The Uncommon Communicator

James Gable

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The Uncommon communicator is the individual that has the enlightenment, to recognize in any situation, whether or not communication has occurred. This uncommon communicator takes ownership of the conversation and possess the skills to navigate and facilitate the conversation to mutual understanding. Taking on the experts as well as the Sophist of old to help bring clarity to the lost art of true communications.

6d ago

Building learning ecosystems that thrive with Dr Carrie Graham

The fastest way to kill a good team is to train adults like they are kids and then act surprised when they tune out. I sit down with Dr. Carrie Graham, a leader in adult learning and workplace development, to unpack what actually drives retention and behavior change in real organizations. We get into how adults learn through meaning, prior experience, and emotion, plus why communication training sticks only when it connects to the learner’s world instead of a generic slide deck. We also dig into “capacity” and why smart, capable people sometimes have nothing left for one more program. Carrie shares how seasons of life affect learning bandwidth, and we translate that into practical choices leaders can make: better formats, better timing, and clearer transfer from learning to the job. Then we go straight at a common failure pattern across industries, especially construction: promoting the best craft worker into a foreman or superintendent role without support. We talk about the real cost of poor communication, the risk of waiting for once-a-year external training, and why CEOs and executives need to be in the learning room too if they want true ROI. The conversation closes with two modern leadership challenges: capturing tribal knowledge as seasoned pros retire, and using AI tools without losing authenticity. Carrie shares a candid AI “confession” from LinkedIn and the lesson it taught her about voice, connection, and how tools shape your audience. If you lead people, build training, or want a stronger learning culture, this one will give you clear next steps. Subscribe, share the show with a leader on your team, and leave a review with the most broken training habit you want to fix next. Website www drcarriegraham.com Email carrie@drcarriegraham.com SOCIAL MEDIA LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/drcarriegraham YouTube https://youtube.com/@drcarriegraham FREE RESOURCES Subscribe to C.A.L.M. Email weekly email of Carrie s Adult Learning Methods (C.A L.M.) for immediate implementation https://www.drcarriegraham.com/podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

49 min
May 11

Make Mondays Work with Coach Kon

Sunday afternoon is calm, then the thought of Monday hits and your chest tightens. That reaction is not just “part of the job.” It is data. James Gable sits down with Coach Kon (Kon Apostolopoulos), a leadership development coach and founder of Fresh Biz Solutions, to unpack why so many people dread the start of the workweek and what leaders can do to change that feeling fast. The big idea is simple: we don’t hate Mondays, we hate how Mondays feel and leaders shape that environment at zero cost. We dig into the practical drivers of employee engagement that matter in construction leadership and workforce performance: helping people feel valued through psychological safety and respect, building connection and belonging, making sure work feels productive and meaningful, and supporting learning and growth so careers do not go stale. Coach Khan shares concrete behaviors that improve team communication immediately, like being fully present for short conversations, giving real gratitude, and turning vague expectations into clear, measurable standards. Then we zoom out to resilience and grit in uncertain times. Coach Khan walks through his “Seven Keys to Navigating a Crisis,” including self-care, flexibility, preparation, realistic optimism, and kindness. We also tackle how ambiguity breeds mediocrity when expectations are unclear, why feedback has to be ongoing, and how performance actually lives at three levels: people, process, and organization. If you lead a crew, a department, or a company, you’ll leave with a clearer playbook for culture, communication, and results. Subscribe, share this with a leader who sets the tone on Mondays, and leave a review with the one change you’re going to try this week. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

