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The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids with confidence and calm. Scroll down for links and to download a free parenting guide.
 
The Parenting with Impact Podcast will:

Feature leading experts, bringing you cutting edge information to address your child’s challenges

Teach you real-life, practical strategies for creating lasting change

Demonstrate how a coach-approach can improve all of your communications, one conversation at a time

 
For the essentials of ImpactParent's coach-approach to parenting, download a free parenting guide at: ImpactParents.com/Podcast
 
Find out about Sanity School®, a program for Parents, at: https://impactparents.com/programs-offerings/parent-training-sanity-school/
 
For information about professional continuing education: https://impactparents.com/for-professionals/ 
 
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The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids with confidence and calm. Scroll down for links and to download a free parenting guide.
 
The Parenting with Impact Podcast will:

Feature leading experts, bringing you cutting edge information to address your child’s challenges

Teach you real-life, practical strategies for creating lasting change

Demonstrate how a coach-approach can improve all of your communications, one conversation at a time

 
For the essentials of ImpactParent's coach-approach to parenting, download a free parenting guide at: ImpactParents.com/Podcast
 
Find out about Sanity School®, a program for Parents, at: https://impactparents.com/programs-offerings/parent-training-sanity-school/
 
For information about professional continuing education: https://impactparents.com/for-professionals/ 
 
Visit Impact Parents at: https://impactparents.com/

    When It Feels Like It’s Just Too Much

    When It Feels Like It’s Just Too Much

    Stop the Roller Coaster, I want to get off! In today's fast-paced world, resilience and flexibility are crucial for survival. With constant changes happening around us, being able to adapt and bounce back from challenges is key to thriving in this environment.

    Understanding complex children is also essential for their well-being and development. Each child is unique, with their own set of needs and characteristics. By taking the time to truly understand and connect with them, we can support their growth and help them navigate the complexities of the world.

    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about stress, anxiety and difficult situations.

    Ten Self Care Tips for Parents
    Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!

    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    Diane discusses the significance of self-talk and coaching oneself through difficult situations, underscoring the need to help parents navigate challenging circumstances with resilience.
    Elaine emphasizes the need to find a balance between anticipating potential challenges and not overwhelming oneself with excessive planning.
    Diane encourages listeners to celebrate small wins along the way, acknowledging that life is full of ups and downs like to a rollercoaster ride.

    Links Mentioned:
    A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/a-parents-best-question-is-it-naughty-or-neurological/
    Parenting Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-kids-with-adhd/
    Shedding the Shoulds: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/shedding-the-shoulds/
    Navigating Parenthood: Embracing the Coach Approach: https://youtu.be/SbN75MWckn4
    This Too Shall Pass: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/this-too-shall-pass/
    Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s
    Expect the Unexpected: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/set-realistic-expectations/
    Sanity School: https://impactparents.securechkout.net/ssp?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=ssp

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    • 29 min
    Success! “Dad’s Fun, But I Can Talk to Mom About Anything”

    Success! “Dad’s Fun, But I Can Talk to Mom About Anything”

    This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Sonja shares her story of seeking support and guidance while utilizing a coaching approach that fosters independence.

    Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Sonja about seeking support and guidance.

    Parenting is Leadership
    Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.

    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    Sonja stresses the need to shift from completing tasks for the child to empowering them to seek help and overcome challenges independently.
    Sonja highlights the importance of adapting parenting strategies to meet the individual needs of each child.
    Sonja emphasizes the need for parents to understand and embrace the unique needs and viewpoints of each child, ultimately enhancing the child's environment for growth and development.


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    • 26 min
    Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility

    Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility

    Rules, boundaries and agreements are essential components of a healthy family dynamic. They help set expectations, create structure, and foster communication among family members. However, navigating these aspects can sometimes be challenging. Let's delve into how accountability measures, collaborative agreements, and setting boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining harmony within a family setting.

    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about rules, boundaries and agreements
    Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids
    Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE
    Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.

    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of understanding the distinctions between rules, agreements, and boundaries.
    Regular accountability checks within agreements can enhance collaboration and mutual understanding within the family; this practice fosters a sense of responsibility and accountability among family members, ultimately strengthening the family dynamic.
    Setting boundaries is crucial for protecting one's emotional well-being. Boundaries guide children towards independence, self-ownership, and responsibility.

