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I'm Jennifer Kaylo, host of The Open Bedroom podcast. A Dog Mom. Human Boy Mom. Life partner to Scott. Multi-million dollar revenue generator. Podcast host. Certified sex and relationship coach specializing in helping couples open their relationships, conscious uncoupling, and online dating in open relationships. Common themes include open relationships, swinging, polyamory, online dating and Tinder, and sex. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The Open Bedroom Podcast Jennifer Kaylo

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 11 Ratings

I'm Jennifer Kaylo, host of The Open Bedroom podcast. A Dog Mom. Human Boy Mom. Life partner to Scott. Multi-million dollar revenue generator. Podcast host. Certified sex and relationship coach specializing in helping couples open their relationships, conscious uncoupling, and online dating in open relationships. Common themes include open relationships, swinging, polyamory, online dating and Tinder, and sex. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

    EP#134: We Got Dumped Via TXT MSG

    EP#134: We Got Dumped Via TXT MSG

    How we got dumped in a text message, what I've learned through this process, how I'm feeling, and how to break up with kindness.

    The emotional rollercoaster (00:00:02) 

    Jennifer shares her feelings and initial reaction to being dumped via text message.


    The dynamics of the throuple (00:01:20) 

    Jennifer discusses her experience in a throuple relationship and the events leading up to the breakup.


    Processing the breakup (00:04:54) 

    Jennifer reflects on her emotional journey and the impact of the breakup on her.


    The impact of age and maturity (00:14:37) 

    Jennifer explores the role of age and maturity in relationships and the breakup experience.


    Approach to breaking up kindly (00:18:02) 

    Jennifer shares her approach to breaking up with past partners and the importance of respect and communication.


    Lack of closure and changing dynamics (00:22:10) 

    Jennifer discusses the lack of closure in the breakup and the discovery of changes in the dynamics of the relationship.


    Breaking Up Kindly (00:24:40) 

    Discussion on the importance of communicating kindly and respectfully during breakups, and the impact of doing so.


    Reflecting on the Breakup (00:25:43) 

    Encouragement to provide feedback and share breakup stories in a kind and loving manner, and seeking input from listeners.


    Online Coaching Topics (00:27:52) 

    Introduction to the speaker's online coaching services, including topics like open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.



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    • 29 min
    EP#133: Primal Play with Girlfriend Steph

    EP#133: Primal Play with Girlfriend Steph

    Our girlfriend Steph and I believe that sex is "playtime" for adults, so we've made monthly Sexploration nights an important event on our calendars.

    We cover some of the fun we've explored, our recent trip to a dungeon, Steph's recent Primal Play adventure in Austin, TX and more.



    Rediscovering Play as Adults (00:00:00)

    Jennifer and Steph discuss their experiences with rediscovering play as adults, the challenges they faced, and the importance of incorporating playfulness in their lives.



    Primal Play and Its Appeal (00:12:32)

    Steph shares her experience with primal play, describing its physical and emotional aspects, and the appeal of letting go of control and embracing animalistic instincts.



    Exploring Primal Play (00:17:14)

    Jennifer and Steph delve into the concept of primal play, discussing its connection to one's true nature, including exercises and experiences related to primal play, and the significance of embracing one's natural scent and physical sensations.



    Taking Small Steps into Primal Play (00:20:07)

    Steph suggests small steps for individuals to explore primal play, such as experimenting with different touches, pressures, and interactions to introduce a sense of playfulness and exploration in their relationships.



    Play in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:22:33)

    Discussion on incorporating play in non-monogamous relationships and encouraging partners to try new things.



    Primal and Sensory Play (00:23:25)

    Exploring primal play, sensory play, and incorporating curiosity and childlike exploration into sexual experiences.



    Food Play and Sensation Play (00:24:15)

    Discussion of primal play involving food, sensation play, and the importance of getting in touch with pleasure and body sensations.



    Exploring Sexual Curiosity (00:26:01)

    Encouraging reframing and curiosity in sexual experiences, including using sex toys and exploring different sensations.



    Pleasure and Mindfulness (00:28:49)

    Emphasizing mindfulness in experiencing pleasure, including exploring breath, sound, and body sensations.



    Erotic Blueprints and Sexual Fulfillment (00:30:22)

    Encouraging understanding of individual erotic blueprints and how different partners may have different sexual preferences.



