The Open Bedroom Podcast Jennifer Kaylo

Watching Partner with Another (00:00:01) Exploration of feeling love, empathy, and turned on by partner's intimacy with others.


Women's Empowerment and Non-Monogamy (00:02:09) Discussion on the reasons women seek non-monogamy and its effects, introducing Mark's experience.


Challenges in Relationship (00:02:36) Mark shares his wife's transformation and challenges in embracing non-monogamy.


Exploring Non-Monogamy (00:07:38) The couple's transition to swingers and the impact on their relationship.


Discovering Swinging Lifestyle (00:11:17) The couple's journey into non-monogamy, including their first experience at a clothing-optional resort.


Freedom in Non-Monogamy (00:16:19) The concept of being a "free agent" and the energy of consent and freedom in non-monogamous relationships.


Meeting Unmet Needs (00:18:46) Mark's unmet needs for variety and novelty in sexual experiences before embracing swinging.


Dirty Talk and Reliving Experiences (00:19:16) The speakers discuss the impact of dirty talk and reliving sexual experiences on their relationships.


Observing and Learning from Group Events (00:20:16) The benefits of observing and learning from group events in open relationships are discussed.


Deepening Relationships with Other Couples (00:21:47) The speakers talk about deepening relationships with another couple, including regular communication and support.


Exploring Sexual Variety and Novelty (00:23:23) The experience of exploring sexual variety with different partners and the impact on relationships is discussed.


Dynamic Changes and Relationship Evolution (00:30:03) The conversation shifts to how dynamics can change and evolve within open relationships over time.


Negotiating Boundaries and Communication (00:33:59) The importance of negotiating boundaries and communication in open relationships is highlighted.


Navigating Open Relationships (00:35:19) The speakers provide advice on navigating open relationships, addressing potential overwhelm and finding what feels right.


Women's Choice in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:08) The original intent of discussing women's choice in ethically non-monogamous relationships is briefly mentioned.


Women's Empowerment in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:19) Women's perspective on ethical non-monogamy as a journey of sexual exploration and emotional enhancement in relationships.


Communication and Processing in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:37:10) The impact of open communication and processing time on non-monogamous relationships over a span of five years.


Post-Event Processing and Communication (00:38:25) The process of discussing experiences and feelings with a partner after non-monogamous events, including validation and comfort.


Emotional and Sexual Connection in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:41:41) Differences in motivations for men and women in choosing non-monogamous relationships, focusing on emotional and sexual connections.


Benefits and Enrichment in Open Relationships (00:42:44) The unexpected benefits of enhanced communication and closeness in open relationships, contrary to common misconceptions.


Layers of Intimacy in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:43:45) The multi-layered intimacy experienced in non-monogamous relationships, including emotional, sexual, and shared experiences.


Vulnerability and Depth in Open Relationships (00:47:23) The vulnerability and depth experienced in open relationships, including discussions about difficult topics and emotional support.
Communication and Attraction in Open Relationships (00:49:53) The level of open communication and sharing attraction in open relationships, emphasizing human nature and emotional connection.


Non-Monogamy Resources and Masterclass (00:50:41) Information about non-monogamy resources and upcoming masterclass series for those interested in exploring open relationships.

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The experience of our first interaction (00:00:01) The initial connection beyond sex, finding interesting and curious people to spend time with outside the bedroom.

The one year anniversary conversation (00:00:36) Informal discussion about being in a triad for a year, relationship dynamics, and joining a creative triad.

Transitioning into a throuple (00:02:55) Desire for a throuple, initial experiences, and the evolution of deeper connections beyond sex.

Deepening connections and intimacy (00:05:31) The value of deep connections, sharing intimacy, and experiencing unique personalities within the relationship.

Exploring sexual energy and intimacy (00:09:36) The excitement and warmth of shared affection, participating in intimate moments, and feeling connected in a throuple.

Learning and exploring sexual energy (00:15:03) Learning about each other's turn-ons, exploring sexual energy, and the excitement of being included in intimate moments.

Evolution of relationship dynamics (00:19:51) Changes in dynamics, exploring one-on-one play, and the evolution of the relationship over the past 12 months.

Stis and Newbie Concerns (00:24:51) Initial concerns about STIs and fear of getting close to others; evolving perspectives.

Encouraging One-on-One Time (00:25:22) Scott encourages one-on-one connection, desires direct engagement, discusses feelings of envy and left out.

Communication and Growth (00:29:27) Improved communication, handling sticky situations, learning to communicate through challenges, and evolving dynamics.

Jealousy and Balance (00:31:29) Scott discusses the absence of jealousy or imbalance in the relationship, values being drawn closer together.

Low Poly and Relationship Dynamics (00:32:53) Steph discusses her approach to low poly relationships, absence of jealousy, and allowing freedom in relationships.

Ownership and Independence (00:36:13) Jennifer realizes not owning anyone, discusses the capacity for love, affection, and filling emotional needs.

