The Open Bedroom Podcast Jennifer Kaylo

Kate Shelor's Background (00:02:27)Introduction of Kate as a hypnotherapist and her expertise in subconscious influences on relationships.

Exploring OnlyFans (00:03:41)Jennifer shares her experience signing up for OnlyFans to understand its content better.

Safety in Content Creation (00:06:04)Discussion on how OnlyFans provides a safer environment for content creators.

Connection Over Content (00:10:37)Emphasis on the importance of personal connection in the success of OnlyFans creators.

Navigating Personal Insecurities (00:11:07)Kate shares her feelings of insecurity about how followers perceive her.

Balancing Professional and Personal Life (00:12:24)Jennifer highlights Kate's multifaceted identity beyond her OnlyFans presence.

Journey to Hypnotherapy (00:14:30)Kate shares her personal journey with hypnotherapy and overcoming orgasm challenges.

The Importance of Sexual Education (00:15:39)Kate emphasizes the need for open conversations about sexuality and sexual health.

Building a Community (00:17:59)Kate describes her motivation to create a supportive community around sexuality.

Challenges in Content Creation (00:20:05)Discussion on the difficulties of sharing educational content on social media platforms.

Financial Success and Family Support (00:22:10)Kate discusses the financial benefits of her work and her family's acceptance.

Censorship Challenges (00:23:55)Discussion on censorship issues faced when discussing sex education on platforms like OnlyFans and Patreon.

OnlyFans Exploration (00:24:28)Exploration of OnlyFans as a platform for educational content and personal experiences in creating such content.

Business Mindset in Adult Content (00:30:03)Emphasis on treating adult content creation as a business rather than a casual hobby for financial success.

Understanding Sexual Dynamics (00:39:00)Discussion on sexual dynamics in relationships and how different drives affect intimacy and connection.

Addressing Sexless Marriages (00:40:07)Insight into underlying issues in sexless marriages and the importance of communication and connection.

Effective Communication Strategies (00:43:23)Tips on how to approach difficult conversations about intimacy in a constructive and non-pressuring manner.

Using 'I Feel' Statements (00:46:36)Explains how to express feelings without accusations to reduce defensiveness in conversations.

Seeking Professional Help (00:48:10)Suggests involving a therapist if communication struggles persist, highlighting the importance of tools for conversation.

Coaching Through OnlyFans (00:48:13)Kate shares her approach to coaching on OnlyFans and the limitations of her current practice.

Men's Experiences on OnlyFans (00:49:06)Explores why men seek advice on OnlyFans, including comfort in discussing personal issues.

Shame Around Sexuality (00:50:53)Addresses men's feelings of shame regarding sexuality and perceived porn addiction.

Understanding Compulsive Behaviors (00:52:18)Explains how feelings of loneliness and anxiety often lead to compulsive behaviors like porn use.

Focusing on Enrichment (00:54:21)Encourages adding positive activities to life rather than fixating on what to avoid.

Addressing Shame Cycles (00:55:13)Explores how negative feelings about porn can create a cycle of shame and compulsive behavior.

Aligning Values with Actions (00:56:21)Highlights the need to understand personal values in relation to behaviors like porn consumption.

Breaking Down the Cycle of Shame (00:58:29)Discusses the harmful impacts of shame-based approaches to porn addiction and the need for understanding.

Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations (00:59:08)Acknowledges the importance of having safe environments for discussing sensitive topics like sexuality.

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Jealousy and Compassion (00:00:03) Jennifer discusses experiencing compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy and encourages allowing oneself to feel jealousy.

Online Coaching Services (00:01:13) Jennifer mentions her online coaching services in the sex and relationships space, focusing on topics such as open relationships, polyamory, swinging, the lifestyle, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.

Starting with Friendships (00:02:28) Jennifer advises starting friendships with mixed sexes to overcome jealousy and encourages allowing and encouraging partners to have friends of the opposite sex.

Breakfast or Lunch Dates (00:04:46) Jennifer suggests trying breakfast or lunch dates as a non-threatening way to overcome jealousy in open relationships.

Dinner/Playdate Scenarios (00:05:51) Jennifer discusses moving into dinner/playdate scenarios and the evolving dynamics of open relationships, including setting boundaries and flexibility.