    Links Mentioned:
    Alone At The Table
    Parenting Together:  Getting on the Same Page
    House Rules Rule!
    Learn From Mistakes
    Relationships By Design 
    I've Tried Everything and Nothing Works
    Help for Kids Starts with Parents 
    Effective Agreements


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    • 24 min
    ADHD Diagnosis & Treatment: From Skepticism to Evidence-Based Innovation

    ADHD Diagnosis & Treatment: From Skepticism to Evidence-Based Innovation

    Phil Anderton, a visionary in the field of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), has revolutionized the way we perceive and address this condition. Through his leadership at ADHD 360, the largest and most successful ADHD medical clinic in Europe, Phil and his team have consistently pushed boundaries and paved the way for new possibilities.

    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Phil Anderton about ADHD diagnosis and treatment.

    Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet
    So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible:


    What is recommended treatment for children and teens

    Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication

    Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring.

    ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.



    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    Phil discusses the systematic approach to diagnosing and treating ADHD in patients of all ages. His focus on providing comprehensive care through assessments, treatment, and support services reflects a shift towards acknowledging and accepting ADHD as a neurodiverse condition that requires attention and understanding.
    Phil emphasizes the importance of addressing skepticism towards ADHD diagnosis and the benefits of medication and accommodations for individuals with ADHD. He advocates for improved outcomes and quality of life, using examples like comparing ADHD medication side effects to common pain relievers and discussing the necessity of accommodations, such as extended time in exams, to support individuals with ADHD in achieving success.
    Phil emphasizes the importance of evidence-based practices in advocating for ADHD acceptance and treatment. By using medical evidence and a data-driven approach, Phil aims to address funding battles and challenge misconceptions about ADHD in the National Health Service and educational institutions, with the goal of making positive impacts on individuals' lives through evidence-backed interventions and treatment options.
    Phil explains digitized clinic processes streamline patient journeys and enhance assessments through video conferences. By offering assessments in patients' homes, the clinic reduces anxiety associated with in-person visits, leading to more accurate results and improved patient outcomes.
    Phil and Diane explain the ADHD diagnosis process can be simplified by blending qualitative and quantitative data. By using screening tools, DSM criteria, and semi-structured interviews, clinicians can streamline the diagnostic process to a few hours of focused assessment.

    Related Links:
    Medical Bias vs. ADHD: The History of a Smear Campaign: https://youtu.be/0Cdcg5nwV2Y
    Bilbow Formula for Success: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/bilbow-formula-for-success/
    Using ADHD as an Excuse: Its Pitfalls: https://www.blogtalkradio.com/attentiontalkradio/2024/03/27/using-adhd-as-an-excuse-its-pitfalls

    Website: www.adhd-360.com
    QbTest: https://www.qbtech.com/


    Connect with Dr. Phil Anderton:
    Website: www.adhd-360.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/360ADHD
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/360adhd/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/adhd-360
    X (formerly Twitter): https://twitter.com/360Adhd

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    • 33 min
    Balancing Boundaries to Stop Emotional Parenting

    Balancing Boundaries to Stop Emotional Parenting

    Aaron is the founder of “Parenting Teens that Struggle” and the host of the #1 Parenting Podcast “Beyond Risk and Back” which is in the top 3% GLOBALLY for parent podcasts.
    His new book, The 4 Prime Archetypes- Why we do what we do is out! It is personality profiling at it’s best! Get ready to point fingers at your loved ones, take a good long look in the mirror and understand WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO.
    Aaron is an internationally known lecturer on archetypal imagery, body language, and martial arts and the Founder and President of Fire Mountain Programs, and since 2004 has run kids camps, teen camps, and family programming. In 2009, he and his wife Christine opened a residential Mental Health and Dependency recovery treatment center for teens ages 12-17 in Colorado. Fire Mountain Residential Treatment Center was in 2019 named one of the Top 50 Healthcare Providers in the United States and in 2020 named one of the Top 100 Innovators in Healthcare. He was also recently (2022) inducted into the US Martial Arts Hall of Fame.
    23 years in personal addiction recovery, Aaron is also VERY ADHD... and it is his superpower.

    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Aaron Huey about emotional parenting.

    How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]
    Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.

