Episode 8 - Show Notes
Constant Validation - seeking conformation from others through obtaining more followers, likes and comments on post especially those that are images of themselves. She would always tell me I remember when I used to get 200-300 likes on my photos. this would make them become infuriated that others don’t see their beauty and how attentive they are.
Need to always one up someone else - due to insecurities, and literally cutting down other people who may appear to hold a higher position of status compared to the others. People are always beneath the narcissist Picking fights with someone over small things, by manufacturing tension. The always have to post and provide updates on what they’ve accomplished, who they’ve met and writing sappy “attention seeking post”, about how they have been the victim of a terrible situation they make have manufactured. SNAPCHAT, INSTAGRAM, FACEBOOK, PINTEREST are examples this allows them to gain exposure across all mediums. They don’t look at social media as a way to connect with others, rather than a tool for people to keep tabs on their “wonderful life”, by elevating their level of importance. They have to keep their “flying monkeys” up to date by sharing half of what every story they created in their minds -because naturally people can’t help but be open and let their guard down on someone they feel pity for, and using this as supply to make them feel better about themselves. Always On the hunt for drama to be involved with, if they can’t create it they will find any reason to join in on the conversation. Religious post, quotes and anything that can grab the attention of those who have empathy to again- appear to be the victim of their own chaos.