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Ready to work on yourself, supercharge your life and create the love, happiness, and success you truly deserve? Join me, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, your trusty guide on this transformative journey!

In every episode, you'll discover the secrets to incredible relationships, authentic happiness, life-changing personal growth, the dream career you've been longing for, and how to create all the good stuff life has to offer.

As a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified coach, and the visionary behind GrowingSelf.com, I'm on a mission to light up your path to greatness. Every single week, we dive deep into your burning questions, chat with inspiring experts, and serve up fresh, actionable ideas for you to put into practice.

Don't miss out on your chance to level up your life! Tune in and let's co-create the love, happiness, and success story you've always dreamed of. It's time to unleash your potential! 💫🎙️

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 762 Ratings

Ready to work on yourself, supercharge your life and create the love, happiness, and success you truly deserve? Join me, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, your trusty guide on this transformative journey!

In every episode, you'll discover the secrets to incredible relationships, authentic happiness, life-changing personal growth, the dream career you've been longing for, and how to create all the good stuff life has to offer.

As a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified coach, and the visionary behind GrowingSelf.com, I'm on a mission to light up your path to greatness. Every single week, we dive deep into your burning questions, chat with inspiring experts, and serve up fresh, actionable ideas for you to put into practice.

Don't miss out on your chance to level up your life! Tune in and let's co-create the love, happiness, and success story you've always dreamed of. It's time to unleash your potential! 💫🎙️

    #410: It's Okay to Be AMAZING! How to Stop Playing Small...

    #410: It's Okay to Be AMAZING! How to Stop Playing Small...

    🔥 STOP PLAYING SMALL! 🔥 Discover the secrets to growing more confident and comfortable with putting yourself out there. 🌟
    Are you constantly minimizing yourself, feeling guilty for setting boundaries, or believing that good things are meant for others but not for you? If so, it's time to break free from these limiting beliefs and start living unapologetically! In this powerful episode, we dive deep into why we play small and how to overcome it, empowering you to step into your greatness.
    Today I'm sharing actionable strategies and inspiring insights to help you become your own hero. Whether it's in your relationships, career, or personal growth, it's crucial to stop playing small and start believing in your worth. Today's episode will help you do that! 💪✨
    Xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
    GrowingSelf.com
    PS: Is this an issue for you? Want to talk about it?? Join me on this week’s livestream to share your story and get advice for how to STOP feeling guilty about being your awesome self. Jump in at 12 pm MT on 7/18, or submit your question in advance here: https://www.growingself.com/dear-lisa
    #StopPlayingSmall #SelfEmpowerment #Confidence #SelfLove #PersonalGrowth #GrowingSelf
     
     
    Timestamps / Chapters
    02:15 – Signs You’re Playing Small
    10:45 – Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
    20:30 – Strategies for Self-Empowerment
    30:00 – Free Resources and Next Steps
     

    • 35 min
    #409: Feeling Unheard in a Relationship? Try This!

    #409: Feeling Unheard in a Relationship? Try This!

    One of my listeners wrote in saying, "Dear Lisa,  https://www.growingself.com/feeling-unheard-in-relationship right now. I try to talk about how I feel, but I'm just not getting through. It seems like my partner is either not hearing me or not understanding me, and I feel so lonely. How do I change this situation?"
    Honestly: This is one of the most common issues I hear about as a marriage counselor. In today’s podcast, I’m diving into why you might feel unheard in your relationship and sharing practical strategies to change that dynamic.
    If this resonates with you, stick around because here’s what you’ll learn today:
    The common reasons behind feeling unheard.
    The impact of emotionally invalidating communication.
    How to engage in communication that fosters emotional intimacy.
    Practical tips and strategies to improve listening and being heard.
    For even more insights, read the full article here.
    💬 Also, Join the Conversation! Let's talk about YOU! 💬 I’m hosting a live Q&A session every Thursday at 12 PM Mountain (2 PM Eastern) where I'll answer your questions about feeling heard in your relationship. Join me live on YouTube, Facebook, or Instagram. You can submit your questions in advance here: https://www.growingself.com/dear-lisa
    📘 Free Resource Alert! 📘 As I discussed in this episode, to help you even more, I’ve created a free two-part training series called “Communication that Connects.” This series includes:
    Two 45-minute training sessions
    A 30-page workbook filled with exercises and activities
    Sign up for FREE at growingself.com/communication I made this for you!
    Thank you so much for tuning in today. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe. I look forward to helping you create more love, happiness, and success in your life!
    xo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
     

    • 32 min
    #408 — Are You In an Enmeshed Relationship? What to Do!

    #408 — Are You In an Enmeshed Relationship? What to Do!