Exploration and Adventures (00:40:24) Discussion about non-sexual adventures, shared experiences, and exploring new activities together.

Deepening Relationships (00:43:02) The value of fully experiencing another person, exchanging warmth, affection, and desire, and peeling off layers to deepen connections.

Challenges and Scheduling (00:46:43) Challenges with busy schedules, making time a priority, and the importance of relationship check-ins and scheduling.

Triad Night (00:48:58) Scheduling regular triad nights for bonding, intimacy, and connection within the triad relationship.

One-on-One Connections (00:49:53) Importance of one-on-one time with each partner within the triad for deeper connections and individual relationships.

Challenges in Communication (00:50:58) The difficulty in communication and expressing feelings within the triad relationship, leading to potential misunderstandings.

Personal Responsibility (00:52:14) Learning to prioritize personal well-being and boundaries rather than feeling responsible for partners' feelings.

Creating Open Relationships (00:52:49) Guidance on creating and nurturing open relationships, emphasizing clear understanding, mindfulness, and genuine appreciation.

Exploring Threesome Dynamics (00:54:40) Discussion on the reasons for wanting to explore open relationships and the distinction between casual encounters and committed throuple relationships.

Manifesting Relationship Desires (00:55:46) The power of clear communication and intention in manifesting desired relationships, and the ongoing openness to new connections.

Future Plans (00:58:04) Excitement about future intentions, such as scheduling vacations and trips, for further strengthening the triad relationship.


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F*****g like a goddess (00:00:01) Luna's journey of self-discovery and empowerment through sexual exploration and education.

Introduction to Luna Matatas (00:01:02) Jennifer introduces Luna Matatas and her playful approach to sexuality, along with her online courses and podcast.

Luna's journey into sex education (00:02:35) Jennifer discusses her first encounter with Luna's Instagram feed and the classes and podcast Luna offers.

Luna's background and work (00:04:20) Luna shares her transition from public health to sex and pleasure education, and her work as a sex educator.

Canadians and conversations about sex (00:05:13) Luna explains the mix of conservative and progressive attitudes towards sex education in Canada.

Luna's family and her career (00:06:34) Luna discusses her family's reaction to her work and their support for her role in sexual health education.

Luna's early experiences with sexuality (00:08:04) Luna reflects on her early experiences with shame and curiosity about her own sexuality.

Luna's path to sex education (00:10:36) Luna shares her journey from public health communications to sex education and exploration.

Luna's year of exploration (00:11:37) Luna discusses her year of casual sex and the shift towards self-love and empowerment.

Learning from the year of exploration (00:17:13) Luna reflects on the lessons learned during her time of exploration and self-discovery.

Jennifer's exploration of her sexuality (00:18:38) Jennifer shares her personal exploration of her sexuality and the realization of being bisexual.

Jennifer's online coaching services (00:20:15) Jennifer promotes her online coaching services in the sex and relationship space.

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Men's Sexual Detachment (00:00:01) Discussion on men losing interest in sex with their partners and the impact on relationships.

Introduction to the Podcast (00:00:55) Jennifer Calo introduces the podcast and her partner Scott, discussing their open relationship and the topic of men's sexual detachment.

Observations of Women's Experiences (00:02:26) Scott and Jennifer discuss the common experiences of women in relationships where their male partners lose interest in sex.

Reasons for Sexual Detachment (00:04:42) Exploration of the reasons behind men's spiral into sexual detachment and avoidance in relationships.

Impact on Relationship Dynamics (00:08:30) The impact of sexual detachment on relationship dynamics and the experiences of women in relationships.

Communication and Self-Reflection (00:24:54) The importance of communication and self-reflection in addressing issues of sexual detachment and avoidance in relationships.

Recognizing draining priorities (00:26:14) Discussing the importance of recognizing and prioritizing energy-draining activities in relationships.

Experiencing sexual detachment (00:28:24) Scott shares his firsthand experience of being in a relationship with sexual detachment due to life stress and lack of energy.

Addressing sexual detachment (00:31:00) Strategies for addressing sexual detachment, including not avoiding the issue and finding ways to reignite sexual desire.

Managing differing sex drives (00:37:04) Jennifer explores the dynamics of managing differing sex drives in a relationship and the potential exhaustion it may cause.

Feeling desired and sexual detachment (00:41:59) The impact of feeling exhausted by constant sexual desire and the resulting feelings of rejection and dejection.

Porn and sexual gratification (00:48:04) The potential negative impact of using porn as a source of sexual gratification instead of finding it within the relationship.

Porn and Fantasies (00:51:35) Discussion on using porn and fantasies to enhance sexual experiences and maintain connection with partner.

Creating a Spank Bank (00:54:57) Exploring the concept of a "spank bank" and ways to use memories and fantasies to reignite connection with a partner.

Maintaining Sexual Connection (00:57:34) The importance of intentional physical and sexual connection in long-term relationships and strategies for navigating sexual detachment.

