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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

    What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24

    What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24

    Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 7/12/2020
    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss another article published by Cosmopolitan about BDSM switches

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24
    “Let's Discuss What You Need to Know About Being a BDSM Switch: It's like a lil bit of dominant + a lil bit of submissive” by Rachel Varina, Nov 20, 2020
    - https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34740571/what-is-a-switch-bdsm/
    - “A top is simply someone who leads/guides the scene and the bottom is there to receive the experience,” explains Mistress Rogue, professional dominatrix and headmistress of The Dom House. (The dominant and submissive terms can also be used when there’s a power dynamic as well.) And while you might be most familiar with what a dominant and submissive do, there’s another term you might not be as familiar with: a switch. Let's dive deeper.

    - What is a BDSM switch?

    - How do you know if you're a switch?

    - What are the perks of switching?

    - Are there any downsides or risks?

    - Now, here's how to try switching for the first time

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    • 1 hr 32 min
    Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23

    Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23

    Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 6/25/2021

    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience and caution sent in by a listener telling his personal recent experience with red flags and respecting boundaries.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23
    - A listener message titled “Want to Say Thank You” sent to me by CourtsDom69 on December 6, 2020.
    - Kuldrin,
    I wanted to take a minute and say thank you. I grew up ultra vanilla and found myself at age 44 in a relationship with a more experienced partner, OopsCourtDidIt exploring areas of sexuality I never knew existed.
    Courtney had been expressing a desire for BDSM play and told me about her past experiences in the lifestyle. Being eager to please her, I began to do research and learn what I could. I was blown away by the amount of BDSM stuff available on the web (I have never watched 50 shades!)
    Thankfully, I came across your Podcast which has been my predominant source of information.
    Court and I discussed options for play and learning and were both interested in being dominated by a male and a female, I wanted to experience being a bottom/submissive to fully appreciate that aspect from a multisensory perspective.
    We both had reached out to perspective dominant types to engage them in discussion to see if there was an interest, we found one person that was local. The relationship started by Courtney expressing our desires and my willingness to learn and this couple had a dominant husband who liked the idea.
    We decided to meet for dinner one evening a couple of weeks ago to talk and exchange thoughts. The dominant's wife would not be joining the dinner and had started a new relationship with another dominant outside of their marriage, she wasn't able to connect to her husband as a complete submissive and wanted to explore this dynamic.
    I expressed to Courtney that I still wanted to remain focused on what we initially discussed regarding both being dominated. Will, the dominant suggested another female play partner attend the dinner to see what developed.
    In the first meeting with Will, he brought Courtney a dozen roses, an app-controlled vibrator, a handmade wooden paddle, and a professionally bound BDSM contract. The dinner went okay and I had good conversations with both Will and Sasha whom Will had invited.
    Will appeared very confident in his domination experience and I could see Courtney was excited at this prospect, so I remained open-minded. Will also had an app that he used with Courtney called Obedience, complete with goals, rewards, and punishments, I found it very interesting and it helped me understand some of the beneficial psychology of a Dom/Sub dynamic and it helped me understand how to start, progress and end a scene.
    I was not overly comfortable with the dynamic Will wanted with Courtney, I did remain open-minded and in good communication with Courtney. The first time I sat down to review the "contract" I physically got sick to my stomach. I hated just about everything that was in there and as much as I tried, I couldn't shake the feeling. I wrestled with exactly what I was feeling and knew what some of my reservations were and could only describe my feelings as "being put onto a rollercoaster that had previously crashed on me twice, killing two relationships".
    I was married twice before...

    • 1 hr 33 min
    Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

    Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

    Recorded: 11/29/2020 /  Published: 6/11/2021
    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true.
    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2) KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3) “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - Four Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

    - Original Article by Canela López and Julia Naftulin Nov 16, 2020

    -(https://www.insider.com/myths-about-bdsm-according-to-kink-specialists-2020-2?fbclid=IwAR3-QNCNawRCIv0MZe0pRZQknCIh3zg8UdBzSybgRIwdVGIzipz0beTxMjo)

    Here are some of the biggest myths about BDSM, according to kink experts. 

