The Language of Behavior

Joshua Stamper and Charle Peck
The Language of Behavior

The Language of Behavior Podcast with Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explores the deeper meaning behind student behaviors and provides actionable strategies for educators and leaders to respond with empathy and effectiveness. Each episode dives into innovative ways to create secure and supportive learning environments. Join us as we decode behaviors and build healthier school communities, one conversation at a time.

Episodes

  1. 3 DAYS AGO

    How to Assess our Student's Level of Risk Effectively

    In this critical episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle and Josh tackle a sensitive yet vital topic: "How to Assess Our Student's Level of Risk Effectively?" Together, they explore the warning signs—both verbal and non-verbal—that educators need to recognize when assessing student mental health and the potential risk of suicide. From understanding levels of danger to identifying subtle behavioral cues, this episode equips listeners with the tools to navigate these challenging situations with care and intention. Charle and Josh provide actionable insights to help educators build awareness, foster open communication, and create a supportive environment where students feel seen and safe. Tune in to learn how proactive measures can save lives and make a meaningful difference in your school community. -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper: Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education. Joshua is passionate about implementing trauma-responsive techniques, exploring alternative student discipline methods, and promoting healthy leadership habits. He is deeply committed to enhancing leadership capacity through self-care practices, ensuring that educators are equipped to lead with empathy and resilience. As the author of The Language of Behavior and Aspire to Lead and host of two popular podcasts, Joshua continues to inspire and empower educators and leaders worldwide. Follow Joshua Stamper:  Contact: https://joshstamper.com/contact/Twitter: www.twitter.com/Joshua__StamperInstagram: www.instagram.com/joshua__stamperLinkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-stamperFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AspirePodcastSubscribe to Aspire to Lead: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/aspire-the-leadership-development-podcast/id1384210762?mt=2Book:...

    18 min
  2. DEC 10

    Planting the Seeds of Positive Student Behavior with Todd Nesloney

    In this special episode of The Language of Behavior, we welcome our very first guest, the extraordinary Todd Nesloney! As an award-winning author, speaker, and renowned school leader, Todd brings a wealth of wisdom and heart to the conversation. Todd takes us on a journey through his evolution as an educator—from implementing practical steps to reduce student misbehavior as a teacher to discovering powerful ways to transform school culture as a principal. Through candid stories and hard-earned lessons, Todd shares how he prioritized supporting students through their toughest moments and empowered his staff to do the same. We also dive into Todd’s incredible free resource, 4 Simple Steps to Difficult Conversations, where he unpacks practical strategies for navigating challenging moments with clarity and compassion. Finally, Todd shares how he continues to inspire and serve schools and districts nationwide. This is an episode packed with actionable takeaways, heartfelt insights, and inspiration for every educator. About Todd Nesloney:Todd Nesloney is the Director of Culture and Strategic Leadership for the Texas Elementary Principals and Supervisors Association (TEPSA). He was previously a Principal/Lead Learner at a PreK-5 school in Texas. He is an award winning author for his work in co-authoring Kids Deserve It! and Sparks in the Dark. He has also written the book Stories from Webb and published a children’s book, Spruce & Lucy. Todd has been recognized by John C. Maxwell as a Top 10 Finalist for the 2018 Transformational Leadership Award, by the White House as a Connected Educator “Champion of Change”, the National School Board Association as one of the “20 to Watch” in Education, the Center for Digital Education as one of their “Top 40 Innovators in Education”, the BAMMYs as the “National Elementary Principal of the Year” and the “National Elementary Teacher of the Year”, and the Texas Computer Education Association as their “Texas Elementary Teacher of the Year”. FREE RESOURCE: 4 Simple Steps to Difficult ConversationsNo one likes to have difficult conversations but they don’t have to be…..difficult! When you sign up for Todd’s email list you get these 4 easy steps on how to make every difficult conversation a success! Follow Todd Nesloney: Website: https://www.toddnesloney.com/Twitter (x): https://twitter.com/TechNinjaToddFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ToddNesloney/ -- Do you have a questions for the podcast: Fill out this quick Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About our HostsCharle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher...

    25 min
  3. DEC 3

    Navigating Student Mental Health from Curiosity to Crisis

    In this episode of The Language of Behavior, hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explore the critical topic of student mental health and the importance of timely referrals to school counselors. Join them as they discuss how to identify students who may be in need, using their insightful framework that classifies concerns into three levels of risk: Curiosity, Concern, and Crisis. Listeners will gain practical strategies for recognizing the signs that a student may be struggling, including specific examples for each level. Discover how to approach conversations with students who expresses feeling overwhelmed, and learn the right questions to ask that promote open dialogue and understanding. Do you have a questions for the podcast: Fill out this quick Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper:Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education. Joshua is passionate about implementing...