49 min
Apr 27

The Story Hook Method with Guest Brigham Blackham

A story can make people lean in or tune out, and the difference is rarely talent. It’s structure, intention, and the courage to share something real. I sit down with Brigham Blackham, communication specialist and author of The Story Hook Method, to get practical about how to become more engaging, more trusted, and more unforgettable without turning your message into a performance. We dig into the moment that pushed Brigham to systemize storytelling, then go deeper into the ideas that actually change how you live and lead. We talk about false beliefs and why they can do real damage, how “truth” becomes something you can put weight on, and why perfectionism often blocks progress. Brigham also reframes “perfect” through a Mandarin lens as “complete and beautiful”, which turns shipping your work into a skill, not a stress test. If you’ve ever felt stuck, compared your progress to others, or struggled to finish what you start, this part will land. Then we bring it into the modern world: AI writing tools, LinkedIn posts that feel oddly lifeless, and how to use AI as an editor without letting it steal your voice. We also get tactical about concise communication, focusing on the significant details, and leaving people with one clear call to action. Finally, we borrow from negotiation psychology (including Chris Voss’s “no”) to show how boundaries create safety and make “yes” more honest. If you care about communication skills, leadership, storytelling, public speaking, persuasion, and building trust fast, you’ll get a lot out of this conversation. Subscribe for more practical communication strategies, share this with someone who wants to communicate with more impact, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What’s one message you want to make clearer this week? Get to know Brigham Blackham International "Who's Who" of Storytelling Speakers Amazon top-selling author Buy his book here: https://www.amazon.com/Story-Hook-Method-confident-unforgettable/dp/B0GL4FFHGD Founder of international podcast, Levelin’ Up Fluent in Mandarin & Spanish Interviewed on hundreds of Radio, TV talk shows and global podcasts www.Brighamb.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

47 min
Apr 13

Great Speaking Starts When You Stop Making It About You

Your message can be brilliant and still miss the room. That’s the tension we dig into with Bob Hooey, a longtime Toastmaster, international professional speaker, and the guy clients nicknamed “The Idea Man.” We talk about what actually changes when you present across cultures, why a joke that kills at home can die overseas, and how doing a little research on local norms, references, and audience expectations can save you from dead silence. We also get practical about audience-first communication and public speaking skills. Bob shares how he preps by talking with real attendees before he ever steps on stage, how a service mindset makes you calmer and more effective, and why “talking with people” beats “talking to people” every time. Along the way, we swap coaching stories about frozen moments, breathing, slowing down, and helping people perform under pressure, plus leadership lessons from asking better questions instead of always being the fixer. Then we go into speaker branding, handling feedback without spiraling, and the business side of communication: creating books, training, and programs that extend your value beyond a single talk. Bob also previews “Skills Pay,” a project focused on turning Toastmasters and presentation skills into real-world opportunities. If you want stronger leadership communication, better audience connection, and smarter preparation, you’ll get plenty to steal here. Subscribe, share this with a friend who presents for work, and leave a review so more people can find the show. You can contact Bob through LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/canadianideamanbobhooey/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ideamanbob YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

47 min
Mar 30

E117 - Gauri Seshadri Leadership and Confidence

You can be great at your job and still get overlooked for one brutal reason: you don’t say the thing you’re thinking. I sit down with Gauri Seshadri, First Vice President of Toastmasters International, to talk about the hidden cost of hesitation and how practicing communication in a safe, structured environment changes the way you show up at work, in leadership, and in everyday conversations. Gauri shares a personal path from engineering and client calls to global volunteer leadership, and what it really takes to commit to roles that demand influence, clarity, and courage. We also go deep on the new reality of workplace communication: it’s less about “communication skills” in general and more about cross-cultural communication across contexts. Direct vs indirect styles, time zones, expectations, and unspoken norms can turn a clear message into a misunderstanding fast. Add four generations in the same organization, and leaders have to learn a new playbook for motivating people, explaining the why, and supporting work-life balance and healthy rhythms without losing performance. Along the way, we dig into perfectionism, imposter feelings, and the moment when “my voice matters” stops being a quote and becomes a responsibility. Gauri explains how to take action before you feel ready, how to create safe and courageous spaces where people speak up, and why legacy is built through people, not titles. You’ll also hear a powerful transformation story of a member who struggled with English and a stammer, kept showing up anyway, and eventually performed stand-up comedy internationally. If you want stronger leadership development, public speaking confidence, and practical tools for global team communication, hit play now. Subscribe, share this with a friend who stays quiet in meetings, and leave a review. What’s one conversation you’re ready to take ownership of this week? YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

46 min
Mar 23

E116 - What If Communication Is A Combination Lock?

