The Language of Behavior

Joshua Stamper and Charle Peck
The Language of Behavior

The Language of Behavior Podcast with Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explores the deeper meaning behind student behaviors and provides actionable strategies for educators and leaders to respond with empathy and effectiveness. Each episode dives into innovative ways to create secure and supportive learning environments. Join us as we decode behaviors and build healthier school communities, one conversation at a time.

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    Supporting Students When You're Their Trusted Adult

    What happens when a student places all their trust in you and no one else? In this episode, Charle and Joshua unpack the delicate dance of earning trust while knowing when to pass the baton. With stories, insights, and actionable advice, they explore how to identify when it’s time to involve counselors, social workers, or other professionals to ensure every student gets the holistic support they need. Tune in for a thoughtful discussion on balancing connection, boundaries, and collaboration to truly show up for students in crisis. Do you have any questions for the podcast? Fill out this quick Google Form: https://forms.gle/u5axHazzuyN5pry76 New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out Soon: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org   Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlepeck/Email: charle@thrivibgeducator.org Podcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl   About Joshua Stamper: Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education. Joshua is passionate about implementing trauma-responsive techniques, exploring alternative student discipline methods, and promoting healthy leadership habits. He is deeply committed to enhancing leadership capacity through self-care practices, ensuring that educators are equipped to lead with empathy and resilience. As the author of The Language of Behavior and Aspire to Lead and host of two popular...

    15 min
  2. JAN 15

    The Power of Gratitude with Lainie Rowell

    What if gratitude could be the game-changer for mental health in schools? Join Charle and Joshua as they sit down with Lainie Rowell, author of Evolving Gratitude, for a powerful conversation on the science and magic of gratitude. Discover how this simple yet bold practice can rewire the brain, boost emotional resilience, and transform the classroom environment. Lainie shares her personal journey, research insights, and practical strategies for educators and students to harness gratitude as a tool for connection, growth, and joy. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to create lasting, positive change through the power of gratitude! Do you have any questions for the podcast? Fill out this quick Google Form: https://forms.gle/u5axHazzuyN5pry76 New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org   Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlepeck/Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.org Podcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl   About Joshua Stamper: Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and...

    31 min
  3. JAN 7

    Not Moving Up the Ladder of Conflict in Times of Choas

    Ever feel like the world is spinning out of control, and all eyes are on you? In this episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explore the art of keeping your cool when chaos erupts. Tackling the question "How do I stay calm when I feel chaotic in front of others?" they introduce the Ladder of Conflict—a powerful tool for understanding and managing emotional escalation. But staying calm isn’t just about what happens in the moment; it’s about creating a support system that has your back when the pressure’s on. Charle and Joshua share how to build your "Dream Team" of support, like finding a classroom sanctuary to reset your mind, leaning on the colleague who always makes you laugh, or seeking out that trusted person to vent to when you need a safe space. Packed with practical strategies for emotional resilience and mental health, this episode will help you lead with clarity and grace, no matter the storm. Do you have a questions for the podcast? Fill out this quick Google Form: https://forms.gle/u5axHazzuyN5pry76 New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org   Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d  Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.org Podcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl   About Joshua Stamper: Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and...

    18 min
  4. JAN 1

    Strategies for Deescalating Aggressive Situations

    Tensions rise, emotions boil over, and suddenly, you're faced with a student on the brink of aggression. What do you do? In this episode, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper tackle one of the most challenging and pressing questions educators face: How can I deescalate when a student seems ready to lash out? Drawing from their wealth of experience, they break down effective, trauma-informed deescalation strategies designed to create safety, diffuse conflict, and restore calm without escalating the situation further. With practical tips, real-life examples, and powerful tools, Charle and Josh empower educators to approach these moments with confidence, compassion, and control. Don’t miss this transformative conversation that equips you to turn tension into connection. Do you have a questions for the podcast? Fill out this quick Google Form: https://forms.gle/u5axHazzuyN5pry76 New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org   Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d  Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.org Podcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl   About Joshua Stamper: Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua...

    27 min
  5. 12/24/2024

    Reaching the Unreachable: 17 Strategies for Avoidant Students

    Ever faced a student who simply shuts down, refusing to engage or even lift a pencil? In this week's episode, Charle and Joshua dive into the often-overlooked challenges of avoidant students—the ones who declare, "I'm just here because I have to be." Through powerful storytelling and expert insights, they peel back the layers of disengagement, exploring what might lie beneath the resistance. With 17 creative strategies in hand, they offer fresh perspectives and actionable tools for fostering connection, reigniting motivation, and building bridges with even the most withdrawn students. Join the conversation and discover new ways to inspire your students to take the first step forward! -- Do you have a questions for the podcast? Fill out this quick Google Form: https://forms.gle/u5axHazzuyN5pry76 New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale Do you have a questions for the podcast? Fill out this quick Google Form: https://forms.gle/u5axHazzuyN5pry76 New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org   Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d  Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.org Podcast: Thriving EducatorBook: a href="https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

    27 min
  6. 12/18/2024

    How to Assess our Student's Level of Risk Effectively

    In this critical episode of The Language of Behavior, Charle and Josh tackle a sensitive yet vital topic: "How to Assess Our Student's Level of Risk Effectively?" Together, they explore the warning signs—both verbal and non-verbal—that educators need to recognize when assessing student mental health and the potential risk of suicide. From understanding levels of danger to identifying subtle behavioral cues, this episode equips listeners with the tools to navigate these challenging situations with care and intention. Charle and Josh provide actionable insights to help educators build awareness, foster open communication, and create a supportive environment where students feel seen and safe. Tune in to learn how proactive measures can save lives and make a meaningful difference in your school community. -- About Charle Peck: Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck:  Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper: Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education. Joshua is passionate about implementing trauma-responsive techniques, exploring alternative student discipline methods, and promoting healthy leadership habits. He is deeply committed to enhancing leadership capacity through self-care practices, ensuring that educators are equipped to lead with empathy and resilience. As the author of The Language of Behavior and Aspire to Lead and host of two popular podcasts, Joshua continues to inspire and empower educators and leaders worldwide. Follow Joshua Stamper:  Contact: https://joshstamper.com/contact/Twitter: www.twitter.com/Joshua__StamperInstagram: www.instagram.com/joshua__stamperLinkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-stamperFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AspirePodcastSubscribe to Aspire to Lead: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/aspire-the-leadership-development-podcast/id1384210762?mt=2Book:...