    Sexual Exploration and Playful Experimentation (00:34:27)

    Emphasizing the importance of experimenting, following curiosity, and exploring different aspects of sexual play.



    Exploration Date and Permission to Play (00:34:51)

    Suggesting scheduling exploration dates and giving permission to explore different sexual activities and experiences.



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    • 37 min
    EP# 132 How to Create Your Own Spank Bank

    EP# 132 How to Create Your Own Spank Bank

    Getting Comfortable with Your Body (00:02:22) Jennifer discusses the importance of feeling comfortable with your body and believing that your partner loves you for who you are.

    Consent and Protocols (00:05:46) Jennifer emphasizes the need for explicit consent from partners for taking and sharing intimate pictures and videos, as well as establishing protocols for handling them in case of a breakup.

    Creating and Hiding Content (00:08:53) Jennifer shares tips on taking and hiding intimate content on phones, including hiding photos and videos on iPhones and sharing them on specific platforms.

    Voyeurism and Exhibitionism (00:11:51) Jennifer talks about recording intimate moments, sharing them on platforms like FetLife, and being mindful about privacy and consent.

    Storing and Sharing Content (00:16:15) Jennifer discusses using Google Drive to store and share intimate content, emphasizing the importance of controlling access to maintain privacy and security.



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    • 18 min
    EP#131: How to Negotiate MORE in your Sex Life with Brian Jenkins

    EP#131: How to Negotiate MORE in your Sex Life with Brian Jenkins

    The introduction (00:00:02) Jennifer and Brian introduce the episode and set the stage for their conversation about having difficult conversations with a partner regarding sexual exploration and needs within a long-term relationship.

    Insight into Men's Resistance (00:03:49) Brian provides insight into why men may be resistant to their partners' desires for sexual exploration, including issues of trust, insecurity, and performance anxiety.

    Navigating Edgy Desires (00:07:14) Jennifer and Brian discuss how to navigate when one partner's desires feel too edgy for the other, emphasizing the importance of open conversation and understanding each other's perspectives.

    Role-Play Scenario (00:10:29) Jennifer and Brian act out a role-play scenario where Jennifer, as the woman, asks Brian, her partner, to join her in sexual exploration, demonstrating the negotiation and communication involved in such conversations.

    Exploring Edgier Desires (00:14:24) The role-play delves into the exploration of edgier desires, including the idea of being watched, visiting a sex club, and potentially involving others, leading to a candid and exploratory conversation between the partners.

    Reflection and Preparation (00:20:18) Brian emphasizes the need for both partners to be prepared for unexpected reactions and desires, encouraging open and supportive communication as they navigate their exploration together.

    Openness and Safety (00:21:32) The importance of creating a safe space for exploring new sexual experiences and addressing potential insecurities.

    Difficult Conversations (00:22:23) Tips for having difficult conversations in a relationship, including how to pose the conversation, renegotiate, and address potential concerns.

    Leaning into Fear (00:23:24) Encouragement to lean into the fear of difficult conversations and focus on the potential beauty and growth that can come from openness and honesty.

    Seeking Help (00:24:41) The benefit of seeking coaching or support for difficult conversations in relationships, and the availability of coaching services from the speakers.





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    • 26 min
    EP#130 Why Clear Boundaries are Kind in Open Relationships

    EP#130 Why Clear Boundaries are Kind in Open Relationships

    Scott and I recently had a big relationship rupture that could have been avoided with some conversation and boundaries.

    Here's what happen, and how to avoid it in your own relationships.