    Is your relationship emotionally enmeshed? If it is... you probably don't realize it! So how can you know? And what can you do about it? Tune into this one to find out!
    On this episode, we're talking about what emotional enmeshment is, and how you can untangle your heart strings and create a better relationship in the process. 
    When couples are struggling with communication or conflict, emotional enmeshment is often the root issue. Once you address the enmeshment, your entire relationship can feel lighter and more enjoyable. But first you have to recognize enmeshment for what it is, and this episode will show you the way!
    Tune in to learn: 
    What an emotionally enmeshed relationship looks like (the answer may surprise you!) The difference between emotional enmeshment and emotional intimacy Why emotional enmeshment is a big problem in relationships How to fix an enmeshed relationship and build a healthier connection. And more! 
    If you're wondering about enmeshment in your relationship, you can take my free "How Healthy Is Your Relationship Quiz" and learn more: https://www.growingself.com/relationship-quiz/ 
    I hope you'll join me!
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
    P.S. There is NO Thursday live stream on this topic this week. But I'll be back LIVE on Thursday 7/11 to address your questions about next week's podcast topic: What to do if you're feeling unheard in your relationship. Have questions already? Let me know and we'll discuss IRL on 7/11! 

    • 40 min
    #407: Love on the LOOSE: How to have a great time traveling with (or without) your partner.

    #407: Love on the LOOSE: How to have a great time traveling with (or without) your partner.

    Traveling with your partner can be so fun, but it can also be stressful and lead to conflict.
    Whether you're wondering why vacations sometimes lead to arguments or how to navigate different travel styles, this episode is packed with insights and practical strategies to help you have a great time adventuring with your partner — or apart!
    Main Takeaways:
    Understand the common conflicts that arise on trips and how to address them constructively. Learn how to appreciate and respect your partner's travel preferences. Discover how to plan trips that satisfy both you and your partner. Explore the benefits of solo travel for a healthy relationship. Gain tools to turn travel challenges into opportunities for growth and connection. Tune in, learn, and let's make your next trip the best one yet.
    xo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
    GrowingSelf.com
    PS: After listening, I invite you to join the conversation live this Thursday at 12 PM Mountain Time (2 PM Eastern) on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook. Bring your questions about travel and relationships, and let's dive deeper into creating harmony and fun in your journeys together. Submit your questions in advance at growingself.com/dear-lisa and get reminders about the live stream so you won't miss a thing. If you can't make it, you can check out the recap at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2y1LGVrpRfY&t=687s




     

    • 37 min
    Let's Talk About YOU! Thursdays @ 12pm MT

    Let's Talk About YOU! Thursdays @ 12pm MT

    Have you ever listened to an episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast and thought, "I wish I could talk to Dr. Lisa about this"? Now you can!
    When: Every Thursday at 12:00 PM Mountain Time (2:00 PM Eastern Time)
    Where: Live on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook
    Each week, after dropping a new podcast episode on Monday, I'll host a live stream on Thursday to discuss that week's topic, answer your questions, and give you personalized advice.
    How to Participate:
    Live: Tune in on any of my social channels: YouTube, Instagram, Facebook. Submit Questions in Advance: Visit growingself.com/dear-lisa to ask questions ahead of time and get a reminder before the live stream starts. Recap: If you can't make it live, sign up through the link to receive a recap video via email. I love making the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast for you, but live streaming adds a special touch by allowing me to interact with you directly. I can't wait to chat about your life and your unique situation.
    Mark Your Calendar: Every Thursday at 12:00 PM Mountain Time (2:00 PM Eastern Time). See you there!
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    • 1 min
    406: Is it a mistake to get back together with an ex?

    406: Is it a mistake to get back together with an ex?

    Have you been thinking about getting back together with your ex? It's completely natural to wonder if getting back together with an ex is a mistake, or if it might be the beginning of a beautiful new chapter in your relationship.
    In this episode, I'm here to offer you the clarity you need. We'll walk through FOUR ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS that you must ask yourself and your ex before getting back together.

    These questions are designed to help you understand whether giving your relationship another chance is the right move. Doing this introspective work will either set you up for a successful reunion or save you from investing time and energy into a relationship that may not have a future.
    So, make yourself a cup of tea, grab your journal, and let's dive deep into these pivotal questions together. By the end of this episode, you'll feel empowered and equipped with the insights needed to make the best decision for your heart and your future. Let's get started! 🌟
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
    GrowingSelf.com
    P.S. Let's talk! Every week on Thursdays at 12pm MT / 2pm ET I'm hosting a live stream on Monday's podcast topic to answer YOUR questions. If you're wrestling with this "should we get back together or not" dilemma, I hope you join me!! Submit your question in advance here: https://www.growingself.com/dear-lisa, and then tune in on the socials: Instagram, YouTube or Facebook. See you Thursday!
    P.P.S. In the meantime, take advantage of the free resources I mentioned on today's show including tons of insightful articles and a curated podcast playlist all about how to get "relationship clarity." They're all for you! https://www.growingself.com/stay-or-go
     

    • 34 min

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I found this podcast at a very pivotal time in my life after going through a very difficult breakup and I cannot overstate how much it helped me heal. It’s been two years now since I discovered this podcast and I am still a dedicated listener. Dr. Lisa’s Growing Self network also connected me to an amazing therapist that I still see every month or so. I simply can’t say enough good things about this podcast and what it has connected me to and what I have learned from it. I’m absolutely serious when I say this podcast was life changing for me.

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