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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now...

Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.

He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

Social Skills Coaching Patrick King

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 11 Ratings

While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now...

Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.

He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

    Don’t Let Boundary Crossers Off The Hook

    Don’t Let Boundary Crossers Off The Hook

    The other major aspect is setting consequences and then enforcing them. This is what happens when someone attempts to violate your boundaries after you’ve communicated them. This is can be whatever you want; the only thing it cannot be is nothing. Failure to do so will create porous boundaries, which are as good as no boundaries at all. However, they also cannot be too rigid.
    Email the show at KingPodcast@NewtonMG.com or let us know what you think at http://bit.ly/pkcomment
    Read the show notes and/or transcript at https://bit.ly/social-skills-shownotes
    Get the audiobook on Audible at https://bit.ly/assertivenessking
    For a free minibook on conversation tactics, visit Patrick King Consulting at https://bit.ly/pkconsulting
    For narration information visit Russell Newton at https://bit.ly/VoW-home
    For production information visit Newton Media Group LLC at https://bit.ly/newtonmg


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    • 11 min
    Find Common Ground, Even When That Takes Some Effort.

    Find Common Ground, Even When That Takes Some Effort.

    Suppose that you’re an American who has never really cared much for soccer, but you’re going to be moving to a country in Europe or South America where soccer is a big deal. You might still find the sport itself boring, but learning about it and developing an interest can give you an easy conversation starter with a massive percentage of the population in your new home. You’ll find it much easier to make friends in any situation if you can talk to people about the things they’re passionate about. The goal is to find common ground, even when that takes some effort.
    Once the initial similarity is established, you simply stand a far better chance of overall social acceptance, and sometimes that is all we can hope for.


    Questions or comments regarding the podcast?
    Email the show at KingPodcast@NewtonMG.com or let us know what you think at http://bit.ly/pkcomment
    Or send us an email at KingPodcast@newtonmg.com
    Hear it here - https://bit.ly/socialintelking
    Show notes and/or episode transcripts are available at https://bit.ly/social-skills-shownotes
    Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. emotional and social intelligence. Learn more or get a free mini-book on conversation tactics at https://bit.ly/pkconsulting
    For narration information visit Russell Newton at https://bit.ly/VoW-home
    For production information visit Newton Media Group LLC at https://bit.ly/newtonmg




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    Keep the words flowing by https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RussellNewton (buying me a coffee).

    • 12 min
    Change Yourself—And Only Yourself

    Change Yourself—And Only Yourself

    Strong and clear boundaries will be one of your best defenses against people-pleasing and the people who would have you do so. However, they can’t exist solely in your head, and they can’t be so flexible that people see no reason to abide by them. Thus, you must define them based on your values, and then communicate them clearly and enforce them without exception.
    The other major aspect is setting consequences and then enforcing them. This is what happens when someone attempts to violate your boundaries after you’ve communicated them. This is can be whatever you want; the only thing it cannot be is nothing. Failure to do so will create porous boundaries, which are as good as no boundaries at all. However, they also cannot be too rigid.




    Questions or comments regarding the podcast?
    Email the show at KingPodcast@NewtonMG.com or let us know what you think at http://bit.ly/pkcomment
    Read the show notes and/or transcript at https://bit.ly/social-skills-shownotes
    Get the audiobook on Audible at https://bit.ly/assertivenessking
    For a free minibook on conversation tactics, visit Patrick King Consulting at https://bit.ly/pkconsulting
    For narration information visit Russell Newton at https://bit.ly/VoW-home
    For production information visit Newton Media Group LLC at https://bit.ly/newtonmg


    #Assertiveness #ChangeYourself—AndOnlyYourself #TheArtofEverydayAssertiveness #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching


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    • 10 min
    Boundaries, Brick By Brick

    Boundaries, Brick By Brick

    Even if we find that we have been less than pleasant in some of our interactions, there are several things we can do to better ourselves. The first and most important step here is to accept and listen when others tell us about any misdeed we may have committed. Just like we are free to have boundaries based on our values and desires, so are others. There is no right or wrong boundary, and we must be accommodating of others without judgement. In cases of deep cultural differences, it is important to remember that the other person comes from a completely different background, with unique experiences that are different from our own. Generally, it always pays to be compassionate and willing to talk it out with others.


    Questions or comments regarding the podcast?
    Email the show at KingPodcast@NewtonMG.com or let us know what you think at http://bit.ly/pkcomment
    Hear it here - https://bit.ly/establishboundariesking
    Show notes and/or episode transcripts are available at https://bit.ly/social-skills-shownotes
    Learn more or get a free mini-book on conversation tactics at https://bit.ly/pkconsulting
    For narration information visit Russell Newton at https://bit.ly/VoW-home
    For production information visit Newton Media Group LLC at https://bit.ly/newtonmg
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    • 19 min
    The 1:1:1 Method - Telling Stories to Further Conversations

    The 1:1:1 Method - Telling Stories to Further Conversations

    The 1:1:1 method of storytelling is to simplify it as much as possible. The impact of a story won’t necessarily be stronger if it is ten sentences versus two sentences. Therefore, the 1:1:1: method focuses on the discussion and reaction that occurs after a story. A story can be composed solely of (1) one action, (2) one emotion to be evoked, and (3) a one-sentence summary. Don’t get lost rambling, and also make sure your listener feels that they are fully participating in the conversation.
    The Art of Witty Banter: Be Clever, Quick, and Magnetic By Patrick King


    Read the show notes and/or transcript at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home
    Get the audiobook on Audible at https://bit.ly/WittyBanterKing


    For a free minibook on conversation tactics, visit Patrick King Consulting at https://bit.ly/pkconsulting


    For narration information visit Russell Newton at https://bit.ly/VoW-home
    For production information visit Newton Media Group LLC at https://bit.ly/newtonmg
    Keep the words flowing by https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RussellNewton (buying me a coffee).
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    • 7 min
    Take, Borrow, Steal

    Take, Borrow, Steal

    To get more creative, think more plainly. It sounds counterintuitive, but simple thoughts underlie complex processes and solutions. Thinking more basically allows you to refocus on what matters and escape what is known as functional fixedness. When we start to view goals and concepts in isolation and free of contextual constraints, we are freed.
    Questions or comments regarding the podcast?
    Email the show at KingPodcast@NewtonMG.com or let us know what you think at http://bit.ly/pkcomment
    Hear it here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking
    Show notes and/or episode transcripts are available at https://bit.ly/social-skills-shownotes
    Learn more or get a free mini-book on conversation tactics at https://bit.ly/pkconsulting
    For narration information visit Russell Newton at https://bit.ly/VoW-home
    For production information visit Newton Media Group LLC at https://bit.ly/newtonmg




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    • 10 min

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