Two people can talk for ten minutes, agree with their heads, and still miss each other completely. That exact moment, when words are being exchanged but meaning is not, is where an uncommon communicator steps in and takes ownership of the conversation instead of letting it drift into confusion or conflict. I’m James Gable, and I’m kicking off a brand new season by breaking down the core framework I use to navigate tough conversations and reach mutual understanding. We start with self-awareness and the four common communication styles: passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, and assertive. Then we go deeper into a piece most people miss: how the other person listens. Are they analytical and fact-driven, relational and connection-first, critical and evaluative, or task-focused and efficiency-minded? When you can spot the listening style in real time, you can choose a better approach and stop talking past each other. We also get practical with communication tools you can use today, including authentic curiosity, labeling (“It seems like…”) to confirm what you’re hearing, and mirroring to prompt people to expand and clarify their real meaning. If you want better communication skills at work, stronger relationships at home, and simple conflict resolution techniques that actually work, this season opener gives you a clear starting point. Subscribe, share the show with someone you communicate with daily, and leave a review so more people can find the tools to make conversations work. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

11 min
10/11/2025

Extra - Throwback Stoicism and Communication with Felipe Engineer-Manriquez

Ever wonder how ancient philosophy can transform modern-day communication and performance in the construction industry? Well, prepare to be enlightened as we journey into the realm of stoicism and its impacts on communication, with insights from the seasoned construction pro, Felipe Manriquez. We kick off the episode by discussing the wisdom of renowned Stoics like Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus, and their profound influence on cognitive behavior theory. Felipe shares how these teachings have helped him take control of his reactions, adapt to situations and maintain a resilient mindset in the demanding field of construction. Our conversation doesn’t stop there, we explore how emotional control, energy, growth, and change intertwine in the challenging construction industry terrain. We dig deep into the importance of health, well-being, and cultivating a growth mindset, all crucial elements for succeeding in this sector. Felipe and I also shed light on the barriers that can inhibit progress and the power of stoicism in overcoming them. We highlight the Stoic Rule number four, a life-changing principle that makes you the sole custodian of your happiness. As we wrap up our engaging chat, our focus shifts to the resistance to change commonly witnessed in the construction industry and valuing people as individuals rather than mere cogs in the wheel. We reiterate the teachings of stoicism that encourage us to embrace the present and live each day to the fullest. We discuss the concept of "UC moment" or the uncommon communicator moment and how it intersects with stoicism. Regardless of your career field, this episode offers valuable insights to improve your communication skills and understanding of stoicisms' role in modern thought and practice. Find out more about Felipe at : https://www.theebfcshow.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

58 min
08/13/2025

Extra- Throwback with Adam Hoots: Respect and Communication

Meet Adam Hoots, founder of Construction ACHE Solutions and a change-maker in the realm of construction. His dedication to shifting the perception of skilled trades and craft workers is awe-inspiring, and our discussion today promises to shed light on this, and the fascinating world of lean construction principles. A man of many languages, Adam emphasizes the power of words in building trust with colleagues, a trait that's been instrumental in his success. In fact, it was Adam's remarkable journey that inspired the creation of Uncommon Communicators podcast. Join us as we dissect the complexities of lean construction with Adam. He guides us through his unique approach to making construction projects more efficient, through the application of lean principles. The conversation broadens to include the importance of visual communication and respect for people, both within and outside the industry. For those eager to understand lean construction better, Adam provides a sneak peek into his book, a comprehensive thesaurus of lean terms and visuals, simplifying the concept for all. We conclude with an exploration of the impact and influence of visual communication in lean processes. Adam shares his experience of launching a superintendent-only network, influencing the NCCER's leadership program, and his preparation for a TEDx talk. We celebrate the power of communication, specifically in construction and how it shapes our world. Walk away with a new found respect for the trades, the importance of thorough preparation, and the invaluable role of communication. Join us on this enlightening journey and gain valuable insights from an industry expert. Check out Adams Tedx talk here : Changing the way we think YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOJqHEhS1CtX3A4nztIBzdA Instagram: The_Uncommon_Communicator TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@theuncommoncommunicator Facebook: The Uncommon Communicator LinkedIn :https://www.linkedin.com/company/80960291/ Website : theuncommoncommunicator.com

48 min

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The Uncommon communicator is the individual that has the enlightenment, to recognize in any situation, whether or not communication has occurred. This uncommon communicator takes ownership of the conversation and possess the skills to navigate and facilitate the conversation to mutual understanding. Taking on the experts as well as the Sophist of old to help bring clarity to the lost art of true communications.

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James Gable
Years Active

2021 - 2026
Episodes

126
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