    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    Aaron emphasizes the significance of a parenting approach with strong boundaries, influenced by his parents' progressive attitudes with stern, traditional discipline and expectations. He credits his mom and stepdad for instilling in him the value of setting strong boundaries while supporting and uplifting children. This approach reflects a modern understanding that focuses on empowering children while maintaining clear guidelines and expectations.
    Aaron advocates for parents to acknowledge past parenting approaches, embrace radical change, and commit to making necessary adjustments for a better future. He emphasizes the importance of parents doing their inner work, healing past wounds, and being present for their children in a way that meets their needs.
    Neurodiversity Informed Coaching focuses on understanding behaviors as symptoms of underlying struggles, teaching parents coaching skills to support their children. By recognizing that behaviors are often solutions to unmet needs like safety, power, connection, freedom, and worth, parents can approach their children's actions with empathy.
    Parenting strategies involve understanding the reasons for a child's behavior and avoiding emotional reactions. By analyzing the why behind a child's actions, parents can address root causes rather than just reacting.
    Aaron stresses the significance of expressing love and support, emphasizing that the love we withhold is the pain we carry, affecting not only ourselves but also our children and relationships. By creating a space for open communication, understanding, and empathy, individuals can navigate the challenges of parenting and relationships with compassion and resilience.

    Links Mentioned:
    Website: www.parentingteensthatstruggle.com

    Book The Four Prime Archetypes: Why We Do What We Do: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B0CSWRLF74/?tag=im0ea3-20


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    • 30 min
    The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach

    The Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach

    The Parenting with Impact podcast presents an intriguing topic, discussing how parents can amplify their children's strengths while also addressing their challenges. Elaine and Diane, two prominent voices in this discussion, share unique but complementary perspectives shaped by their experiences.

    Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane about focusing on your child’s strengths.

    Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids
    Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide  from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.

    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    Elaine and Diane emphasize the importance of celebrating children's strengths and capacities, even during struggles. By focusing on what works and providing genuine acknowledgments, parents can help build self-awareness, resilience, and positive self-perception in their children.
    Giving positive feedback to children, even if they may initially struggle to accept or believe it, can have a significant impact on their self-esteem and growth. The importance of persistently offering compliments, even in a subtle manner, is highlighted to help children gradually internalize and believe in the positive affirmations.
    Elaine and Diane discuss that recognizing and acknowledging a child's strengths boosts their self-esteem and provides them with the confidence and resilience needed to navigate challenges and succeed in life. By focusing on these strengths and building upon them gradually, parents can help their children develop important skills and overcome obstacles more easily.
    Elaine and Diane explain encouraging parents to identify and celebrate unusual strengths in their children can foster a positive self-image. Highlighting the importance of recognizing and praising unique abilities like attention to detail or resilience can help children build confidence and develop a positive self-perception.

    Links:

    Help Kids Stand in their Power: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lNl-IjoSTiU&feature=youtu.be

    Tips for Helping Kids Feel Proud (When They Don’t Like Praise):
    https://youtu.be/-z98xnrCZUA?si=EZBNhNUgYGhdQ-0h

    Improve Communication with Complex Kids and Teens:
    https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-communication-with-complex-kids-and-teens

    Help Your ADD/ADHD Child: Change Your Perspective
    https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/help-your-addadhd-child-change-your-perspective/

    The #1 Best Strategy for Better Communication: Yes, AND…
    https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/the-1-best-strategy-for-better-communication-yes-and/


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    • 29 min

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Tina-Louise Wallace ,

Not enough words to thank these great resources

I just realized I already left a review!!! I love this program and website so much as well as the podcast!! I will edit this after there are more episodes. I have been educating myself on parenting, parenting children with special needs, parenting differently than I was raised basically since my oldest was born (almost 9 years ago). I started looking things up online, reading books, articles, listening to podcasts, more recently attending webinars and taking various courses. All the articles from these women and their writings have helped me so much! I can not thank them enough…. There’s a few others that come to mind when I think about the amount of gratitude for teaching me the most - Dan Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson, Ross Greene, Susan Stiffelman, Rebecca Eanes just to name a few. I will add more later, but thank you!! I can’t tell you how happy I am to hear that there’s a podcast!! Tina

jsnread ,

Great info for parents

As the dad of a six year old boy with ADHD, this podcast touches on so many things our family is wrestling with every single day. Great resources and awesome way to learn new ideas and find out about other resources out there that might help the parent of a neurodiverse kid.

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Must listen to!

I can listen to you all day! Thank you for putting out your content- you word everything beautifully and use all the right metaphors to create visuals to drive our thinking. Thank you for spreading your wisdom !

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