    1: Myth: People who like BDSM are sexual deviants and freaks.
    - Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly condemned by the general public, people who engage in BDSM, kink, and fetish sex have historically been seen as weird or grotesque.

    2: Myth: People who like BDSM are traumatized.
    - One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM and kink sex is that people who enjoy it must have been victims of childhood abuse or trauma. 

    3: Myth: All BDSM has a dominatrix and a submissive.
    - BDSM sexual and lifestyle practices vary greatly beyond the dominatrix and submissive dynamic, including humiliation (being mocked by degrading language), electroplay (being shocked by an electrical source), and gagging. 

    4: Myth: BDSM is just about sex.
    - While sexual dynamics are oftentimes between two people, people who engage in BDSM or fetish sex can form larger communities of support — making their sexual practices go beyond sex. 

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    - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
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    • 1 hr 31 min
    Five Questions to ask a potential Dom,sub, or Play Partner-S03E21

    Five Questions to ask a potential Dom,sub, or Play Partner-S03E21

    Recorded: 11/22/2020 / Published: 5/24/2021
    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21
    - Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.
    - What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?
    - Respectfulness
    - Playful
    - Obedient
    - Friendly
    - Demanding
    - Nurturing
    - Sadistic
    - Exhibition
    - What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?
    - Respect
    - Obedience
    - Thoughtfulness
    - Communication
    - Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation
    - Masochist
    - Alpha sub
    - Loyalty
    - Community service
    - What are characteristics in others that turn you off?
    - Lack of communication
    - Brats
    - Doormat subs
    - Arrogance

    - Now that you have a little better understanding of yourself it’s time to find out a little more about that potential Dom/sub/play partner.
    1: What kinds of scenes turn you on?
    2: What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/sub/play partner?
    3: What experience do you have in power exchange?
    4: What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant/play partner?
    5: What are things that you haven’t tried but would like to?

    Important Links:
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    Show Producers:
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
    - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
    - Master Producer ($50/month):
    - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
    - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
    - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, and WyldThyme & Deacon Sean
    - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
    Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon

    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
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    • 1 hr 26 min
    Trauma Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20

    Trauma Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20

    Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published to Podcast: 5/17/2021

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!

    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com

    Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - WARNING: Potential trigger risks ahead. Listen at your own risk.

    - “Trauma and Community: Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20”
    - By xEmeraldxWolfx https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/6698137
    - I recently attended a munch where part of the focus of conversation revolved around trauma. How we handle it, the mindset we have, where we can get stuck, and just the general approach different people have. I am sure we can all identify or are familiar with people in the various stages or mindsets of processing trauma. The stages were outlined as victim, survivor, and acceptance. Most of us can look back at our lives and recognize when we have experienced one mindset or another, but for some reason, some people never move on from one or another and get stuck there. I am not an expert and I don’t think I can relate to what was explained in a clear concise manner. That being said, this is my understanding of the 3 stages and I wanted to get them out, get some feedback, and see if others have anything to add.

    - Why did you write this?
    - Has there been any blowback from posting it?
    - We’ve all experienced some level of trauma: death of a loved one, physical and/or emotional abuse, sexual assault, violation of limits, etc. 
    - A: What do you think lies within those who are able to move past it and into acceptance?
    - B: What do you think it is about the victim and survivor mentalities that cause people to get stuck here?
    - Do you think it is possible for people to move forward if they have plateaued in one of those two mentalities?
    What is your biggest piece of advice when talking with people that seem to “stuck” as a victim or as a survivor?

    Important Links:
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    Show Producers:
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    -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
    -Master Producer ($50/month): 
    -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
    -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
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    • 1 hr 27 min
    Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19

    Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19

    Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published: 05/06/2021

    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 

    - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair.

    - Next week Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!

    Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19”

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/319 
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 

    Show Producers:
    -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
    -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
    -Master Producer ($50/month): 
    -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
    -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
    -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, and MsRedSin & AJRJ
    -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie

    Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon

    Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
    - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
    - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
    - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
    - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
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    Contact info:
    Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
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    • 1 hr 37 min

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