The House of Mourning: Embodied Wisdom from Grief, Loss and Trauma

Joëlle Croteau-Willard

Living through two life shaking losses, the death of her father and now the death of her second child, Joëlle explores the unique wisdom and world view that comes with lived experience of grief, loss and trauma. This podcast takes on the many truths behind what we are never told about pregnancy and infant loss and grief in general. This is a place that advocates for grief informed spaces as well as normalizing grief and mourning as a valuable and deeply meaningful process. H.O.M is also for the loved ones of grievers who want to learn how to better support to a grieving loved one.

Episodes

  1. 02/07/2024

    Unbroken: Reframing Trauma

    In this episode, Mary Catherine McDonald (MC) discusses her experience with grief and loss, as well as her research on trauma. She highlights the grief-phobic nature of society and the need for more open conversations about loss. MC reframes the concept of trauma, emphasizing that the trauma response is never wrong and that shame is the real problem. She also explores the importance of relational support in healing from trauma and grief. The conversation delves into the challenges of navigating identity after a traumatic event and the need for society to acknowledge and support those who have experienced loss. Takeaways from this episode: Society is often grief-phobic, making it difficult for individuals to openly discuss and process their grief. The trauma response is an adaptive mechanism that is designed to respond to extreme overwhelm and keep us alive. Shame is the real problem when it comes to trauma and grief, as it prevents individuals from seeking help and healing. Relational support is crucial in the healing process, and healing can happen in various relationships and settings. Trauma and grief can lead to a loss of identity, and individuals may need to reorient themselves and redraw their map of the world. It is important to challenge societal narratives around trauma and grief, and to recognize that healing is a unique and individual process. Content by Chapter: 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:33 Experience with Grief and Loss 03:36The Grief-Phobic Society 08:23 The Thin Spaces of Grief 11:49 Reframing Trauma 15:30 The Concept of Brokenness 18:15 The Trauma Response is Never Wrong 21:57 The Importance of Relational Support 25:24 The Isolation Impulse 29:12 Loss of Identity 32:06 The Elephant in the Room 36:09 The Aftermath of Trauma

    58 min
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About

Living through two life shaking losses, the death of her father and now the death of her second child, Joëlle explores the unique wisdom and world view that comes with lived experience of grief, loss and trauma. This podcast takes on the many truths behind what we are never told about pregnancy and infant loss and grief in general. This is a place that advocates for grief informed spaces as well as normalizing grief and mourning as a valuable and deeply meaningful process. H.O.M is also for the loved ones of grievers who want to learn how to better support to a grieving loved one.