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Grief is messy. It's the opposite of linear. It can be dark and wacky, lonely or not, love-filled or seemingly lacking - but it is so very alive. No two people experience this process in quite the same way. These episodes are conversation starters for dealing with dying, death, and grief, part therapy and part storytelling in disguise. They'll shine a light, giving you hope and understanding of how others have managed their grief. Also, they are an insightful guide to life's many losses. You don't have to struggle alone? Please connect anne@understandinggrief.com at https://www.understandinggrief.com

Let's Talk About Grief With Anne Anne DeButte

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 20 Ratings

Grief is messy. It's the opposite of linear. It can be dark and wacky, lonely or not, love-filled or seemingly lacking - but it is so very alive. No two people experience this process in quite the same way. These episodes are conversation starters for dealing with dying, death, and grief, part therapy and part storytelling in disguise. They'll shine a light, giving you hope and understanding of how others have managed their grief. Also, they are an insightful guide to life's many losses. You don't have to struggle alone? Please connect anne@understandinggrief.com at https://www.understandinggrief.com

    Jonathan Fleece - Why End-of-Life Conversations Matter

    Jonathan Fleece - Why End-of-Life Conversations Matter

    Hello listeners, thank you for joining us. We'll discuss end-of-life conversations and their importance. I hope you agree that you need to be aware of this!

    However, I am certain others will think, "Oh, I don't need to listen to this. I don't need this yet." Please, before you go, I would love you to stick around just a little bit longer to hear what my guest, Jonathan Fleece, has to say about his company, Empath Health, one of the country's largest not-for-profit health systems, delivering non-acute care services in the US.

    There is also a link to a newly released film called Suncoast. Jonathan is the Empath president and, as I've mentioned, a CEO. I'm looking forward to discussing how this organization and the unique connection came about. 

    As this levels, many areas that somebody going through grief, anticipatory grief is likely to experience, and just why having an end-of-life conversation with our loved ones is so very important. 
     
    Here's what we talk about:
    Jonathan's personal experience of losing a loved one led him to dedicate his life's work to end-of-life care.End-of-life conversations and their importanceAddressing the multidimensional nature of grief to support individuals and families in their journey.The film 'Suncoast' and its impactAnd much more! 
    Connect with Jonathan Fleece!
    Website: https://empathhealth.org/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/empath-health/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/empathhealthInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/empathhealth/Twitter: https://twitter.com/i/flow/login?redirect_after_login=%2FempathhealthVideo Short Film Suncoast - (Empath's Health connection to film) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeQGCLOxh2g 

    You don't have to grieve alone, as a coach I can help support you. To discover how grief coaching can help you please book a FREE call with me

    To access your FREE resource 12 Ways to Heal https://www.understandinggrief.com
    Connect with me:
    Website: https://www.understandinggrief.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedebutte
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reconnectfromgrief

    • 50 min
    Dr. Keith McNally - Rising Above Feelings of Worthlessness

    Dr. Keith McNally - Rising Above Feelings of Worthlessness

    Welcome everyone to our heartfelt space, where we weave hope, wisdom, compassion, and an understanding into the fabric of our conversation about one of life's most profound challenges - grief and loss. We recognize that few experiences come as deeply as the pain of losing a loved one, especially when the loss comes at the hand of a silent battle with inner demons. 

    Today, we're going to be stepping into that realm often shrouded in silence and taboo, the heart-wrenching topic of suicide.

    We're engaging in a candid conversation with Dr. Keith McNally, whose multifaceted life story includes surviving suicide, as well, if that wasn't enough, a heart attack. Among his many pursuits, now, he is aiming to support suicide survivors, as well as their families.

    Our guest has a diverse professional background as a social worker, a Doctorate in Educational Leadership, and a survivor's testimony. He also brings a wealth of insight into the labyrinth of human suffering and resilience. And I'd love you to warmly welcome Dr. Keith McNally to our show today!
     
