The BE/DO Concept Podcast Lindy Kerby

I learned about The BE/DO Concept during a very difficult time in my life when I was depressed, angry and didn’t feel much hope that life was ever going to get better. Learning The BE/DO Concept has helped me completely change my life. It’s given me hope and helped me move forward in powerful ways. Learn about my story and learn how you can feel the same hope I do! 



In this episode, I talk about: 



My experience learning The BE/DO Concept®

How I was humbled and realized that my husband thought in an opposite way

How I began seeing a different perspective

How that perspective has changed my life



Key takeaways:



Trials are sometimes given to help humble us and give us new perspectives

* When you learn an opposite way to think, your heart is more open to experiencing greater joy and love

* Combined with faith and reliance on God, both ways of thinking lead to more peace, joy and happiness

In addition to helping improve relationships, The BE/DO Concept helps you gain confidence in yourself, helping you to better BE who you were meant to BE and DO what you were meant to DO!





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Have you felt the JOY yet of this Christmas Season? If you haven’t been feeling that kind of joy, learn how you can focus your thoughts in ways that could really make a difference this Christmas season.



In this episode, Lindy talks about: 



An experience that helped Lindy overcome her feelings that she wasn’t good enough

Different ways of thinking to improve feelings of joy and happiness

Specific strategies to help you feel more joy at this Christmas season

* Her song “Joy to the World” – Link to sheet music below.



Key takeaways:



There is a comparison between the difficulty in our trials and the amount of joy that we experience

We’ll be more successful in feeling joy when we check our motivation that it’s purely to BE or DO, rather than on getting something  back

Better connection and relationships come as we focus on feeling closer and accepting others (BE thinking)

When you aren’t feeling the energy to BE or DO something big, focusing on smaller pieces can help you gain more energy





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What is your driving force – Time or Energy? If you’ve ever felt stuck with not having enough time or energy, you’re going to love this episode!



In this episode, Lindy talks about: 



The benefits and differences between being driven by time vs. energy

How to find an abundance of energy or time – whichever one you struggle more with finding.

How to deal with people who don’t always appreciate your time or energy

* The driving force behind what has kept Lindy creating a podcast each week



Key takeaways:



* When you don’t feel like doing something, focusing  in a time conscious way can help you get things done, feel good about yourself and improve your energy

* When you aren’t accomplishing or making the difference you’d like to, focusing in the energy conscious way can help you get things done in less time, and help you become who you want to be

* Everyone has patterns and habits – whether they are conscious of them or not

* By being purposeful with both your time and energy, you’ll have the keys to learning how to fly





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It’s always nice to have good friends, but sometimes it’s challenging with certain personalities, or with people who just aren’t easy to get along with. Learn how you can have good relationships with people no matter their personality, and have the kind of relationships you’re looking for.



In this episode, Lindy talks about: 



How I was able to change a relationship with someone who I didn’t feel close to.

The different ways people think about friendship and why it’s important to know

How to improve a relationship with someone who has shut the door on you.

How you can improve your relationships with anyone based on “thinking differently”



Key takeaways:



Often when we’re frustrated with someone not being a friend, it’s because of our different definition of what a “friend” is

* When you’re a friend in both the BE and DO ways, it helps to cover your basis, and get along with everyone

* Learning to be a friend in both BE and DO ways helps you understand God’s love more easily

* There is always hope of a relationship getting better as you consistently work to BE a friend in the ways that mean friendship to them.





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What do you do when your spouse seems to be pursuing a relationship outside of your marriage? This is a hard, painful and frustrating situation for many, but in this episode, you’ll learn some new ways to think that can help your relationship to thrive.

In this episode, Lindy talks about: 



* The different ways people think about friends outside of marriage

* How to work towards getting rid of fears regarding betrayal and infidelity.

* How to get on the same page with your spouse regarding new “friends”

* What not to do that makes an affair more likely



Key takeaways:



Make sure the message you are sending your spouse is the message that helps your situation rather than makes it worse.

Making your spouse feel bad about their choices is not the best way to improve your relationship

Learning to understand your spouse’s different way of thinking is key to changing the dynamics of your marriage

Becoming more conscious of the effects of your own behaviors, will help initiate changes in your relationships much better than focusing on changes you want your spouse to make.





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Have you ever felt like you couldn’t trust someone? Or that someone couldn’t trust you? The word ‘trust’ can mean something completely different depending on your style of thinking. Learn about these differences and how you can develop more trust in your relationships!

In this episode, Lindy talks about: 



The different ways people think about trust.

How you can improve a relationship with someone you don’t trust





Why people sometimes accuse you of not being trustworthy, when you feel you are.





Why trust is so important in relationships.



Key takeaways:



Trust is something you develop by how you treat other people

We rely on trust to help us BE who you were meant to BE and DO what we were meant to DO

If you’re getting the same results in a relationship, developing more trust will help you in improving relationships

Recognizing our own coping behaviors can help us in improving our trust with others.



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