    Setting the stage (00:00:02) Jennifer introduces the episode and sets the stage for the discussion on setting clear boundaries in open relationships.
    Importance of clear boundaries (00:01:16) Jennifer shares a personal experience of a weekend trip with her partners, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries in open relationships to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
    Failed communication and misunderstandings (00:02:46) Jennifer describes a situation where lack of clear communication and established boundaries led to uncomfortable experiences and breakdown in relationships.
    The need for a container (00:09:29) Jennifer discusses the importance of creating a container with clear boundaries and expectations to ensure safety and avoid hurt feelings in group play situations.
    Learning from experiences (00:11:50) Jennifer reflects on the events of the weekend trip and emphasizes the need for clear boundaries, fears, and desires in open relationships based on their experiences.
    Creating a safe environment (00:13:06) Jennifer shares a positive experience where setting parallel play boundaries in a group setting created a safe and enjoyable environment for all involved.
    Boundaries, fears, and desires conversation (00:16:06) Jennifer encourages listeners to incorporate the boundaries, fears, and desires conversation into their sex lives, emphasizing its importance in creating safety and understanding in open relationships.
    Engaging with the audience (00:21:07) Jennifer invites feedback from the audience on the episode's content and encourages them to rate and review the podcast for future support.
    Energy and Purpose (00:22:06) Jennifer discusses the energy and purpose behind producing the podcast and its impact on the listeners.
    Online Coaching Topics (00:22:06) Jennifer outlines the topics she covers in her online coaching, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.
    Hope for the Future (00:23:13) Jennifer expresses optimism about the potential for improvement in relationships and life.
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    • 23 min
    EP# 129 Sex and Intimacy in a Triad with Dr. Rachael Meir

    EP# 129 Sex and Intimacy in a Triad with Dr. Rachael Meir

    Dr. Rachael Meir discusses her Triad, what it's like to have sex with TWO partners, dating each person 1:1, and what it's like to live in a threesome.



    Journey into polyamory (00:02:20) Dr. Rachel Meir shares her journey into polyamory, from early fantasies to exploring swinging lifestyle and eventually transitioning into a committed triad relationship.

    Open-mindedness and acceptance in open relationships (00:08:43) The conversation delves into the open-mindedness, acceptance, and willingness to grow and communicate in open relationships compared to traditional monogamous relationships.

    Challenges and rewards of triad relationships (00:11:49) The discussion covers the challenges and rewards of maintaining a triad relationship, emphasizing the importance of clear and conscious communication.

    Finding a third in a triad relationship (00:13:47) Dr. Rachel and Jennifer discuss the process of finding a third person for a triad relationship and the importance of clear communication and conscious relationships.

    Day-to-day life in a triad relationship (00:16:31) The conversation explores the day-to-day dynamics of living in a triad relationship, including scheduling, communication, and managing household responsibilities.

    Nourishing individual and triad relationships (00:19:14) Dr. Rachel Meyer discusses the importance of prioritizing individual and triad relationships through scheduled date nights and nurturing intimacy.

    Challenges of threesomes and prioritizing pleasure (00:21:16) Jennifer shares her experiences with threesomes and the challenges of prioritizing pleasure and authentic experiences in a multiple person sexual encounter.

    The journey into polyamory (00:22:10) Discussion of the speaker's initial reluctance and eventual comfort in a polyamorous relationship.

    Diverse sexual experiences (00:23:06) Exploration of the different dynamics and experiences in one-on-one and group sexual interactions in the triad relationship.

    Exploring new sexual activities (00:24:11) Conversation about the triad's exploration of new sexual activities, including role play and using new toys.

    Frequency of sexual activity in non-monogamous relationships (00:25:24) Discussion about the potential for increased sexual frequency in non-monogamous relationships compared to monogamous ones.

    Intentional intimacy and erotic blueprints (00:27:00) Exploration of how the speaker's approach to intimacy has become more intentional in the non-monogamous relationship, and the differences in erotic blueprints among the partners.

    Understanding individual needs and experiences (00:28:30) Conversation about the importance of understanding individual needs and experiences in a non-monogamous relationship.

    Connecting with other non-monogamous individuals (00:29:52) Discussion about the speaker's interactions with other non-monogamous individuals and the nuances of their shared experiences.

    Professional coaching in ethical non-monogamy (00:31:53) Information about the speaker's professional coaching services for individuals navigating ethical non-monogamous relationships.

    Empowering and inspiring others (00:34:36) Encouragement for listeners to follow the speaker and her partners on social media to learn more about their experiences as a triad.



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    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
11 Ratings

11 Ratings

Shamrocktn ,

Finally! Real Talk about s*x!!!

I love the guests and real talk that Jennifer has on this show. She is real and raw and that’s what we need when talking about this topic!!!

ABergstepintoflow ,

Amazing find

What a fun show! Great, educational and fun conversations that leave you feeling liberated.
Go ahead and press play:)

Chad Galindo ,

Amazing

This show is fantastic! I always learn so much from her. I would highly recommend this podcast. Keep doing a great job.

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