62 episodes

As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...

The Slumflower Hour Chidera Eggerue

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    • 4.9 • 134 Ratings

As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...

    WHAT IF *THIS* IS IT?

    WHAT IF *THIS* IS IT?

    What if the love you seek has already found you? Is self-love really the best love? Based on the awful reputation they have created for themselves, is there a limit to which we can involve men in our deepest dreams for the future?
    Much was covered in this episode! Join The Slumflower as she discusses why 'happily ever after' might already have happened for us and we haven't noticed... ;)
    Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
    Get my new book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER 
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    • 51 min
    DATING MULTIPLE MEN

    DATING MULTIPLE MEN

    Are you a 'one man' type of lover but you're curious? Has your boyfriend pissed you off beyond repair? Has the world convinced you that you're 'greedy' for dating more than one dude?
    If any of the above questions jump out at you, you're really going to dig this episode! Special shout-out to the girlies that already get it. ;)
    Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
    Get my new book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER
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    • 43 min
    THE UNFORGIVING WOMAN

    THE UNFORGIVING WOMAN

    Are you a woman who struggles to forgive men? Do people make you feel like you hold grudges for too long? Are you a recovering pushover?
    If any of the above questions resonate with you, pay attention to this episode! In this discussion, join Chidera as she runs through all the reasons men don't deserve to be forgiven so easily, and the ways women sabotage themselves by handing out the benefit of doubt to every Tom, Dami and Harry...
    Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
    Get my new book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER
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    • 50 min
    ARE STRAIGHT WOMEN OKAY?

    ARE STRAIGHT WOMEN OKAY?

    Why are straight women so helplessly bound to their heterosexuality? How can straight women gain more from their attraction to men without losing themselves? What do straight women keep doing wrong to further reinforce their suffering?
    In this episode, Chidera visits the various ways straight women betray themselves in exchange for 'love' from men...
    Join my patreon at patreon.com/theslumflower for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
    Get my new book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER here: https://geni.us/pocketpower
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 44 min
    ABOUT 'BLACK LOVE'...

    ABOUT 'BLACK LOVE'...

    Do Black women benefit from 'race first' solidarity in their dating decisions?
    Is Black women's appreciation of Black men reciprocated?
    Are we moving towards a society where interracial relationships are becoming more popular as a form of Black women's resistance to intra-communal suffrage and misogynoir?
    Whilst this episode is deeply controversial, join The Slumflower as she discusses divesting from solely dating Black men, and what going where the love is looks like...
    Join my patreon at patreon.com/theslumflower for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
    Get my new book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER here: https://geni.us/pocketpower
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    • 48 min
    SHOULD YOU POST YOUR MAN?

    SHOULD YOU POST YOUR MAN?

    In an age where we feel compelled to prove we are loved, is sharing pictures of your boyfriend on social media a risky move? Do we jinx it by claiming men in public too soon? Do men benefit from us posting them online as our partners?
    In this episode, Chidera discusses why she is averse to the idea of sharing pictures of your new boyfriend on social media - and why the relief of not posting him might be worth it if/when he pisses you off!
    Join my patreon at patreon.com/theslumflower for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
    Get my new book POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER here: https://geni.us/pocketpower
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    • 30 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
134 Ratings

134 Ratings

hayleighfloo ,

quite frankly the best podcast on this silly app

i’ll be taking my business to patreon following writing this review because Chidera is sharing unbelievably valuable wisdom and deserves to be PAID. as a recovering people pleaser, she opens my eyes constantly about my true value and steers me further away from my embarrassing history of fawning over men 🤢 thank you for your service, Chidera

NY Fashionista ,

I re-listen to episodes and still find gems

The wisdom, the comedic punchlines, and empowering insights keep me coming back to this podcast! Chidera has such a unique perspective and voice!

Sara Benincasa ,

Just the best

Absolutely fabulous. Wise, funny, creative, surprising, exciting, fascinating. Saucy and sharp with deep compassion, too. A breath of fresh air.

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