Conversations with H.E.R‪.‬ Malane Shani

In this enlightening episode of Conversations with Her hosted by Felicia Harlow of the Her First Collective, we explore the transformative potential of the five senses—smell, touch, vision, taste, and feeling—in making decisions that support your overall well-being and foster resilience. Join us as we delve into the profound connection between sensory experiences and mental and emotional wellness, and uncover practical strategies for harnessing this wisdom in your daily life.

Discover how each sense holds unique insights and cues that can inform your choices and promote balance in your mental and emotional landscape. From the calming scent of lavender to the soothing sensation of a warm embrace, we explore how sensory experiences can offer solace and support in times of stress and uncertainty.

Join for Season 2, Episode 7 of Conversations with Her Podcast as we explore the seven key areas of self-love essential for magnetizing your ideal partner. This episode features Amber Shani of the Her First Collective, offering insightful commentary and sharing gems from Malane Shani's original Clubhouse episode.

Discover how self-acceptance, embracing your uniqueness, practicing self-care, setting internal boundaries, cultivating self-confidence, expressing gratitude, and maintaining a positive mindset can transform your aura and draw your soulmate closer. By prioritizing these aspects of self-love, you'll not only enhance your attractiveness but also elevate your self-value and self-respect.

Tune in as we navigate the journey of building a foundation of love within yourself, empowering you to choose relationships that align with your true essence, rather than seeking validation from external sources. Whether you're single and seeking love or already in a relationship, this episode offers invaluable wisdom for cultivating a fulfilling and authentic connection.

Welcome to Episode 6, Season 2 of Conversations with Her Podcast.


Are you prepared to receive the love you have been asking for?In this empowering episode of Conversations with HER, Rosalyn and Katessa of the Her First Collective delve into the essential steps to prepare yourself for love, particularly for women 40+ who are unmarried or divorced and navigating the dating world.

They explore the importance of deepening self-love and strengthening your spiritual connection as foundational pillars for inviting love into your life. Through this candid discussion, Rosalyn and Katessa tackle the myths surrounding dating and relationships, offering refreshing perspectives and insightful truths. From debunking societal pressures on women over 40 to embracing personal growth within relationships, Rosalyn and Katessa guide listeners through the process of redefining love and romance on their own terms.Discover how to trust yourself, prioritize inner work, and view relationships as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Tune in to this illuminating episode of Conversations with Her and embark on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and readiness for love.

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 5 of the Conversations with Her Podcast. Join us in this empowering episode, titled "What You Need to Know in 2024," where Malane Shani and the Her First Collective share their lessons learned in the transformative year of 2023.

In this engaging conversation, our panelists explore a range of powerful lessons, from learning to trust oneself to the art of letting go. Discover the importance of embracing change and allowing oneself to pivot when necessary. Gain insights into the nuances of building meaningful relationships by delving into a person's character rather than merely focusing on their likes and dislikes.


As we step into the new year, this episode serves as a guide for women seeking wisdom and inspiration. Each speaker provides practical tips derived from their own experiences, offering you tangible advice to apply in your life throughout 2024.

Whether you're looking to enhance your personal growth, strengthen your relationships, or navigate the complexities of business, this podcast episode offers guidance and empowerment.

Welcome to Conversations with Her Podcast: Season 2, Episode 4

Join us for an intimate and empowering episode with Felicia Harlow of Her First Collective as she defines resilience and shares her personal journey of turning adversity into a source of profound resilience and inner strength.

In this episode, you'll discover that self-care is not an indulgence but a profound investment in one's well-being. It is the toolkit for turning pain into power, offering a roadmap for resilience and inner strength that can guide anyone through life's tumultuous terrain.


As Felicia shares her story and the self-care practices that carried her through difficult times, you'll be inspired to embrace your own vulnerabilities, navigate through the storms, and emerge with a newfound resilience that can weather any challenge.

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 3 of Conversations with Her Podcast!


In this episode, hosts Felicia and Katessa discuss the important role teachers play in planting seeds of empowerment in children. As experienced schoolteachers and educators, they've found that the most impactful teaching approach is one that is founded on love and authentic connection. This lesson rings true not only in the field of education, but in all areas of life. By sourcing love rather than fear, stress or anxiety, you can make an impact in even the most challenging situations.

Felicia and Katessa also acknowledge the challenges posed by technology and restrictions on teachers, drawing parallels to the obstacles one might encounter in their own pursuit of personal empowerment. Discover how navigating these challenges, much like educators do in the classroom, can be the key to unlocking your full potential.