    18 min
  7. 12/10/2024

    Planting the Seeds of Positive Student Behavior with Todd Nesloney

    In this special episode of The Language of Behavior, we welcome our very first guest, the extraordinary Todd Nesloney! As an award-winning author, speaker, and renowned school leader, Todd brings a wealth of wisdom and heart to the conversation. Todd takes us on a journey through his evolution as an educator—from implementing practical steps to reduce student misbehavior as a teacher to discovering powerful ways to transform school culture as a principal. Through candid stories and hard-earned lessons, Todd shares how he prioritized supporting students through their toughest moments and empowered his staff to do the same. We also dive into Todd’s incredible free resource, 4 Simple Steps to Difficult Conversations, where he unpacks practical strategies for navigating challenging moments with clarity and compassion. Finally, Todd shares how he continues to inspire and serve schools and districts nationwide. This is an episode packed with actionable takeaways, heartfelt insights, and inspiration for every educator. About Todd Nesloney:Todd Nesloney is the Director of Culture and Strategic Leadership for the Texas Elementary Principals and Supervisors Association (TEPSA). He was previously a Principal/Lead Learner at a PreK-5 school in Texas. He is an award winning author for his work in co-authoring Kids Deserve It! and Sparks in the Dark. He has also written the book Stories from Webb and published a children’s book, Spruce & Lucy. Todd has been recognized by John C. Maxwell as a Top 10 Finalist for the 2018 Transformational Leadership Award, by the White House as a Connected Educator “Champion of Change”, the National School Board Association as one of the “20 to Watch” in Education, the Center for Digital Education as one of their “Top 40 Innovators in Education”, the BAMMYs as the “National Elementary Principal of the Year” and the “National Elementary Teacher of the Year”, and the Texas Computer Education Association as their “Texas Elementary Teacher of the Year”. FREE RESOURCE: 4 Simple Steps to Difficult ConversationsNo one likes to have difficult conversations but they don’t have to be…..difficult! When you sign up for Todd’s email list you get these 4 easy steps on how to make every difficult conversation a success! Follow Todd Nesloney: Website: https://www.toddnesloney.com/Twitter (x): https://twitter.com/TechNinjaToddFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ToddNesloney/ -- Do you have a questions for the podcast: Fill out this quick Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About our HostsCharle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher...

    25 min
  8. 12/03/2024

    Navigating Student Mental Health from Curiosity to Crisis

    In this episode of The Language of Behavior, hosts Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explore the critical topic of student mental health and the importance of timely referrals to school counselors. Join them as they discuss how to identify students who may be in need, using their insightful framework that classifies concerns into three levels of risk: Curiosity, Concern, and Crisis. Listeners will gain practical strategies for recognizing the signs that a student may be struggling, including specific examples for each level. Discover how to approach conversations with students who expresses feeling overwhelmed, and learn the right questions to ask that promote open dialogue and understanding. Do you have a questions for the podcast: Fill out this quick Google Form New Book "The Language of Behavior" is Coming Out this Winter: Get on the Pre-order list at https://thrivingeducator.myflodesk.com/presale -- About Charle Peck:Charle Peck is the co-creator of Thriving School Community, a revolutionary program designed for schools to improve mental health. She holds an MS in Education and an MS in Social Work as a 20+ year veteran in education (K-12). As a global keynote speaker, she delivers powerful messages of hope to educators and facilitates meaningful professional development. Charle successfully equips school staff with practical tools to mitigate teacher burnout and the youth mental health crisis providing relief to schools all across the country. Her unique lens as a high school teacher turned clinical therapist specializing in trauma makes her stories relevant and captivating to educators struggling in today’s system. You can purchase her book “Improving School Mental Health: The Thriving School Community Solution” on Amazon and connect with her on X @CharlePeck. Follow Charle Peck: Website: www.ThrivingEducator.org Twitter: https://twitter.com/CharlePeckFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/charlepeckconsulting?mibextid=LQQJ4d Other: charle@thrivibgeducator.orgPodcast: Thriving EducatorBook: https://www.amazon.com/Improving-School-Mental-Health-Community/dp/B0BTS3MN2P?crid=EIKAGWZ4V006&keywords=charle+peck&qid=1705780803&sprefix=charle+peck%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=aspirewebsite-20&linkId=6456f4f1bc2440be71d094a5d14656a4&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl  About Joshua Stamper:Joshua Stamper is the Director of Innovation for the Teach Better Team, a multifaceted role that encompasses his talents as an author, podcaster, leadership coach, and education keynote speaker. With a rich background as a middle school administrator, classroom art educator, and athletic coach, Joshua brings a wealth of experience to his work in education. Joshua is passionate about implementing...

    18 min

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The Language of Behavior Podcast with Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper explores the deeper meaning behind student behaviors and provides actionable strategies for educators and leaders to respond with empathy and effectiveness. Each episode dives into innovative ways to create secure and supportive learning environments. Join us as we decode behaviors and build healthier school communities, one conversation at a time.

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