    Here's what we talk about:
    The internal conflicts and struggles faced by individuals dealing with suicidal thoughts.What strategies does Dr. McNally employ to cope with suicidal thoughts?Emotional or psychological states might indicate that someone is at risk of suicidal ideation.What are some common misconceptions or myths surrounding suicide?And much more! 
     Connect with Dr. Keith McNally!
    Website: https://www.drkeithmcnally.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drkeithmcnally/Envision Speakers Series - Exploring the Depths of Health and Happiness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-iktqQp-FG0

    You don't have to grieve alone, as a coach I can help support you. To discover how grief coaching can help you please book a FREE call with me

    To access your FREE resource 12 Ways to Heal https://www.understandinggrief.com
    Connect with me:
    Website: https://www.understandinggrief.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedebutte
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reconnectfromgrief

    • 57 min
    Dr. Paul Martin - How Rituals Illuminate the Intricate Path of Grief and Healing

    Dr. Paul Martin - How Rituals Illuminate the Intricate Path of Grief and Healing

    Hello, everyone. I'm thrilled to be here today with our guest, Paul Martin, a highly respected psychologist renowned for his clinical expertise in working with bereaved clients. 

    Today, we will be discussing rituals and how they can support us during this time of grief. 

    Paul has authored a compelling book on the profound impact of that topic which explores how unique expressions of loss and meaningful acts of mourning can guide individuals through the grieving process. 

    With his wealth of knowledge and compassionate approach, I'm certain he'll share his invaluable insights into the intricate journey of grief and healing and how rituals can help!
     
    Here's what we talk about:
    Personal grief rituals and their purpose.In what ways do rituals offer comfort and solace to a person experiencing grief?The rapid societal changes have caused ancient customs and rituals to fade away.Cultural expectations and personal expressions may conflict, contributing to the complexity of the grieving process.And much more! 
     Connect with Dr. Paul Martin!
    The Centre for Grief and Recovery and Therapeutic Services: https://www.griefcounselor.org/about-the-center/our-therapists/Check out Dr. Paul Martin's book, Personal Grief Rituals - Creating Unique Expressions of Loss and Meaningful Acts of Mourning in Clinical or Private Settings, on Amazon! https://amzn.to/3SVs4oI Also available on Routledge, https://bit.ly/3P04ar0, and on Barnes & Noble https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/personal-grief-rituals-paul-m-martin/1141284454 

    You don't have to grieve alone, as a coach I can help support you. To discover how grief coaching can help you please book a FREE call with me

    To access your FREE resource 12 Ways to Heal https://www.understandinggrief.com
    Connect with me:
    Website: https://www.understandinggrief.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedebutte
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reconnectfromgrief

    • 57 min
    Kim Sorrelle - Finding Light in Grief: Embracing Love and Resilience After Loss

    Kim Sorrelle - Finding Light in Grief: Embracing Love and Resilience After Loss

    Hello, everyone and I'm so grateful you're joining us today.

    Once more, I am honored to introduce our remarkable guest, Kim Sorrelle. She's the author of two books and a speaker whose life shows great resilience in the selfless pursuit of love and light through many dark times.

    Her first book was Cry Until You Laugh, and her latest one is Love Is. It's not just a narrative about a journey that searches for the essence of love amidst profound loss. And I can't help but think how timely, Kim, we're doing this in February, the month of love. 
     
    Here's what we talk about:
    Kim's thoughtful perspective on why good people sometimes face adversity in life.How does Kim cope with the dual challenges of managing her health and providing emotional support to her husband as they both face cancer diagnoses?Grieving the loss of a loved one to suicide is a distinct and challenging journey.Kim found solace in love and resilience, forging a path forward amid the darkness of grief.And much more! 
    Connect with Kim Sorrelle!
    Website: https://www.kimsorrelle.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/loveisbykim | https://www.facebook.com/ksorrelleLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-langlois-sorrelle-11079523/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimsorrelle/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCa097sxQXqa9Oafbay9FCiwBold Brave TV Show link on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=bold+brave+tv+heart+%26+soulLove Is: A Yearlong Experiment in Living Out 1 Corinthians 13 Love, on Amazon https://amzn.to/48lauQC.Cry Until You Laugh: Real Love Real Pain Real Funny, on Amazon https://amzn.to/3HXFXxx.

