Suburban Burnout

Megan & Laura
Suburban Burnout

If you bought into the suburban lifestyle and have ever wanted your money back, this is your podcast. Laura and Megan share real life topics that parents face on the road to empty nesting. From finding new mom friends to breaking down the youth sports world, they share how to manage, elevate and find humor in the suburban lifestyle. This lawyer and life coach will give you all the harsh truths and helpful info to have you crushing the suburb life without crushing your dreams... or your soul. For show notes, tools discussed, tangible life hacks and resources that will help you live best suburban life, subscribe today to the Suburban Burnout Podcast

  1. JUN 23

    When Motherhood, Cancer & a Bold Brand Collide: Alexandra Rutkay

    What happens when life throws you cancer, a new baby, and a pandemic, all at once? If you’re Alexandra Rutkay, you build something beautiful anyway. In this episode, Alex, founder of Citymouse, @citymouse_ny opens up about the chaos and clarity that came from facing a rare cancer diagnosis while navigating early motherhood in New York City. She shares how surviving the unimaginable inspired her to create a parenting brand that’s as stylish as it is practical and how an $8,500 investment turned into a seven-figure business in just two years, all while raising her kids and healing her body and mind. Alex talks candidly about the messiness behind the highlight reel: finding strength in her support network, leaning into therapy, trusting her gut over business trends, and designing bags that help parents feel prepared and a little bit cool amid the daily chaos. We dig into: How she balanced chemotherapy appointments with playdates and prototypes The behind-the-scenes of launching a brand from her living room Why community and authenticity are non-negotiables in business How fear can freeze us and what happens when we face it head-on Her hard-won wisdom on time management, mental health, and creating real moments of peace Alex’s story is proof that it’s never too late to start over, dream bigger, or do motherhood on your own terms, with a diaper bag you actually want to carry. If you need a reminder that reinvention is possible (and worth it), this one’s for you. We need your support: FOLLOW-LIKE-SHARE-REVIEW www.suburbanburnout.com

    41 min
  2. JUN 16

    Fatherhood, Nutrition & Fertility: with Skylar Nelson

    In this conversation, Skylar shares his journey into fatherhood, detailing his upbringing, the challenges of infertility, and the emotional toll it took on him and his wife. He discusses the importance of support during the postpartum period, both for mothers and fathers, and emphasizes the need for healthy routines to combat burnout. Skylar also reflects on his experiences as a father and the co-founding of I Am Nurtured,  In this engaging conversation, Skylar shares his insights on fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of gratitude, presence, and creating lasting memories with children. He discusses the transformative power of becoming a parent, the significance of teaching healthy eating habits, and the role of community support for fathers.  During his own postpartum experience, Skylar searched for answers, but unlike most, he brought a Registered Dietitian’s expertise to the table. Through this experience, he discovered that nutrition and natural solutions can make a huge difference, not just for new moms, but for dads too. We’re thrilled to have him here to share what every dad should know about male fertility, finding your role in the postpartum stage, and nourishing your entire family well. I Am Nurtured : "Our products were created to help you combat the most nagging symptoms of parenthood. Sleepless nights, long days, healing bodies, low energy, and mood swings all seem to come with the territory, but do the side effects have to be so extreme? Our answer is NO. We tailor I Am Nurtured products to your individual stages of parenthood - planning for baby, pregnancy, and the postpartum period." www.suburbanburnout.com

