370 episodes

Ready to work on yourself, supercharge your life and create the love, happiness, and success you truly deserve? Join me, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, your trusty guide on this transformative journey!

In every episode, you'll discover the secrets to incredible relationships, authentic happiness, life-changing personal growth, the dream career you've been longing for, and how to create all the good stuff life has to offer.

As a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified coach, and the visionary behind GrowingSelf.com, I'm on a mission to light up your path to greatness. Every single week, we dive deep into your burning questions, chat with inspiring experts, and serve up fresh, actionable ideas for you to put into practice.

Don't miss out on your chance to level up your life! Tune in and let's co-create the love, happiness, and success story you've always dreamed of. It's time to unleash your potential! 💫🎙️

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

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    • 4.7 • 757 Ratings

Ready to work on yourself, supercharge your life and create the love, happiness, and success you truly deserve? Join me, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, your trusty guide on this transformative journey!

In every episode, you'll discover the secrets to incredible relationships, authentic happiness, life-changing personal growth, the dream career you've been longing for, and how to create all the good stuff life has to offer.

As a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified coach, and the visionary behind GrowingSelf.com, I'm on a mission to light up your path to greatness. Every single week, we dive deep into your burning questions, chat with inspiring experts, and serve up fresh, actionable ideas for you to put into practice.

Don't miss out on your chance to level up your life! Tune in and let's co-create the love, happiness, and success story you've always dreamed of. It's time to unleash your potential! 💫🎙️

    #402 - How to Talk to Your Partner About Money, Without Fighting!

    #402 - How to Talk to Your Partner About Money, Without Fighting!

    Are you tired of all the drama that surrounds money conversations in your relationship?
    This is an issue that so many couples deal with. Money is a highly emotional topic, and it can be very triggering, especially when we don't feel respected or understood. 
    It takes a high degree of empathy and intention to communicate about a hot-button topic like money and create a financial plan with your partner that both of you can feel good about. But that is a key to long-term success and satisfaction in your relationship. 
    On today's episode, I'm going to tell you how to talk about money without fighting, so you and your partner can get on the same page and grow together in both money and love.
    Tune in to learn about: 
    01:30 The Root Cause of Money Fights in Relationships 03:26 Money as a Symbol of Deeper Problems 04:47 The Emotional Significance of Money 07:39 Respecting Differences Around Money 08:05 The Limitations of Standard Advice 12:50 The Rider and the Elephant Metaphor 16:33 The Structured Process of Financial Counseling 18:39 Unpacking the History and Family Culture Around Money 19:37 Understanding the Value Systems Attached to Money 24:22 Creating a Shared Vision for Managing Finances 26:44 Talking About Finances Productively And more! I hope you'll join me, and that you'll find this episode helpful. 
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
    P.S. — If you'd like support from an expert couples counselor specializing in financial counseling for couples, schedule a free consultation. 
     

    • 32 min
    #401 - How Introverts Can Win in the Workplace

    #401 - How Introverts Can Win in the Workplace

    Introverts are the unsung heroes of the workplace. They're thoughtful, analytical, and they excel at working independently. Still, if you have an introverted personality type, getting ahead at work can be a challenge. This podcast episode is going to tell you how to leverage your introvert superpowers (because I promise, you have them) and WIN in the workplace as an introvert. 
    Although introverts can be assets to a team, they struggle with visibility. They may hesitate to speak up in meetings and spend lunch hours munching a salad in their car rather than socializing with coworkers. Unfortunately, upper management might mistake your introverted personality for disengagement or even disagreeableness. But there are steps you can take to make your voice heard, highlight your accomplishments, and connect with your colleagues, all while staying true to YOU. 
    Tune in to learn about:
    05:42 Career Paths for Introverts
    09:21 Tapping into Your Introvert Superpower
    12:09 Signs of a Mismatched Career
    16:23 The Impact of Negative Feedback 
    21:40 Finding Balance as an Introvert
    24:19 Why Introverts Kick a$$ in the Workplace
    26:30 The Value of Introverted Leaders
    30:05 How to Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
    31:29 Self-Acceptance vs. Functioning in the World
    38:23 Normalizing the Introvert Experience
    And more! I hope you'll join me and my Growing Self colleague Susan for this conversation! She's an experienced career counselor and she has so many excellent career tips for introverts that you won't want to miss! 
    All of that and more on today's show!
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
    P.S. — If you want support building a thriving career, schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/ 

