The BE/DO Concept Podcast

Lindy Kerby
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BE who you were meant to BE & DO what you were meant to DO. Learn the different BE and DO ways of thinking that can help you resolve any situation, problem, relationship trouble and help you to be happy and feel confident no matter what life throws at you.

Episodes

  1. 12/15/2023

    How The BE/DO Concept Changed my Life

    I learned about The BE/DO Concept during a very difficult time in my life when I was depressed, angry and didn’t feel much hope that life was ever going to get better. Learning The BE/DO Concept has helped me completely change my life. It’s given me hope and helped me move forward in powerful ways. Learn about my story and learn how you can feel the same hope I do!  In this episode, I talk about:  My experience learning The BE/DO Concept® How I was humbled and realized that my husband thought in an opposite way How I began seeing a different perspective How that perspective has changed my life Key takeaways: Trials are sometimes given to help humble us and give us new perspectives When you learn an opposite way to think, your heart is more open to experiencing greater joy and love Combined with faith and reliance on God, both ways of thinking lead to more peace, joy and happiness In addition to helping improve relationships, The BE/DO Concept helps you gain confidence in yourself, helping you to better BE who you were meant to BE and DO what you were meant to DO! Schedule a Discovery Call with ME! –Book a Discovery Call   (I’d love to chat with you!) Learn about my Mentoring Programs – Lindykerby.com Learn if you are more of a BE or a DO thinker – Take the Questionnaire Schedule me to Speak – Book Lindy  (I love sharing this concept!) Connect with Me – My Facebook Page  or Linked In

    25 min

  2. 12/08/2023

    How to feel more JOY this Christmas

    Have you felt the JOY yet of this Christmas Season? If you haven’t been feeling that kind of joy, learn how you can focus your thoughts in ways that could really make a difference this Christmas season. In this episode, Lindy talks about:  An experience that helped Lindy overcome her feelings that she wasn’t good enough Different ways of thinking to improve feelings of joy and happiness Specific strategies to help you feel more joy at this Christmas season Her song “Joy to the World” – Link to sheet music below. Key takeaways: There is a comparison between the difficulty in our trials and the amount of joy that we experience We’ll be more successful in feeling joy when we check our motivation that it’s purely to BE or DO, rather than on getting something  back Better connection and relationships come as we focus on feeling closer and accepting others (BE thinking) When you aren’t feeling the energy to BE or DO something big, focusing on smaller pieces can help you gain more energy Download the Sheet Music for Lindy’s song – Joy to the World Looking for ways to get more connected?  Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Call or visit Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    22 min

  3. 12/01/2023

    What is your driving factor? Energy or Time?

    What is your driving force – Time or Energy? If you’ve ever felt stuck with not having enough time or energy, you’re going to love this episode! In this episode, Lindy talks about:  The benefits and differences between being driven by time vs. energy How to find an abundance of energy or time – whichever one you struggle more with finding. How to deal with people who don’t always appreciate your time or energy The driving force behind what has kept Lindy creating a podcast each week Key takeaways: When you don’t feel like doing something, focusing  in a time conscious way can help you get things done, feel good about yourself and improve your energy When you aren’t accomplishing or making the difference you’d like to, focusing in the energy conscious way can help you get things done in less time, and help you become who you want to be Everyone has patterns and habits – whether they are conscious of them or not By being purposeful with both your time and energy, you’ll have the keys to learning how to fly Looking for ways to get more connected?  Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Call or visit Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    26 min

  4. 11/24/2023

    How to BE a good friend and improve your relationships

    It’s always nice to have good friends, but sometimes it’s challenging with certain personalities, or with people who just aren’t easy to get along with. Learn how you can have good relationships with people no matter their personality, and have the kind of relationships you’re looking for. In this episode, Lindy talks about:  How I was able to change a relationship with someone who I didn’t feel close to. The different ways people think about friendship and why it’s important to know How to improve a relationship with someone who has shut the door on you. How you can improve your relationships with anyone based on “thinking differently” Key takeaways: Often when we’re frustrated with someone not being a friend, it’s because of our different definition of what a “friend” is When you’re a friend in both the BE and DO ways, it helps to cover your basis, and get along with everyone Learning to be a friend in both BE and DO ways helps you understand God’s love more easily There is always hope of a relationship getting better as you consistently work to BE a friend in the ways that mean friendship to them. Looking for ways to get more connected?  Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Call or visit Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    18 min

  5. 11/17/2023

    How to handle "friends" competing in your marriage

    What do you do when your spouse seems to be pursuing a relationship outside of your marriage? This is a hard, painful and frustrating situation for many, but in this episode, you’ll learn some new ways to think that can help your relationship to thrive. In this episode, Lindy talks about:  The different ways people think about friends outside of marriage How to work towards getting rid of fears regarding betrayal and infidelity. How to get on the same page with your spouse regarding new “friends” What not to do that makes an affair more likely Key takeaways: Make sure the message you are sending your spouse is the message that helps your situation rather than makes it worse. Making your spouse feel bad about their choices is not the best way to improve your relationship Learning to understand your spouse’s different way of thinking is key to changing the dynamics of your marriage Becoming more conscious of the effects of your own behaviors, will help initiate changes in your relationships much better than focusing on changes you want your spouse to make. Looking for ways to get more connected?  Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Call or visit Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    20 min