Tips to Move Through Jealousy (00:09:46) Jennifer provides three tips to help move through jealousy, including scheduling a massage, journaling, seeking coaching or counseling, and going out with friends.

Compassion and Joy (00:11:56) Jennifer discusses the concept of compersion and joy on the other side of jealousy, emphasizing the importance of allowing oneself to feel jealousy and processing through it.

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The spectrum of open relationships (00:00:03) Jennifer, Chad, and Scott discuss the diverse experiences within open relationships, from swinging to polyamory.

Introduction to the Open Bedroom podcast (00:01:02) Jennifer introduces the Open Bedroom podcast and her coaching services in the sex and relationships space.

Special episode: The husbands of podcasters (00:02:33) Jennifer interviews Chad and Scott, the husbands of podcasters, in a special episode called "Husbands of Podcasters"

Boxers or briefs? (00:03:27) The conversation shifts to a lighthearted discussion about men's underwear preferences.

Public perception and personal impact (00:11:27) Chad and Scott share their feelings about their partners' public podcasts and the impact on their personal lives.

Handling difficult conversations on the podcast (00:18:15) Chad and Scott discuss how they approach sharing personal and sensitive topics on the podcast.

Public assumptions and misconceptions (00:24:45) Chad and Scott reflect on the assumptions and misconceptions that arise from their partners' public podcasts.

The Reviews (00:26:27) Discussion about the podcast reviews and individual preferences for hearing feedback.

Diverse Experiences in Open Relationships (00:27:31) Comparison of experiences as swingers and semi-open polyamorous individuals in open relationships.

Negative Experiences from Airing Personal Life (00:29:05) Instances of negative reactions to podcast content and its impact on personal relationships.

Supporting Partners' Podcasts (00:35:05) Ways in which the husbands support their partners' podcasts, including promotion and behind-the-scenes help.

Coaching Couples Together (00:40:25) Exploring the possibility of coaching couples together and the differing perspectives on it.

Individual Podcast Interests (00:42:34) Husbands' personal interests for potential podcast topics, including sports, fishing, behavioral science, and engineering.

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Tala and Jackie Christensen share their journey of trust-building and experimentation, including the use of psychedelics like MDMA and magic mushrooms, and exploring BDSM.



They emphasize the importance of communication and patience in their relationship. The episode also highlights their clothing line, Nerdy and Dirty, which features BDSM-inspired apparel.



The conversation provides insights into unconventional sexual practices and their impact on intimacy and connection.



Introduction (00:00:00)



Exploring non-conventional sexual activities (00:02:14)

Guests Tala and Jackie share their experiences with exploring non-conventional sexual activities, including psychedelics, BDSM, and trust-building in their relationship.



Background and cultural influences (00:03:25)

Tala discusses her conservative upbringing in Jerusalem and the societal taboos surrounding sex, while Jackie shares his motivations for wanting more out of his sex life.



The journey of trust-building and experimentation (00:07:14)

Jackie and Tala discuss their journey of trust-building, experimentation, and healing in their relationship, including the use of psychedelics and unconventional sexual activities.



Introducing unconventional sexual activities (00:08:29)

The guests discuss the introduction of BDSM and other unconventional sexual activities in their relationship, including the exploration of new experiences and trust-building.



Exploring unconventional sexual activities (00:11:33)

The guests delve into the process of introducing unconventional sexual activities and the impact on their relationship, including the challenges and growth experienced.



Enhancing intimacy and communication (00:19:56)

Jackie discusses how engaging in intimate activities, such as shaving each other's nether regions, has enhanced trust and communication in their relationship.



Bonding through trust and comfort (00:20:38)

Discussion on building trust and comfort in sexual relationships, including the importance of accepting imperfections.



Frequency of drug use and preparation (00:21:14)

Exploration of the frequency of drug use in the context of relationship activities and the preparation involved.



Extended sexual activities (00:23:05)

Description of engaging in sexual activities for extended periods, including the use of MDMA and the effects of different routes of administration.



MDMA experience and effects (00:28:34)

Guest's experience with MDMA, including heightened sensations, increased openness, and the impact on personal reflection.



Psychedelic experiences and reflection (00:34:49)

Discussion of the use of magic mushrooms for personal reflection, addressing relationship challenges, and the melting of the ego.