    • 41 min
    #400 - Mindset: How to Live an Abundant Life

    #400 - Mindset: How to Live an Abundant Life

    Do you want to feel happier, have more success, and live your full potential? The key is your mindset. Specifically, whether you've cultivated an abundance mindset, or whether you're living with a scarcity mindset. On this week's episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast, we're talking about what the abundance mindset is, and how you can put it to work for you in every domain of life. 
    When you have an abundance mindset, you see possibilities everywhere you look. You're aware of your incredible power to make good things happen in your life, and you can maintain motivation to work toward your goals because you know you're ultimately bound to succeed. 
    But many of us get stuck in a scarcity mindest, or believing that your opportunities to create the life you want are limited. This mindset makes obstacles feel insurmountable, and keeps you from being and having everything you're capable of. 
    You deserve better! Tune in to this episode to learn how to shake off your sense of scarcity (which you may not even be aware of) and start embracing an abundant life. 
    You'll learn:
    00:00 What Is an Abundance Mindset? 05:08 Why Mindset Matters 09:44 The Abundance Mindset vs Scarcity Mindset 13:06 Abundance Mindset in the Workplace 20:01 Abundance Mindset and Money 23:14 Abundance Mindset in Relationships 29:07 Internal Benefits of Abundance Mindset 32:00 Developing an Abundance Mindset 37:21 Challenging Your Perspective And so much more! I hope you'll join me, and that you'll find this episode helpful. 
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
    P.S. — Want support in radically shifting your mindset and getting more out of life? Schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/ 

    • 40 min
    #399 - How to Break Generational Cycles

    #399 - How to Break Generational Cycles

    We all inherit some baggage from our families of origin — and often, we don't even realize we're carrying it! On today's episode, I'm talking about how you can explore the intergenerational cycles that may be holding you back, and then make some intentional choices about what you want to keep, and what you want to leave behind. 
    Breaking generational cycles is a self-affirming process. It frees you from ways of thinking and behaving that may have felt like "just the way things are," and allows you to become who you truly are at your core. And if you're parent, breaking generational cycles can be even more important, because it spares your kids from inheriting the junk that's weighing you down. 
    Tune in to learn all about how this works, including: 
    06:35 What Are Intergenerational Patterns? 09:49 Recognizing Your Patterns and Making Changes 21:22 Getting Help with Deeply Engrained Patterns 25:30 Emotional Intelligence and Generational Cycles 32:06 The Value of Structured Emotional Intelligence Work And more! I hope you'll join me, and that you'll feel inspired to break through the patterns that are no longer serving you, so you can start a positive new chapter. 
     
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
     
    P.S. — Want help with breaking generational cycles? Schedule a free consulation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/

    • 33 min
    #398 - How to Self-Soothe Anxious Attachment

    #398 - How to Self-Soothe Anxious Attachment

    When you have an anxious attachment style, it's hard to feel secure in your most important relationships. But learning how to self-soothe anxious attachment and create a stronger relationship with yourself can be the path to emotional freedom. 
    On today's episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast, we're discussing how you can stop relying on the people around you to regulate your anxiety, and learn to manage anxious feelings internally. This not only helps you have better relationships, it makes you stronger, happier, and more resilient. 
    My guest is attachment expert Thais Gibson, a counselor, YouTuber, and founder of the Personal Development School. Thais shared some eye-opening insights in this episode that you won't want to miss! 
    You'll learn: 
    00:00 Introduction to Attachment Theory 08:19 Thais' Background and Interest in Attachment Theory 16:21 Understanding Attachment Styles 28:15 The Danger of Pathologizing Attachment Styles 33:51 The Impact of Attachment Styles on Relationships 39:11 Strategies for Healing Attachment Wounds 41:15 Reprogramming Core Wounds 45:40 The Power of Auto-Suggestion And so much more. I hope you'll tune in!
    xoxo, 
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
    P.S. — Ready to transform your attachment patterns? Schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/ 

    • 43 min
    #397 - After Divorce: The Gift of Regret

    #397 - After Divorce: The Gift of Regret

    If you've lived through a divorce, or you're going through one now, you know that ending a marriage comes with a lot of regrets.
    You might regret not trying harder to save your marriage when you had the chance, or, if the divorce was your choice, you might have difficult moments when you regret your decision. You might even regret marrying your Ex in the first place!
    Whatever flavor of divorce regret you're experiencing, this episode is for you. I'm talking about how you can not only cope with regret after divorce, but how you can use it to start a positive new chapter in your life. 
    You'll learn: 
    03:04 The Purpose of Regret in Healing after a Breakup or Divorce 10:10 Regret's and Its Relationship to Grief 11:07 Shifting Your Perspective on Mistakes and Regret 12:21 Learning from Regret to Build Healthier Relationships 13:47 Differentiating Healthy Regret from Shame 16:43 Exploring Regret through Journaling and Therapy 22:19 Creating a Constructive Narrative that Helps You Grow 24:04 Using Regret as a Catalyst for Change  
    All of that and more on today's episode. I hope you find this conversation helpful and healing, and that it gives you hope for all the positive things that are still ahead of you. 
     
    xoxo, 

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 
     
    P.S. — Want support in healing after a breakup or divorce? Get in touch: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/ 

    • 34 min

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