Communication and Prioritization (00:59:08) Encouraging mindfulness, prioritization, and open communication to address sexual detachment and maintain a healthy relationship.

Upcoming Topics (01:00:12) Previewing future podcast topics on online coaching in the sex and relationships space, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.



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In this podcast episode, Ali Hendry and I delve into the subject of sex and menopause.
We talk about the natural shifts that happen during menopause, like the ups and downs in estrogen levels and how they impact different facets of health, including mood, sleep, and bone density.


Ali highlights the significance of embracing menopause with curiosity and an open mind, instead of treating it as a medical issue that needs to be fixed.
We also tackle common worries about intimacy during menopause, such as variations in desire, lubrication, and body scent, and we advocate for a positive and proactive approach to these changes.


0:00 Intro


Approaching Menopause with Curiosity (00:01:57)
Discussion of the ages for perimenopause and menopause, the difficulty in measuring menopause, and the impact of estrogen changes.

Symptoms and Changes of Menopause (00:03:32)
Exploration of menopausal symptoms, the impact of estrogen changes on various body functions, and the need to change the narrative around menopause.

Menopause and Intimacy (00:12:19)
Concerns about the impact of menopause on intimacy, including changes in desire, body image, and self-esteem, and the importance of self-care and acceptance.

Using Lube and Alternative Pleasure (00:18:35)
Discussion about the use of lube, the normalization of its use, and the exploration of alternative ways to experience pleasure during menopause.

Exploring Pleasure and Intimacy (00:20:35)
The speaker discusses the importance of exploring pleasure, intimacy, and desire during menopause, and how to identify what works for each individual.

Understanding Different Types of Desire (00:21:40)
The speaker explains the concept of spontaneous and responsive desire and how different factors contribute to what turns individuals on.

Redefining Sex and Intimacy (00:22:45)
The discussion challenges traditional views of sex, emphasizes the importance of communication, and suggests exploring alternative ways to experience pleasure.

Approaching Intimacy Changes (00:24:40)
The conversation provides tips on how to approach conversations about intimacy changes, including starting with smaller steps and seeking support.

Understanding Erotic Blueprints (00:27:24)
The concept of erotic blueprints is introduced as a way to understand individual sexual needs and preferences, and how partners can explore them together.

Supporting Partners Going Through Menopause (00:29:45)
The speakers share insights on how partners can support individuals going through menopause, including creating a supportive environment and understanding changing needs.

Creating a Shared Journey Through Menopause (00:32:01)
The conversation emphasizes the importance of seeing menopause as a shared journey and working together to navigate the changes.

Improving Sleep and Creating Ease (00:34:47)
Tips for improving sleep and creating a comfortable environment during menopause are discussed, highlighting the importance of making adjustments to daily routines.

Accessing Coaching and Resources (00:36:07)
Information about accessing relationship coaching and resources, including a certified relationship coach training course, is provided for those interested in working with the speaker.

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It's time for a life update with Jen!



Podcast episode topics:



Struggles with Aging and Open Relationship (00:00:01) My struggle with aging and embracing her natural beauty, as well as my open relationship with my partner, Scott.

Dealing with Breakup and Moving On (00:01:10) My experience of dating a second woman, the breakup via text, and we have moved on to see someone new.

First Threesome Experience (00:02:26) My first threesome experience with our new partner, expressing anxiety and excitement.

Feelings and Dynamics During Threesome (00:03:46) The dynamics and emotions during the threesome, discussing the complexities of flirting and connecting with women.

Sensual Observations During Threesome (00:04:53) The sensual experience and observations during the threesome, expressing my enjoyment of group sex, voyeurism, and exhibitionism.

Navigating Desire and Connection (00:07:05) My feelings of jealousy and desire, as well as navigating my partner's busy schedule and my own needs.

Desire and Intimacy in Three-Way Relationships (00:09:19) My desire for intimacy and connection in three-way relationships, expressing the importance of feeling fulfilled and desired.

Exploring Smut Books and Erotic Conferences (00:17:03) Smut books, describing my experience at a smut lovers conference and my enjoyment of erotic literature.

Desire for Masculine Energy and Safe Masculinity (00:22:34) My past experiences with toxic masculinity and safe masculinity, expressing my desire for a fully integrated man and the importance of masculine energy in relationships.

Scott's Graduation (00:25:53) Upcoming changes due to Scott's graduation and the impact on our life.

Life Update: Embracing Aging (00:30:20) My thoughts on embracing aging, including growing out my gray hair and stopping botox.

Passion Project: No Longer Plastic (00:32:33) My passion project, "No Longer Plastic," focusing on authentic living and business ownership.

Celebrating Milestones (00:36:09) Acknowledgment of reaching 125,000 views on YouTube and 10,000 podcast downloads, expressing gratitude to the audience.



No Longer Plastic Podcast Passion Project

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