The Weeping and Touching (00:40:56)

Discussion about the emotional and physical connection during a psychedelic experience.



Stem Cells and ED (00:42:08)

Conversation about a medical procedure for erectile dysfunction and its success.



BDSM Clothing Line (00:43:47)

Description of a clothing line inspired by BDSM and its unique features.



Closing Thoughts (00:47:13)

Encouragement to have an open mind, trusty partner, and try unconventional activities in relationships.



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Exploring Vulva Diversity (00:00:01) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the importance of exploring and understanding the wide diversity of vulvas.
Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:51) Host Jennifer Kaylo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast and its focus on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.
Coaching Topics (00:01:08) Jennifer Kaylo highlights the coaching topics she specializes in, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.
Setting the Stage for the Discussion (00:02:17) Dr. Alison Ash and Jennifer Kaylo introduce the topic of champ quality pussy pleasure and provide a brief background on their previous conversation about shame.
Prioritizing Pussy Pleasure (00:03:23) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pussy pleasure and challenges the shame and biases surrounding it.
Personal Experiences and Sexual Awakening (00:04:31) Jennifer Kaylo shares her personal experiences with receiving and giving pussy pleasure, including her sexual awakening and exploration of diverse vulvas.
Importance of Communication (00:11:22) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the significance of enthusiastic communication and authentic enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure.
Expressing Pleasure (00:12:56) Jennifer Kaylo and Dr. Alison Ash discuss the significance of vocal expression and authentic pleasure in enhancing the overall experience.
Feedback and Communication (00:14:40) Dr. Alison Ash provides tips for both givers and receivers to give and ask for feedback in a comfortable and effective manner.
Setting Expectations and Preferences (00:19:35) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of setting expectations and preferences in advance, as well as providing feedback and guidance during sexual encounters.
The bossy game (00:22:31) Discussion about using the "bossy game" to navigate new experiences with women and the use of audio porn for masturbation.
Pleasuring the pussy (00:24:06) Tips and techniques for pleasuring the female genitalia, including the importance of relaxation and using toys for extended pleasure.
Sex education and positions (00:25:13) Discussion about sex education, positions, and techniques for prolonged sexual encounters, including the use of tools and devices.
Toys and tools for prolonged sessions (00:27:44) Detailed list of toys and tools recommended for extended sexual encounters, including g-spot stimulators, vibrators, and anal toys.
Importance of longer sexual encounters (00:36:35) Emphasizing the importance of longer sexual encounters, exploring foreplay, mental stimulation, and the impact on emotional connection.
Madlib for pussy pleasure (00:39:58) Introduction of a handout called "The Guide to My Pussy" for receivers and givers to enhance communication and understanding of preferences.
Conclusion and future plans (00:41:49) Expressing excitement for future learning, acknowledging the impact of the conversation, and expressing interest in future collaborations.


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Understanding the Needs (00:00:01) Exploring how unmet needs can impact behavior and relationships.

Coaching and Topics of Interest (00:01:17) Jennifer Kaylo's coaching topics and interests including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.

Creating a Lasting Throuple Dynamic (00:02:42) Addressing the lack of resources for creating a lasting throuple dynamic and introducing the aim of the episode.

Recognizing Individual Differences (00:03:50) Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and understanding the individual needs and patterns of each partner.

Love Languages and Erotic Blueprints (00:05:04) Exploring the use of love language and erotic blueprint quizzes to understand and fulfill partners' needs.

Dealing with Triggers (00:09:42) Discussing the importance of listening and softening when triggered in a throuple or quad relationship.

Finding Common Ground (00:12:04) Encouraging the identification and focus on shared interests and common ground in the relationship.

Managing Jealousy (00:13:20) Addressing the inevitability of jealousy and providing guidance on dealing with it in throuple dynamics.

Individuality and Responsibility (00:16:40) Emphasizing the concept of individuation and taking responsibility for one's own feelings and actions.

Establishing Patterns for Safety (00:17:45) Discussing the importance of creating patterns for safety and building trust in the relationship.

Seeking Professional Support (00:20:59) Highlighting the benefits of hiring a coach for guidance and support in maintaining a lasting throuple dynamic.



Erotic Blueprint Quiz

5 Love Languages Quiz

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