Man Up to Cancer

Man Up to Cancer
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I'm your host, Trevor Maxwell. I'm a stage IV colon cancer survivor, and I've got a message for other men: You don't have to go through cancer alone. On the Man Up to Cancer podcast, you can expect raw, unfiltered conversations about men, cancer, and our experiences. My guests will be other patients, survivors, advocates, health experts, and friends from #cancerland. We'll tackle a wide range of topics including cancer screenings, chemo, friendship, scars, sex and intimacy, grief, and the physical suck-fest of cancer. But .. PLOT TWIST.. we're also going to joke, laugh, and have fun. Visit us and join our community at www.manuptocancer.org.

  1. 4d ago

    He Had Cancer. Six Days Later, So Did His Son

    Mark Harris is one of those guys who makes you feel better just by being around him. He's a prostate cancer survivor, longtime fitness professional, husband, father, man of deep faith, and a tireless advocate for men with cancer. His enthusiasm for life is infectious. And behind that enthusiasm is a story of cancer, unimaginable loss, faith, and purpose. Mark was diagnosed with prostate cancer in October 2013 at age 57. When his urologist told him, "You have prostate cancer, but I'm going to do everything I can to help you," Mark focused on the second half of that sentence. That's Mark. He was raised to look for the bright side, even when it's hard to find. Then, just six days later, Mark's 30-year-old son, Mychal, was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer of the salivary gland. Suddenly, father and son were traveling the cancer road together. Mychal died four months later, in February 2014. Mark underwent his own radical prostatectomy just two months after losing his son. More than a decade later, his prostate cancer remains undetectable. Through everything Mark has endured, two things have remained foundational: look for the bright side, and keep the faith. Today, he has turned those beliefs into action. Mark works with cancer support groups, researchers, cancer centers and advocacy organizations across the country. He is especially passionate about reaching Black men, who face a disproportionate burden from prostate cancer, and getting men to become more proactive about their health. In this episode, Mark and I talk about: What it really means for a man to be "strong" during cancerWhy talking about cancer doesn't take away your masculinityGoing through cancer alongside his son and then grieving his deathThe faith that has carried Mark through the hardest moments of his lifeMaking an informed prostate cancer treatment decisionWhy men need to know their PSA number, not just assume their doctor doesThe disproportionate impact of prostate cancer on Black menHow Mark's cancer experience grew into a life of patient advocacy and service SPONSOR SHOUT OUT! I want to thank my sponsor for this episode, Pfizer. This Is Living with Cancer™ is a free online resource developed by Pfizer Oncology for all people​ living with cancer, regardless of age, income, race, location, cancer type, or stage of disease. This​ comprehensive program is available to anyone in the US, whether they’re on a Pfizer​ treatment or not, with a growing focus on those facing challenges accessing care. Visit ThisIsLivingWithCancer.com to learn more. I can't make this podcast happen without sponsors that believe in storytelling and the elevation of real patient voices. All views are my own, and the opinions expressed in this show do not necessarily reflect the views or endorsements of our sponsors.

  2. Aug 25

    Joe and Trevor: Your Favorite Cancer Bromance is Back!

    Joe Bullock from Durham, N.C., has been my right-hand man, my ride or die, and one of my closest friends for more than six years. I’m incredibly grateful for his friendship and for the professional partnership we’ve built along the way. Man Up to Cancer simply would not be what it is today without Joe. We’ve built this thing together through some incredible highs, some crushing losses, and a whole lot of moments when neither of us really knew what the hell we were doing. Joe now serves as Director of Programs and Partnerships for Man Up to Cancer. For Joe’s sixth appearance on the MUTC Podcast, we talk about: The Gathering of Wolves: How a crazy idea to bring guys together in the woods in 2022 has grown into the fiery hot center of the MUTC movement — and what we never want to lose as it grows.Men, cancer and mental health: Joe is leading the upcoming Men’s Cancer and Mental Health Conference at UNC, and we talk about why this event needs to exist and where the cancer system still falls short when it comes to the emotional lives of men.Joe’s upcoming book: Joe talks about the book he’s writing. It's his own deeply personal story of cancer and survivorship, and an exploration of friendship, fear, grief, identity, and the emotional scars that don’t disappear when treatment ends. You can connect with Joe at joe@manuptocancer.org. LINKS: Man Up to Cancer Gathering of Wolves men's cancer retreat Men's Cancer and Mental Health Conference Colontown Want to hear more about Joe, his story, and the early days of Man Up to Cancer? Here are the links to his five previous appearances on the podcast. Howlin' Joe Bullock — July 14, 2020, Episode 1 Listen to Howlin' Joe Bullock Cancerland legend Joe Bullock is back to talk about the Howling Place, COLONTOWN JR., and... forest bathing — January 12, 2021, Episode 23 Listen to the episode Has Joe Bullock cloned himself? #Cancerland needs to know! — March 22, 2022, Episode 57 Listen to Has Joe Bullock cloned himself? Man Up to Cancer grows up w/ Joe Bullock — January 9, 2024, Episode 73 Listen to Man Up to Cancer grows up Two guys With Cancer and a Dream — February 24, 2026, Episode 83 Listen to Two guys With Cancer and a Dream

  3. Aug 11

    Trevor's journal: Why am I Still Here?

