesNextDoor.com for new members good for the month of May 2024 only: PODCAST524

    Produced/Edited by TA aka MrOpen

    • 5 min
    Exploring Enneagram Types in the Lifestyle

    Exploring Enneagram Types in the Lifestyle

    Guest: Lindsay aka FifthElement

    In this conversation, Ruby and Lindsay discuss the Enneagram, a model of human psychology and personality theory. They explain that each person has a unique Enneagram type, which is like a suit of armor that shapes the way they see the world and themselves. There are nine primary types, each characterized by a combination of strengths, weaknesses, motivations, fears, and triggers. Understanding your Enneagram type can help you understand your core motivations and emotions, and can be a powerful tool for personal growth and self-awareness. It can also help in the lifestyle by improving communication and understanding between partners and other people in the community. In this conversation, Ruby and Fox discuss the Enneagram personality types and how they relate to the lifestyle. They explore each type and how it may manifest in the lifestyle, as well as the importance of communication and self-awareness in the lifestyle. They also touch on the role of emotions, particularly anger, in their own experiences. Overall, they emphasize the value of understanding oneself and others in order to have a better experience in the lifestyle.

    Online Enneagram Test: The Enneagram Personality Test

    Sponsors: CouplesNextDoor.com

    Contact Ruby and Fox at RUBYFOX@THEDOWNANDDIRTYPODCAST.COM

    Produced/Edited by Mr. Open aka Teachers Assistant (TA)

    • 56 min
    Swinging Seasons: Exploring White Chocolate Summer Nights

    Swinging Seasons: Exploring White Chocolate Summer Nights

    Guest: The Professor aka Mr. WhiteChocolate



    This bonus episode of the Down and Dirty Podcast explores the White Chocolate Summer Nights event series exclusively found on couplesnextdoor.com. The hosts discuss the swinging seasons and the upcoming Little Black Dress event. They provide insights on attire suggestions for the event and discuss potential themes for future events. They also mention their upcoming attendance at the Eye Candy event in Sioux Falls. The episode concludes with a reminder to follow and support the podcast.


    If you have suggestions or topics for future episodes, be sure to email them to RUBYFOX@THEDOWNANDDIRTYPODCAST.COM

    • 15 min
    Love Languages Unwrapped: Communication Secrets in the Lifestyle

    Love Languages Unwrapped: Communication Secrets in the Lifestyle

    Guest: FifthElement aka Lindsay, Licensed Therapist



    In this conversation, Fox discusses a communication technique called parroting, which involves repeating a portion of what someone says in an inquisitive tone to prompt them to elaborate. The technique can help improve communication and redirect conversations. The conversation then transitions to a discussion on love languages, specifically words of affirmation and acts of service. Ruby and Lindsay share their experiences and preferences with these love languages and discuss how they can be applied in the lifestyle. In this conversation, Ruby, Lindsay, and Fox discuss the love languages of the lifestyle. They explore the different ways people express and receive love, focusing on acts of service, receiving gifts, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation. They share personal experiences and preferences within each love language, highlighting the importance of consent and understanding individual boundaries. The conversation emphasizes the need for thoughtfulness, consideration, and communication in building connections and creating meaningful experiences in the lifestyle.



    Sponsors: CouplesNextDoor.com

    Contact Ruby and Fox at RUBYFOX@THEDOWNANDDIRTYPODCAST.COM

    • 51 min
    Exploring Desires: New Couples, Fantasies, and Go-Go Bags

    Exploring Desires: New Couples, Fantasies, and Go-Go Bags

    In this episode of the Down and Dirty Podcast, the hosts interview two couples who are new to the lifestyle. They discuss body language, flirting, favorite porn categories, and play fun games. The couples also share their experiences and answer questions about their swinger spouses. The episode ends with a catch-up session and random questions. In this episode, the hosts and guests discuss various topics related to open relationships and swinging. They explore attraction and fantasies, including the idea of couples being attracted to other couples. The conversation takes a playful turn as they imagine having a second penis and discuss their preferences. They also talk about go-go bags and must-have items for sexual adventures. The guests share their experiences with pegging, condoms, and the transition from soft swap to full swap. The conversation delves into kinkiness, safe words, and the importance of communication in relationships. They also touch on the benefits of cannabis and the significance of nutrition. The episode concludes with a quick-fire round of questions and a discussion on observing partners in the lifestyle.



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    Guest Members:


    Jelly
    Grovecurious
    Mplscuriouscouple
    Afterglow
    openflow



    Sponsors: CouplesNextDoor.com

    • 55 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
13 Ratings

13 Ratings

Voneber ,

Great Podcast!

Fox and Ruby give great information in their first ever podcast . It was good hearing from the “Professor” on how CND came into existence and their thoughts for newbies and types of events they liked the most and why. I look forward to the next episode! Thanks for putting this on Apple Podcasts!

- K from It’sComplicated

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