  6. 11/10/2023

    Developing Trust

    Have you ever felt like you couldn’t trust someone? Or that someone couldn’t trust you? The word ‘trust’ can mean something completely different depending on your style of thinking. Learn about these differences and how you can develop more trust in your relationships! In this episode, Lindy talks about:  The different ways people think about trust. How you can improve a relationship with someone you don’t trust Why people sometimes accuse you of not being trustworthy, when you feel you are. Why trust is so important in relationships. Key takeaways: Trust is something you develop by how you treat other people We rely on trust to help us BE who you were meant to BE and DO what we were meant to DO If you’re getting the same results in a relationship, developing more trust will help you in improving relationships Recognizing our own coping behaviors can help us in improving our trust with others. Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group – Join the November Gratitude Challenge Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    22 min

  7. 11/03/2023

    How to Foster an Attitude of Gratitude

    Sometimes when life gets hard, it’s difficult to focus on what you’re grateful for. However, using BE and DO thinking, you can focus your thoughts in ways that can help foster an attitude of gratitude. Learn how you can foster this type of attitude that can keep you feeling happy, encouraged, and moving forward with hope!  In this episode, Lindy talks about: How to focus in ways that will help you feel more gratitude in your life How using BE and DO thinking can help you in feeling more grateful How gratitude can help you overcome some of your trials Some of Lindy’s personal experiences that helped her develop her attitude of gratitude Key Takeaways: Gratitude is always a choice There is always something to be grateful for in every situation Gratitude is an attribute and a gift that develops with focus By looking for the lesson learned, you will find things to be grateful for. Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group – Join the November Gratitude Challenge Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    22 min

  8. 10/27/2023

    How we THINK about Being Genuine

    At Halloween, people love to get in their costumes and pretend to be someone their not. However, at other times, it’s not so cool to be around people that aren’t being genuine. Learn how you can help others to be more genuine around you, and so you can enjoy being more genuine yourself. In this episode, Lindy talks about: How people think differently about what it means to “Be Genuine” Why sometimes people’s actions don’t match up with what they are saying or feeling Why people get stuck sometimes when trying to be genuine Why it’s more important to focus on being genuine yourself rather than worry about others and whether or not they are being genuine Key Takeaways: It’s not ingenuine to step up and focus on being who you want to BE When we are more genuine with ourselves, others are more genuine to us Genuine love is both DO thinking (service and sacrifice) and BE thinking (wholehearted appreciate and acceptance) Focusing on Being who you were meant to BE and Doing what you were meant to do will lead you to becoming your most genuine yourself! Ask the Community Facebook Group – Love and Uplift Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    20 min

  9. 10/20/2023

    How to LOVE Someone with Aspergers

    If you’ve ever had a relationship with someone who has Aspergers, then you know how different their thinking style can be. Learn how you can improve some of these relationships, by thinking differently and learning how to love. In this episode, Lindy talks about: Her story of learning how she came to love her husband with Aspergers How to switch your focus from thinking only about limitations and frustrations to more helpful feelings of love Why Lindy has come to embraced and love the thinking strategies of those with Aspergers. How The BE/DO Concept relates to Aspergers. Key Takeaways: Looking at people through a lens of love helps change limitations to strengths and weaknesses that help you to grow Why people with Aspergers are some of the most loving and genuine people out there. Things that may seem limiting can become the greatest strengths. By learning to love someone with Aspergers, you can begin to better understand God’s love.   Ask the Community Facebook Group – Love and Uplift Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    20 min

  10. 10/13/2023

    Perceived Truth and How to Use it To Overcome Limiting Beliefs

    How can you get rid of limiting beliefs and recognize false perceptions that may be holding you back? In this episode, you’ll learn how you can use perceived truth to help you in recognizing some of your limiting beliefs. Learn how this method can help you recognize truth and keep you always moving forward in positive ways! In this episode, Lindy talks about: Some of her limiting beliefs and how she was able to overcome them in regards to dating and how she felt about herself How Lindy began changing her thinking to recognize truth Why changing what you tell yourself can help you in overcoming limiting beliefs Why love is the perceived truth that has never steered Lindy wrong. Key Takeaways: Our limiting beliefs not only drive us and what we ae able to accomplish, but also how other people perceive us and how they interact with us With new perceived truths, we can recognize what is limiting and what helps us move forward The way to can know if our perceived truth is limiting is whether it is helping us move forward in positive ways Changing our lives begins with being kind to ourselves in the same ways we would be kind to others.   Download Leslie Householder’s The Jackrabbit Factor – https://jackrabbitfactor.com/ Ask my Community Facebook Group – Love and Uplift Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page  or Linked In

    24 min
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BE who you were meant to BE & DO what you were meant to DO. Learn the different BE and DO ways of thinking that can help you resolve any situation, problem, relationship trouble and help you to be happy and feel confident no matter what life throws at you.

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  • Creator
    Lindy Kerby
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2023
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    Copyright © 2023 by Lindy Kerby
  • Show Website
    The BE/DO Concept Podcast