    Today's episode is a solo show. Just me and my thoughts. Yikes. I take off the masks and get as honest and heart-centered as possible in answering the question: After 8+ years of surgeries and treatments, many close calls, navigating the maze of oncology care, and times I should not have made it through... Why am I still here? To all the patients and families living with cancer, I'm sending you big hugs from Maine. -Trevor

  4. Jul 28

    Throwback to Ep. 16: Chef Kevin Gillespie on Cancer and the Things that Really Matter

    Happy summer 2026 to all of the listeners out there in Cancerland! I hope you're having your best summer possible. Living in Maine can be tough for many cold months, so when summer comes, we make the most of it. I'm taking some breaks this summer to spend time at camp off the grid in northern Maine, at the beach, and right here in my backyard with my wife and our daughters who are both home from college. For those of you who know what we've gone through in more than eight years living with metastatic cancer, you know how special that time is. So for today's podcast, we are going deep into the vault to bring you one of my favorite shows, Episode 16 from October of 2020. We were in the grips of the pandemic, watching Top Chef as a family, and we find out that one of our favorite chefs, Kevin Gillespie, is a fellow cancer survivor. I find the contact information for his people, I reach out and I'm like, hey, Kevin, you should come on the podcast! And because he’s an awesome human, he does! Kevin Gillespie is an acclaimed chef, restaurant owner, and businessman who became a breakout star on Top Chef. He is the founder and owner of Red Beard Restaurants, including the restaurants Gunshow in his home state of Georgia. Kevin is a survivor of a rare form of renal cancer, for which he had a kidney removed in 2018. Enjoy this throwback to Episode 16, and I'll see you in a few weeks. @chefkevingillespie @redbeardrestaurants @bravotopchef

  5. Jul 14

    On Fatherhood, Purpose, and a Fulfilling Life with Cancer

    If you know the show, you know I've been living with stage IV colon cancer since March of 2018, more than eight years. I've endured many surgeries and treatments, and I'm still fighting for survival and for my family. I wouldn't wish this disease on anyone. But I sure am grateful for the brothers I've made who are walking the same road. Keith Hollingsworth of Lafayette, Indiana, is one of those dear friends. Keith was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer in May of 2021. Since tht time he has been fighting this disease with chemo, radiation, clinical trials, and multiple surgeries. He is a husband and parent to two teenage boys. In his free time, he likes to spend it with his family, whether that's attending the boys' sporting events, fishing, or working on projects around the house while looking after their three dogs. Keith and I have a lot of similarities in our journeys. We were the same age at diagnosis. Same type of cancer. We both had young children, a supportive wife, we both became students of our disease because we realized that no one else was going to care about our survival and our families as much as us. Spend an hour with us to see what brotherhood during cancer looks like. Shout outs to Colontown, the Clue movie, and Keith's beloved Michigan Football. SPONSOR SHOUT OUT! I want to thank my sponsor for this episode, Pfizer. This Is Living with Cancer™ is a free online resource developed by Pfizer Oncology for all people​ living with cancer, regardless of age, income, race, location, cancer type, or stage of disease. This​ comprehensive program is available to anyone in the US, whether they’re on a Pfizer​ treatment or not, with a growing focus on those facing challenges accessing care. Visit ThisIsLivingWithCancer.com to learn more. I can't make this podcast happen without sponsors that believe in storytelling and the elevation of real patient voices. All views are my own, and the opinions expressed in this show do not necessarily reflect the views or endorsements of our sponsors.

  6. Jun 30

    What Great Nurses Know About Cancer, with Jessica MacIntyre

    Dr. Jessica MacIntyre is my guest on episode 91 of the Man Up to Cancer Podcast. Jessica serves as Assistant Vice President of Advanced Practice Providers and the Institute Co-Director for Clinical Operations at the University of Miami's Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center. From humble roots in Miami, Jessica started her career as an oncology nurse, and over the past 20+ years worked her way up to becoming a leading national voice in advanced nursing practice and innovative programs for cancer survivors. On today's episode, we talk about: What drives her on a daily basisHow patients have changed her over the yearsWhat nurses see that other providers might missWhat patients need that they still aren't getting And of course, Jessica must face the Gauntlet of Random Questions, where we both agree on the actress who should play her in the movie about her life! I guessed correctly btw. University of Miami Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center The Sylvester Survivorship and Supportive Care Institute Oncology Nursing Society SPONSOR SHOUT OUT! I want to thank my sponsor for this episode, Pfizer. This Is Living with Cancer™ is a free online resource developed by Pfizer Oncology for all people​ living with cancer, regardless of age, income, race, location, cancer type, or stage of disease. This​ comprehensive program is available to anyone in the US, whether they’re on a Pfizer​ treatment or not, with a growing focus on those facing challenges accessing care. Visit ThisIsLivingWithCancer.com to learn more. I can't make this podcast happen without sponsors that believe in storytelling and the elevation of real patient voices. All views are my own, and the opinions expressed in this show do not necessarily reflect the views or endorsements of our sponsors.

