Brief conversations about sex between men that might surprise you. Host Paul Rosenberg, author of The Heart of Jacks: The History and Culture of Jack-Off Clubs, talks with bloggers, writers, scientists, sexologists, artists, community organizers and regular folks about the world of unexpected ideas that emerge from J/O club and “bator” cultures, a world in which millions of men openly share and celebrate the most common—and usually private—sexual activity of our species.
Coming Out with Jallen Rix
Speaker, author, and educator, Jallen Rix holds a Doctorate of Education in Sexology. He has taught at the University of Nevada, Reno and the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. He also has a private practice in Palm Springs California, which includes personal consulting, body work, sacred intimacy, and surrogate-style partner experiences. He is a leading expert on the damaging effects of, and recovery from, ex-gay ministries and so-call "reparative therapy.”
Segment 1: Paul’s coming out story and stepping back to coming out 101.
Segment 2: Jallen’s coming out story.
Brian McNaught | The Hero’s Journey
Brian McNaught has been a pioneering educator on LGBTQ issues since he was fired by the Catholic Church in 1974 for being gay. He’s an author, columnist, radio and television host, podcaster and world-renowned diversity trainer. Brian now offers most of his books and DVDs free. He’s certified as a sexuality educator and is in a 45-year relationship with his husband, Ray.
In the interview, we talk about Brian’s resistance to the Vietnam War, his gay activism in the Catholic Church, his mission to help senior gay men experience sexual fulfillment as they age and much, much more, including the longest listing of inspirations of any HOJ guest to date.
Special thanks to Dr. Joe Kort for introducing us!
Going Under - Daniel McGlothlen (part 2)
Daniel McGlothlen is a bondage performer and photographer, a рornographer, an erotic hypnotist, a sex educator, a sex-positive community organizer and a multi-year Seattle Erotic Art Festival juror. He is the proprietor of visiblerestraint.com, the web platform for his homemade amateur bondage рorn. He lives in Seattle with his husband and their cats.
This episode is final half of a 2-part interview. In this show, Daniel tells the story of his interest in hypnosis, a skill he came by honestly, and his exploration and development of his current expertise in erotic hypnosis, taking Paul on a tour via an exhibition of “guided gooning” conducted via private Discord server, as well as a demonstration of a pre-installed trigger connecting horniness with math impairment.
The Spicy Factor - Daniel McGlothlen (part 1)
This episode is part 1 of a 2-show interview. In this installment, Paul and Daniel discuss kink, levels of spiciness, the “hot sauce effect” and Rain City Jacks.
Part two, “Going Under,” will be posted June 2, 2021.
Fourth Monday, May 2021
After an extended hiatus, Paul returns with his “Inside Baseball” update on the State of the Pod. This is probably a good episode for first-time listeners, as it offers a primer on The Heart of Jacks Project’s purpose and method (such as it is), plus some revisions to the original concept and a ton of previews into the next couple of months of the podcast.
This show includes a brief excerpt from the outstanding podcast, Simplify. In it, the brilliant and charming Caitlin Schiller interviews Christopher Ryan, co-author of Sex at Dawn. Link to the full episode is in the show notes.
In Feedback, Paul discusses erotic fiction, misogyny and lays out the underlying business model of every jack-off club, and it’s a lot more familiar than you might imagine.
Infinite thanks to the five new patrons who joined the Project since the last Fourth Monday. You guys rock!
Placeholder: A Brief, Personal History
There’s a reason why the podcast has taken an occasional hiatus since it’s launch in the fall, and it’s not vacations. I’ve been cagey about it but I’ve decided that it’s time to come clean. Here’s a short, personal history of the last couple of years to serve as a placeholder until the next full episode. Please send your feedback to email@example.com.
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Thoughtful and fun!
A serious topic that is treated with respect while at the same time celebrating the beauty and joy inherent in our sexuality.
DEFINITELY give it a listen
Fascinating. Sex-positive. Well-produced. Touching on human psychology, sociology, law, dysmorphia, promorphia (is that a word), shame, oppression, liberation, and oh yeah of course human sexuality in a frank, expansive, wonderful way. All around a subject that would make your pinch-lipped aunt’s blow her lid WHAT IS NOT TO LOVE?