Mending Fences Patrice Brymner

Discover the transformative power of words with our guest Karen Van Kooy in an episode that may reshape your approach to conflict resolution and legal negotiations. We engage in a dynamic dialogue, breaking down how subtle shifts in terminology can steer conversations from deadlock to collaboration. As we dissect the impact of word choice, from "proposal" to "settlement scenarios," you'll gain invaluable insights into fostering dialogue that digs into the heart of parties' needs and interests. It's a deep dive into the strategic use of language that can open up a world of creative resolutions.

Karen brings her expertise to the table, illuminating the conversation with examples from family law and beyond. We tackle the shift from impersonal, adversarial terms like 'clients' and 'opposing counsel' to more humanizing nomenclature that reflects autonomy, respect, and the potential for partnership. This episode offers a compelling look at how embracing a collaborative mindset can not only change the language we use in legal settings but also the outcomes for those involved. 

Divorce and Family Mediator Daniele Ozeri joins Jen and Patrice to discuss strategies for mending the complex dynamics within families—be it the bond between parents and children or among adult siblings. Daniele explains the subtle nuances that differentiate family mediations from divorce mediations, emphasizing the importance of cultivating understanding and empathy. Her approach, centered around personalized mini-agreements and consistent check-ins, not only addresses immediate disputes but also fortifies relationships for the long haul.

Exploring the ecosystem of support for families in conflict, we examine the overlapping roles of mediators and other professionals such as therapists and attorneys. Mediators, like Daniele, often wear the hat of a neutral facilitator, masterfully navigating between legal boundaries and emotional needs. Our discussion broadens to include the vital yet underappreciated role of conflict coaching, a service that primes individuals for the mediation process. Here, Daniele illustrates how this coaching can pave the way for improved communication, offering a beacon of hope to those who might grapple with the stigma of seeking mental health support. Learn more about Daniele and her approach at: www.dngmediation.com.

So you thought mediation would be easy. Well, even amicable divorces can be stressful and participants may feel at times like they are lost in uncharted territory. That's exactly what Jen Hawthorne Kelsey and Patrice Brymner delve into in this episode of Mending Fences. As seasoned guides, family law mediators, and collaborative law attorneys, Jen and Patrice illuminate the complexities that even the most cooperative separations can conceal. As always, your hosts' goal is helping people become better informed masters of their own decision-making .

It's a candid conversation that strips away the myths about what 'should' happen during a divorce and instead, fosters a realistic understanding of the unique paths each couple must navigate.  So, whether you’re a couple seeking peaceful closure or a listener curious about the inner workings of mediation , join us for an episode that promises both enlightenment and encouragement.

Join us as we unpack the essential roles, differences, and overlapping concepts of these legal representatives and how, with their assistance, successful conflict resolution is achievable.   We explain how attorneys in the "Settlement Counsel" role can work directly on their client's behalf to achieve an out-of court resolution, and how attorneys in "review Counsel" role can support clients engaged mediation. Attorneys can be invaluable guides in while navigating the complex terms of divorce agreements in either role. We underscore the importance of finding a lawyer who not only respects the client's wish for a peaceful resolution but is also well-versed in the non-adversarial approach. And if you're about to embark on a divorce mediation process or other non-adversarial  process, you won't want to miss our discussion on selecting an attorney who honors agreements, asks the right questions, and focuses on the journey rather than potential court battles.

Join us as we journey through the delicate web of step-parenting with our guest, step-parenting coach Maria Natapov.  What does it truly mean to be a step-parent and how can you navigate this dynamic, emotion-filled terrain? Maria sheds light on these questions and provides pragmatic guidance to help you transform family uncertainty into harmonious co-parenting. We'll unpack the layers of challenges from financial to emotional, and discuss how Maria’s expert advice can help ease your transition into this new family dynamic.

Maria delves into the intricacies of becoming a step-parent, emphasizing the significance of good communication and nurturing relationships. Through her insights, we gain a practical understanding of how to blend families effectively, stressing the need for patience and understanding. Listen as she shares anecdotes that encapsulate the realities of sudden changes and the importance of preparation for every possibility. Whether you're a step-parent, a divorced parent, or just looking to understand complex families, this episode offers a comprehensive guide to find your footing in the challenging yet rewarding journey of co-parenting.

Learn more at https://synergisticstepparenting.com

Are you shying away from initiating those tough conversations? This episode is filled with practical wisdom and guidance that will empower you to start tough conversations with anyone.  Hosts Patrice Brymner and Jen Hawthorne dive into the nuances of understanding your own motives and goals, identifying the right people to participate in the conversation, and whether you might want to consider professional assistance . Sometimes, it's not just about finding a resolution, but creating a healthier environment for future communication.

Jen and Patrice also delve into the art of effective problem-solving conversations, emphasizing the power of using "I" statements, validating the other person's viewpoint, and setting the stage for a solution-oriented dialogue. It's crucial to acknowledge the value of timing, preparation, and the humility to accept a 'no' answer. In the end, Patrice and Jen want to help you create a space of peaceful communication and coexistence. They share insightful tips on ensuring that your conversations are productive, solely focused on creating solutions, and most importantly, help improve your relationships and daily encounters.