    You don't have to grieve alone, as a coach I can help support you. To discover how grief coaching can help you please book a FREE call with me

    To access your FREE resource 12 Ways to Heal https://www.understandinggrief.com
    Connect with me:
    Website: https://www.understandinggrief.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedebutte
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reconnectfromgrief

    • 56 min
    Harnessing Positive Intelligence: A Game-Changing Approach to Navigate Grief

    Harnessing Positive Intelligence: A Game-Changing Approach to Navigate Grief

    Welcome to our show today, listeners. This is Anne, your host. 

    In today's episode, I want to talk to you about mental fitness, grieving a loss, and the support of Positive Intelligence. 

    I will introduce you to something that you may find rather alarming or fascinating. But anyway, we're going to be talking about the saboteurs and the sage. 

    So, I hope you'll stay with me as we continue our journey into healing! 
     
    Here's what we talk about:
    Positive Intelligence equips individuals with the mental tools needed to navigate the complexities of the grieving process.Recognizing and identifying our saboteurs is crucial for self-awareness and positive change.What other characters team up with saboteurs?How does embracing the sage within help you be authentic during grieving?And much more!You don't have to grieve alone, as a coach I can help support you. To discover how grief coaching can help you please book a FREE call with me

    To access your FREE resource 12 Ways to Heal https://www.understandinggrief.com
    Connect with me:
    Website: https://www.understandinggrief.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedebutte
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reconnectfromgrief

    • 35 min
    Jason Pike - Beyond the Battlefield: A Soldier's Story of Survival and Inspiration

    Jason Pike - Beyond the Battlefield: A Soldier's Story of Survival and Inspiration

    Welcome, listeners. And I'm thrilled to introduce our next guest, retired Lieutenant Colonel Jason Pike, a decorated combat veteran. He's the author of A Soldier Against All Odds, and I hope you'll stick around for this very inspiring conversation. In his captivating memoirs, Jason shares his remarkable journey of resilience and triumph, and he has faced imaginable adversity while serving his country, and it didn't all come from the enemy. A pivotal moment in Jason's life occurred when his father died shortly before his deployment overseas.

    Struggling to navigate the depths of grief, he found himself confronted by the destructive actions of someone he served with who maligned his character and identity. Yet, in the face of such adversity, Jason managed to grieve his loss and remained steadfast in his commitment to his duties, ensuring the safety and well-being of the men who served under him.

    As I've mentioned, A Soldier Against All Odds is where Jason will dive deep into his profound challenges. It will offer us valuable insight, dear listeners, into how one can endure heartache, fulfill responsibilities, and emerge even stronger than before. Through his indomitable spirit, Jason's story serves as a beacon of hope for anyone grappling with loss and adversity and questioning their ability to persevere.
     
    Here's what we talk about:
    Jason's commitment to self-improvement contributed to his success in navigating military challenges.How did Jason seek support or resources to handle the challenges of his disability while writing his book?Balancing civilian life while carrying military experiences and values.How did Jason's colleagues contribute to his ability to handle grief while serving in the military?And much more!   
    Connect with Jason Pike!
    Website: https://www.jasonpike.org/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-pike-7b6774137/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jasonpike.orgInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorjasonpike/

    You don't have to grieve alone, as a coach I can help support you. To discover how grief coaching can help you please book a FREE call with me

    To access your FREE resource 12 Ways to Heal https://www.understandinggrief.com
    Connect with me:
    Website: https://www.understandinggrief.com
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annedebutte
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/reconnectfromgrief

    • 53 min

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Wonderful Interviewer!

It was an honor and a pleasure to experience Anne as a podcast interviewer recently. She asks thoughtful questions and makes helpful connections that lead to powerful insights. I look forward to listening to more episodes. Thank you, Anne!

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Great conversations!

Anne does such a great job to prepare and ask informed and thought-provoking questions. She cares and wants to help others and this a great platform to do so.

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Anne is such a thoughtful & kind host

I had the great privilege of chatting with Anne on her podcast about my work as a mental health advocate—a topic that’s so sensitive and tender on our hearts—and Anne was so amazingly thoughtful and gracious. Her kind soul makes you feel like you're sitting with an old friend and just sharing what’s in your heart.

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