    44 min
  3. JUN 2

    Triggered or Transforming? From Division to Connection Kelsey Blahnik

    Forget surface-level advice and toxic positivity Megan and Laura dive headfirst into the emotional and psychological labor of modern life. From parenting and relationships to political tension and personal healing, this show unpacks the why behind our behaviors and offers practical strategies for growth, grounded in both clinical insight and real-life experience. With raw conversations and expert-informed dialogue, guest Kelsey Blahnik, LCSW-S, explores what it really takes to stay connected to ourselves and others in today’s world. Kelsey Blahnik, LCSW-S, @theandway, is a seasoned clinician and peace-making advocate with a deep commitment to community healing. https://www.theandwaytherapy.com/ Her background includes: Leading a group private practice focused on mental health and trauma recovery Working with vulnerable populations, including unhoused individuals with HIV, veterans at the VA, and clients in inpatient and outpatient substance abuse programs Co-hosting monthly gatherings with Love Anyway, fostering understanding in politically polarized communities Her blend of clinical expertise and grassroots activism brings a unique and grounded perspective to every episode. What We Talk About: Emotional Labor in Parenting How to identify, redistribute, and recover from the invisible workload. Guilt, Shame & Compliance Regret Learn the psychological difference and how to move from self-blame to self-awareness. Boundaries Without Burnout Practical tips for setting boundaries in relationships, family, work, and parenting. Unsolicited Advice & Assertive Communication When others overstep and how to speak your truth without spiraling. Individualism vs. Collectivism How cultural conditioning affects everything from parenting to conflict resolution. Conflict as Growth We teach you how to navigate it, not avoid it—because real connection includes discomfort. Parenting With Emotional Intelligence Raising resilient kids while breaking cycles and building healthier dynamics. Navigating Political Conversations How to disagree without disconnecting—and when to walk away. Mental Health, Media, and Modern Life Coping with anxiety, setting realistic expectations, and making intentional choices. Why You’ll Keep Listening: You’re done with surface-level advice and craving emotional depth You’re parenting, partnering, or processing—and want to do it better You want tools rooted in clinical insight, emotional intelligence, and real-life experience You care about community healing, not just personal growth You’ll Walk Away With: Scripts for hard conversations Tools to manage conflict and reduce emotional reactivity Support for parenting in a mentally healthy way Language to advocate for yourself in messy relationships Permission to change, grow, and hold boundaries that honor your values Perfect For: Parents, helpers, cycle-breakers, caretakers, adult children of dysfunction, educators, therapists, and anyone exhausted by the emotional gymnastics of modern life—but not willing to give up on connection.

    57 min
  4. MAY 19

    Trust Your Gut, Set the Boundary: Mother’s Day, Cats, & the Real World Advocating

    This week on Suburban Burnout, Megan and Laura reflect on Mother’s Day and how it often brings more insight than rest. From hilarious cat chaos to complex parenting dynamics, they share personal stories and insight on the emotional labor of motherhood and the importance of trusting your gut. They dive into the everyday moments that demand courage: advocating for your kids at school or on the field, speaking up at the doctor’s office, or dealing with pushy people who cross your boundaries. With real-life examples, they explore the pressures moms face to conform, the guilt that sneaks in when we push back, and why honoring your instincts is the ultimate act of self-care. If you’ve ever felt conflicted about how to speak up, when to walk away, or whether to trust that nagging feeling in your gut—this one’s for you. Topics include: – The unexpected drama of pet ownership (yes, the cats are back) – Why setting boundaries in parenting and business is hard—but necessary – How coaching, teachers, and school dynamics can shake your confidence – Emotional intelligence in communication, decision-making, and relationships – Real talk on guilt, self-advocacy, and why sometimes, you just need to say “no” Chapters: 00:00 Mother’s Day Reflections 03:01 Navigating Parenting Challenges 06:02 The Cat Saga: Unexpected Surprises 11:59 Setting Boundaries in Life 18:05 Advocating for Our Children 24:00 The Complexities of Coaching and Trust 31:50 Navigating Parenting Fears and Guilt 34:01 The Importance of Speaking Up 36:49 Trusting Your Instincts in Relationships 42:02 Setting Boundaries with Uncomfortable People 51:03 Understanding Business Relationships and Conflicts 58:03 Advocating for Yourself in Various Situations

    45 min
4.9
out of 5
34 Ratings

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If you bought into the suburban lifestyle and have ever wanted your money back, this is your podcast. Laura and Megan share real life topics that parents face on the road to empty nesting. From finding new mom friends to breaking down the youth sports world, they share how to manage, elevate and find humor in the suburban lifestyle. This lawyer and life coach will give you all the harsh truths and helpful info to have you crushing the suburb life without crushing your dreams... or your soul. For show notes, tools discussed, tangible life hacks and resources that will help you live best suburban life, subscribe today to the Suburban Burnout Podcast

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