Secure Marriage Podcast

Paul & Shannon Elmore
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Secure Marriage Podcast

Marriage can be tough—miscommunication, constant arguments, feeling distant, or struggling to rebuild trust after a breakdown can leave couples feeling hopeless. On the Secure Marriage Podcast, retired Professional Counselor, Paul Elmore and his wife, Shannon, draw from 30 years of marriage and 20 years of counseling experience to help you fight less, understand each other more, and rekindle intimacy. Whether you're navigating conflict or just want a stronger connection, their proven Secure Marriage Framework provides simple, actionable solutions. Listen, share, and subscribe to transform your relationship today!

  1. FEB 10

    343: When should you start seeing progress in marriage therapy?

    If you’re feeling stuck or wondering if your marriage therapy is even working, this is the episode where we break down the hidden signs of progress most couples miss, share why slow growth is often the best kind, and reveal what to do if things feel stagnant. Don’t give up too soon—tune in and discover what breakthrough might be just around the corner!

    25 min

  2. JAN 27

    342: Doing THIS Creates The Deepest Connection

    Ever wonder what truly creates the deepest connection in a relationship? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpack the one practice that can completely transform how you and your spouse relate to each other. Drawing from my twenty years as a marriage therapist and thirty two years from our own marriage we’ll share a simple approach that builds intimacy, trust, and understanding like nothing else. You won’t want to miss these game-changing insights!

    21 min

  3. JAN 14

    341: Don’t Let Comparison Become the Cancer in Your Relationship

    If you’re not careful, comparison can creep in and quietly start sabotaging your relationship. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I dive into how measuring your relationship against yourself can erode trust, intimacy, and connection. Find out why comparison is more toxic than you think, how to stop it in its tracks, and how to protect your relationship from this silent killer.

    20 min

  4. JAN 10

    340: Stop Chasing: How to Rebuild Attraction During a Marriage Separation

    Are you in the middle of a marriage separation? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I talk about the one thing that’s pushing your spouse further away—and how to rebuild attraction the right way. Even though some of our suggestions are counterintuitive, we’ll show you how to focus on becoming the healthiest version of yourself and create the kind of transformation that draws your spouse back naturally. If you’re feeling lost, we hope this episode will give you a roadmap to hope and healing.

    14 min

  5. JAN 7

    339: Why Your Husband Thinks Your Feelings Are Always Wrong

    Feeling dismissed when you try to share your emotions with your husband? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpack why your husband thinks your feelings are the “wrong” feelings—and, more importantly, how the two of you can bridge the gap. Our hope is that we can help you turn frustration into deeper connection and understanding and this transformative conversation will change how you communicate forever.

    31 min

  6. JAN 3

    Husbands, Stop Trying To Fix Your Wife

    Does your wife just want to vent, but you can’t resist jumping in to fix things? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I tackle why your ‘helpful’ solutions might be backfiring—and what to do instead. Discover the surprising secret to truly supporting your wife, strengthening your connection, and avoiding unnecessary conflict. This game-changing insight will transform how you show up in your marriage!

    24 min

  7. 12/06/2024

    Six Steps to Fix A Struggling Marriage

    Is your marriage feeling more like a battleground than a partnership? On this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I share the six simple steps that helped us rebuild trust, improve communication, and rediscover joy in our relationship. If your marriage feels stuck, we hope this episode offers a roadmap to lasting change.

    31 min

  8. 12/03/2024

    Strengthen Your Relationship: How to Work Together as a Team

    “Do you and your spouse struggle to tackle challenges as a team? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Paul & Shannon share how they’ve learned to align their strengths and overcome ‘me versus you’ mindsets in their marriage. Discover the simple strategies that helped them turn conflict into collaboration—and how you can too!”

    22 min
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Marriage can be tough—miscommunication, constant arguments, feeling distant, or struggling to rebuild trust after a breakdown can leave couples feeling hopeless. On the Secure Marriage Podcast, retired Professional Counselor, Paul Elmore and his wife, Shannon, draw from 30 years of marriage and 20 years of counseling experience to help you fight less, understand each other more, and rekindle intimacy. Whether you're navigating conflict or just want a stronger connection, their proven Secure Marriage Framework provides simple, actionable solutions. Listen, share, and subscribe to transform your relationship today!

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  • Creator
    Paul & Shannon Elmore
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2025
  • Episodes
    299
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2022 Paul Elmore & Secure Marriage
  • Show Website
    Secure Marriage Podcast

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