Raw Bar with Goddess Cecilia Cecilia Villero

Trigger Warning:



This episode contains discussions about sexual assault and survivorship that may be triggering for some listeners.



Hi, everyone! This is Goddess Cecilia, and welcome to Raw Bar where we talk about sex positivity, pleasure, and education. This is where we break taboos and stereotypes imposed by our cultural norms and society’s perceptions and standards.

We’re down to our last episode for the season, and what way to end it than by sitting down with my fellow speakers from the Boston Area Rape Crisis Center (BARCC) Speakers Bureau, Corey and Jocely.



We won’t talk about our personal experiences here. Instead, we will give you a glimpse of what survivorship feels and looks like and how we are helping support other members of the community with education, advocacy, and prevention initiatives.

I hope you take the time to join us in this intense but necessary discussion. In the meantime, remember to love yourself and show yourself some compassion. Stream the episode and subscribe to my podcast for more engaging, stimulating sex-related discussions.



In This Episode


Our long journey to healing, social change, and advocacy


What peer support really means and why it matters in survivorship


Workshops and events that leave good (or bad) impressions and feelings


Common misconceptions and challenges in survivorship


What is self-care in survivorship?



Find my guests here:

Cory: @mrnohate

Jocelyn: @transformingtrauma



Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022


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We’re almost nearing the end, but we are definitely not ending this season with a juicy, yummy episode with none other than Sydney Rae Chin, a queer, non-monogamous sex educator and creative from Philly! 



And we’ve got so much to unpack here. We explore the ins and outs of polyamory, which is something not many people completely understand. In particular, what are the challenges of explaining it to traditional Asian families? 



And is it normal (and acceptable) to feel jealous when you are in a non-monogamous relationship? What happens when one of the partnerships ends? 

But wait, there’s more. We’ll enjoy some great talk about food and how it can bring people together and teach us a thing (or a lot) about our identities. 



Come and celebrate Sydney’s birthday with me in this stimulating, insightful episode. And don’t forget to check out her IG called Sexy Soup Dumpings, a safe space for non-monogamous people of color.



In This Episode


From the movies to reiki and survivorship work for non-monogamous people


What people don’t get about polyamory


Why conversations, and the tools to communicate, are essential in polyamory


Violence in the Asian sex-ed community


Learning and storytelling through food





Connect with them here:

@sexysoupdumplings

And send birthday coins here:

Venmo: @ sexy_soupdumplings

CashApp: $ sexysoupdumplings



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Welcome to the latest episode of the Raw Bar podcast, hosted by the one and only Goddess Cecilia! Today, we are joined by the amazing Aida Mundaley, a Latinx organizer, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator who loves to sport some big earrings.



As we sip on delicious mezcal drinks and indulge in juicy blackberries, we dive into a range of stimulating topics. Aida shares their insights on how everything in life is interconnected, and how defining our values and goals can help us stay accountable to ourselves and those around us.



But we don’t stop there! We also delve into how we can find community in the things we love, exploring the ways that shared interests and passions can bring us closer to one another. And, of course, Aida shares their tips and tricks for breaking taboos and embracing our sexuality in a fun and fulfilling way.



So if you’re looking for an episode packed full of laughter, engaging conversation, and a little bit of spice, look no further than the Raw Bar podcast. Subscribe today and download or stream this episode to discover how you can live your best life!



In This Episode


How colonization affects our ideas (and realities) about family dynamics


The connection between social justice and sexuality


Why parents should avoid mom groups on Facebook


How going slow can help give more value on humanity, less on capitalism


Sex educators do not need to have answers to all questions





Find Adia at:

@aidamanduley

Twitter: @ Neuronbomb

www.aidamanduley.com



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Ready to spice things up? This week’s episode is all about living life to the fullest. And our guest Talia Coccia Kingston knows a thing or two about embracing her sexuality and hitting the open road in style. From her cozy skoolie to her fearless attitude toward life, Talia is an inspiration to anyone looking to break free from the norm and create their own adventure.



Join us for a scintillating conversation about sex, love, and the pursuit of happiness as we explore the joys of being sex-positive and living your best life. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or just looking to explore new horizons, Talia’s story will leave you feeling empowered and inspired.



So what are you waiting for? Grab a glass of wine, slip into something comfortable, and get ready to be swept away by the raw, unbridled energy of this episode. Stream it now, and let’s ignite our passions together! Don’t forget to subscribe to Raw Bar for more empowering and alluring conversations about sexuality and self-discovery.



In This Episode


The serendipitous meeting with a condom-tote-bag-wearing human


How Talia got sex education from almost everyone


The biggest lessons about life and relationships when on the road


What is relationship anarchy?


The definition of unapologetically authentic





Find Talia here:

@bicoastalbus

@shoplovelights



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Episode 12 of Raw Bar is here, and we couldn’t be more excited! Hunter Riley—an amazing sex educator, a smut creator, a stripper named Anne Moore, and a consistent partner of organizations like Planned Parenthood—joins me, Goddess Cecilia, to discuss the fascinating world of sex retail over the past six years. 



For example, how did COVID shift Riley’s mindset, considering her vast experience in sex ed? I guarantee this episode will make you rethink what it means to find pleasure in surprise.



Plus, we talk about how exploring the unknown can be an educational experience that can fulfill your basic needs. And what about that one question that respects boundaries while you’re having fun? 



There is definitely a lot to unload, so what are you waiting for? Stream the episode now, and don’t forget to tell me what you think about it. 



In This Episode


Riley’s incredible journey from the University of New Mexico to self-serve toys


The state of sex retail during and after COVID-19 pandemic


What is sex ed? (hint: it’s not to turn you on)


A pivotal question that opens consent-based conversations


Virtual vs. in-person strip work





Find Hunter here:

@huntergathererx

Twitter and OF: HornyHuntress

www.selfservetoys.com



Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022


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Celebrating my 40th birthday with you here at the Raw Bar original from Instagram live and now reproduced in this podcast is such an honor.On this very special and short episode of Raw Bar, Goddess Cecilia gives you a peek inside the Mermaid Museum in Berlin, MD! 



Episode was recorded via Instagram Live in early 2022


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