  7. Jun 16

    When Mom or Dad Has Cancer: The Magic of Kesem

    One of the coolest things about this job as podcast host is that I get to shine the light on other non-profits in the cancer space and the incredible work being done by their leaders and volunteers. Today, the spotlight is on Kesem. Founded in 2000, Kesem is a leading national nonprofit supporting children facing a parent’s cancer, providing year-round programs and services for children ages 6-18 at no cost to families. Their flagship program, Camp Kesem, provides free, week-long summer camp experiences for children whose parents are facing, have survived, or have died from cancer. Camps are led by trained college student volunteers. Our youngest daughter, Elsie, attended camp in 2023. She was an older camper at age 15, but the experience had a profound impact on her. Her camp name was Ivy by the way - from a Taylor Swift song. It's an honor to welcome Kesem's CEO Jay Stilwell, and someone who attended camp and went on to be a college camp counselor, Kuu Sanford. Check out their mini-bios and social channels below. Jay “Country Ham” Stilwell Jay Stilwell is CEO of Kesem, where he brings the perspective of a Kesem parent, former Board Chair, and longtime mission champion. After losing his wife to cancer, Jay found Kesem through his daughter’s camp experience and now leads the organization’s efforts to support children impacted by a parent’s cancer. Kuuleilani “KitKat” Sanford Kuu Sanford attended the very first Camp Kesem at age 7 as a child impacted by a parent’s cancer and later returned as a counselor. Now an entrepreneur and founder, Kuu credits Kesem with shaping her confidence, resilience, friendships, and lifelong commitment to supporting others. Kesem social channels Instagram: www.instagram.com/kesem/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/campkesem LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/kesemnationwide Kuu Sanford social channels Instagram: www.instagram.com/kuubabyy LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kuusanford/ SPONSOR SHOUT OUT! I want to thank my sponsor for this episode, Pfizer. This Is Living with Cancer™ is a free online resource developed by Pfizer Oncology for all people​ living with cancer, regardless of age, income, race, location, cancer type, or stage of disease. This​ comprehensive program is available to anyone in the US, whether they’re on a Pfizer​ treatment or not, with a growing focus on those facing challenges accessing care. Visit ThisIsLivingWithCancer.com to learn more. I can't make this podcast happen without sponsors that believe in storytelling and the elevation of real patient voices. All views are my own, and the opinions expressed in this show do not necessarily reflect the views or endorsements of our sponsors.

  8. May 19

    Chuck Aiken: "It Costs Nothing to Be Kind"

    Today on the show I welcome my dear friend Chuck Aiken from Glens Falls, NY Chuck serves as membership director for Man Up to Cancer, and has been a key figure in planning and being an emcee at our annual Gathering of Wolves men's cancer retreat. He is also known as the one who brought the phrase "It costs nothing to be kind" into the lexicon of our community. For more than six years, Chuck has been living with an aggressive form of acute myeloid leukemia, AML. He had a stem cell transplant in 2020 and since that time has battled Graft Versus Host Disease (GVHD). Through all of this he has continued to: Coach powerlifting to Special Olympics athletesRun his business as an emcee and DJ, Big Show EntertainmentSpeak at functions about his cancer journey We've got a lot of big-hearted guys in the Man Up to Cancer community. Chuck Aiken is in the Mount Rushmore of that select group. SPONSOR SHOUT OUT! I want to thank my sponsor for this episode, Pfizer. This Is Living with Cancer™ is a free online resource developed by Pfizer Oncology for all people​ living with cancer, regardless of age, income, race, location, cancer type, or stage of disease. This​ comprehensive program is available to anyone in the US, whether they’re on a Pfizer​ treatment or not, with a growing focus on those facing challenges accessing care. Visit ThisIsLivingWithCancer.com to learn more. I can't make this podcast happen without sponsors that believe in storytelling and the elevation of real patient voices. All views are my own, and the opinions expressed in this show do not necessarily reflect the views or endorsements of our sponsors.

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I'm your host, Trevor Maxwell. I'm a stage IV colon cancer survivor, and I've got a message for other men: You don't have to go through cancer alone. On the Man Up to Cancer podcast, you can expect raw, unfiltered conversations about men, cancer, and our experiences. My guests will be other patients, survivors, advocates, health experts, and friends from #cancerland. We'll tackle a wide range of topics including cancer screenings, chemo, friendship, scars, sex and intimacy, grief, and the physical suck-fest of cancer. But .. PLOT TWIST.. we're also going to joke, laugh, and have fun. Visit us and join our community at www.manuptocancer.org.

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  • Creator
    Man Up to Cancer
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Man Up to Cancer
  • Show Website
    Man Up to Cancer

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