3 episodes

I was an addict for 25 years, and neither of us knew it when we got into our relationship. Katie was a deeply wounded divorced mom of two who had previously been a pastor's wife in a very toxic and abusive marriage. She had been groomed to accept porn and expected to compete with it. But coming into this new chapter of life, both of us knew deep down this wasn't the monogamous and emotionally fulfilling relationship we had dreamt of and truly wanted.

When it became clear to us that porn use was interfering with our life together, she told me that this was a deal breaker for her. I needed to decide. Would it be porn? Or her? I chose her.

You'd think that would have been the end of it... But the 3 year recovery process that we went through following that was extremely painful, damaging to her, and at one point ended our relationship. Neither of us had any idea what kind of hold this had on me, how difficult and complex this addiction really was, or how much this had impacted my brain.

This podcast is about our story, our process and all that we've learned along the way about rewiring all those faulty programs so we could build the most incredible truly monogamous relationship possible.

Welcome to the Rewire4Success podcast.

The Rewire4Success Podcast Richard Kies

    • Education

I was an addict for 25 years, and neither of us knew it when we got into our relationship. Katie was a deeply wounded divorced mom of two who had previously been a pastor's wife in a very toxic and abusive marriage. She had been groomed to accept porn and expected to compete with it. But coming into this new chapter of life, both of us knew deep down this wasn't the monogamous and emotionally fulfilling relationship we had dreamt of and truly wanted.

When it became clear to us that porn use was interfering with our life together, she told me that this was a deal breaker for her. I needed to decide. Would it be porn? Or her? I chose her.

You'd think that would have been the end of it... But the 3 year recovery process that we went through following that was extremely painful, damaging to her, and at one point ended our relationship. Neither of us had any idea what kind of hold this had on me, how difficult and complex this addiction really was, or how much this had impacted my brain.

This podcast is about our story, our process and all that we've learned along the way about rewiring all those faulty programs so we could build the most incredible truly monogamous relationship possible.

Welcome to the Rewire4Success podcast.

    Not Porn Porn: Is It Porn?

    Not Porn Porn: Is It Porn?

    Women who have a partner recovering from a porn addiction, will often find that their man is substituting porn with other forms of visual stimulus. Magazine ads, social media reels, online clothing sites or advertisements, etc. For the men, they don't see the issue. It's not porn right? Isn't this just normal stuff every guy does? In this episode, I break it down.

     

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    • 1 hr 19 min
    Part 2: Interview With My Fiance - Her Side Of My 25 Year Porn Addiction Recovery

    Part 2: Interview With My Fiance - Her Side Of My 25 Year Porn Addiction Recovery

    After our relationship almost ended due to porn addiction, Katie and I decided to take everything we had learned in our painful 3 year process in recovering from my addiction, and share it publicly so other couples could have hope to build a real relationship too, and be free of addiction forever. This is Part 1 of our story and an interview she did with me, talking about my side of the recovery process. Our Free Facebook Support Group for Couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    • 1 hr 19 min
    Our Story Part 1: My Fiancé Interviewed Me About How I Broke My 25 Year Porn Addiction

    Our Story Part 1: My Fiancé Interviewed Me About How I Broke My 25 Year Porn Addiction

    After our relationship almost ended due to porn addiction, Katie and I decided to take everything we had learned in our painful 3 year process in recovering from my addiction, and share it publicly so other couples could have hope to build a real relationship too, and be free of addiction forever. This is Part 1 of our story and an interview she did with me, talking about my side of the recovery process.

    Join our FREE facebook support community for couples: http://www.couplesovercomingpornaddiction.com

    Book a FREE 15-30 minute call with Rick and Katie for advice and more details on their program "Relationship Rebuild: Break Porn Addiction in 6 Months Or Less"

    • 1 hr 29 min

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