    18 min
  4. NOV 26

    Should Teachers Assess Student Mental Health?

    How can teachers identify when a student is struggling with their mental health? In this compelling episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper take on the big question: "Should teachers assess students' mental health?" Together, they share a practical and empathetic approach to spotting the signs that something might be wrong. By focusing on three key areas—feelings, behaviors, and appearances—educators can gain a better understanding of their students’ needs without overstepping. Charle and Josh also dive into the how staying nonjudgmental, asking questions with curiosity (not interrogation), truly listening, and recognizing the unmet needs beneath the surface. These strategies aren’t just about assessment—they’re about connection and showing students they’re seen and supported. Discover how to approach this sensitive topic with confidence, build stronger relationships, and make your classroom a place where every student feels safe to be themselves. Don’t miss this eye-opening conversation! Do you have a questions for the podcast: Fill out this quick Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper:Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a...

    13 min
  5. NOV 19

    How Teachers Can Be Proactive to Prevent Escalating Behaviors

    In this important episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper dive into a powerful listener question: "How can teachers be proactive to prevent behaviors from escalating?" Charle and Joshua share actionable strategies to help educators take a proactive approach to behavior management, including: Using check-ins and check-outs to foster trust and understand student emotions.Building meaningful relationships with hard-to-reach students.Incorporating fun, low-pressure activities to gauge student moods.Asking key questions to uncover the root causes of dysregulation or warning signs of misbehavior. These practical tips are designed to create a supportive, emotionally safe classroom environment where students feel valued and understood. Whether you’re a teacher, counselor, or school leader, this episode is packed with insights to help you reduce behavior issues before they arise. Tune in now to gain tools for building connections, fostering trust, and making a difference in your students' lives! Do you have a questions for the podcast: Fill out this quick Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: a href="https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

    18 min
  6. NOV 11

    Environment Strategies to Reduce Student Behaviors

    In this week's episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle a listener's question: "How do we set up a classroom to reduce behaviors?" Charle and Joshua explore practical strategies to create a safe and calming environment that benefits students, parents, and teachers alike. From adjusting lighting and furniture to choosing colors, sounds, and even scents, they dive into how each element can impact student emotions and behavior. With real-life stories, they illustrate how a thoughtfully designed classroom can help prevent negative triggers and reduce overwhelm, fostering a more positive and supportive atmosphere for everyone involved. Questions for the podcast: Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale About Charle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper:Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education. Joshua is passionate about implementing...

    16 min
  7. NOV 4

    The Relationship Inventory

    As we are entering a season of increased student behavior, Charle and Josh introduce an essential and free tool designed to help educators strengthen connections with students and foster a positive classroom environment. This simple 20-step guide serves as a reminder of "best practices" for every stage of class: from greeting students as they enter, to starting lessons on the right note, and maintaining positive interactions throughout. Whether you're a teacher, instructional coach, counselor, or administrator, The Relationship Agreement can be used to give valuable feedback, maintain accountability, and make intentional strides toward building trust and engagement. Join us as we dive into how these easy steps can proactively reduce student behavior issues and create a thriving learning space for all. Free Resource: The Relationship Inventory Checklist Questions for the podcast: Google Form About Charle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper:Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in...

    15 min
  8. OCT 30

    Rethinking Discipline by Building Trust and Connection in the Classroom

    Welcome to the debut episode of The Language of Behavior! In this episode, hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper introduce themselves and share the mission behind the podcast: transforming how educators approach student behavior. We dive into the question, "Is the traditional way of student discipline working?" Spoiler alert—it’s time for a new approach. Together, we explore how traditional practices like detentions, In-School Suspension (ISS), and Out-of-School Suspension (OSS) often fall short and can even harm relationships with students. Using data on student mental health and real-world experiences, we emphasize the need for proactive, relationship-focused strategies. This episode introduces a practical tool called the "Relationship Inventory," designed to help educators foster belonging, trust, and safety in their classrooms. Join us as we kick off this journey to reimagine discipline and empower students through connection. Free Resource: The Relationship Inventory Checklist Questions for the podcast: Google Form About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper:Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art...

    15 min

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The Language of Behavior Podcast with Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explores the deeper meaning behind student behaviors and provides actionable strategies for educators and leaders to respond with empathy and effectiveness. Each episode dives into innovative ways to create secure and supportive learning environments. Join us as we decode behaviors and build healthier school communities, one conversation at a time.

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