103 episodes

We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?

We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast Mr & Mrs Jones's Swinging Adventures

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.7 • 652 Ratings

We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?

    You Gotta Own Your Own Sh*t

    You Gotta Own Your Own Sh*t

    We sit down with four of our lifestyle friends and share real stories about what it's like to experience hurt feelings during an event and how to dissect, debrief, discover and confront the root cause of the issue.
    As much as it hurts sometimes, we discuss why we think it's important to work through the issues together in order to experience personal growth and strengthen our relationships.

    • 1 hr 35 min
    Deal Breakers

    Deal Breakers

    We discuss four distinct behaviors we consider to be deal breakers to moving forward and possibly making new lifestyle friends and connecting with potential play partners.
    Sharing opinions on politics, religion or other emotionally charged topics Being closed minded or  judgmental toward others Being 'tone deaf,' or not being able to read the room Trying too hard to make something happen What do you think? What behaviors do you consider to be deal breakers?

    • 1 hr 24 min
    Are You Willing to Put in the Hard Work?

    Are You Willing to Put in the Hard Work?

    Finding your tribe, making lifelong friends, connecting for sexy playtime and growing your primary relationship are just a few ways to define 'success' in the lifestyle.
    Many may mistakenly believe you can just fill out a profile and 'show up' to quickly enjoy these benefits. We have learned that just like in life, you must both put in the hard work over a period of time to experience all the lifestyle has to offer.
    Are you ready to put in the hard work? We believe the reward is worth the effort!

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Harnessing That New Relationship Energy

    Harnessing That New Relationship Energy

    New Relationship Energy (NRE) is that sexual buzz we feel when we first meet and connect with a couple or individual. We discuss navigating this heightened state of emotional and sexual feelings by processing it, understanding it, keeping it in perspective and responding to it in a healthy  way.
    NRE can feel scary and risky but we believe if it's understood and managed well it can provide a super charged experience and be very meaningful (and a whole lot of fun) for all involved.

    • 1 hr 14 min
    Episode 98: The Need for Lifestyle Community

    Episode 98: The Need for Lifestyle Community

    As the idea and exploration of consensual non-monogamy continues to grow we have noticed the need for organized community. The different flavors and diverse approaches means that one size does not fit all needs. 
    We invited our friends Fin and Emma from the Normalizing Non-monogamy podcast to chat with us about their community and how the four of us see how communites are forming and how to find the one that fits you best.
    Here are a few communities to explore:
    Normalizaing Non-monogamy community We Gotta Thing community Multi-amory community Bloom community platform Bonobo network 

    • 1 hr 44 min
    Episode 97: Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing

    Episode 97: Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing

    To quote Mrs Jones, "we should be an example and not a blueprint." It may seem natural to adapt our 'thing' into your lifestyle journey but that could be a mistake. Giving yourselves an opportunity to create and refine your own 'thing' while learning from the examples of others in the lifestyle can be liberating and exciting.

    • 1 hr 7 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
652 Ratings

652 Ratings

Russg1008 ,

M&L

When doing our research about the lifestyle, SO many forums all pointed us to the knowledgeable and velvety smooth podcast of Mr and Mrs Jones! Thank you for your public service. M: We absolutely love your show! 26 episodes in and every single one leaves me eager for the next.

greatcpl ,

Great show

Thanks for sharing your very personal most recent journey! You are doing a tremendous service to men and women who love them!

SL 3456 ,

New to the podcast

Hello Mr. and Mrs. Jones,

I’m currently binging your podcast and currently on episode 13! I have listen to a few different podcast regarding the lifestyle. I want to let you know I can hear the love and enjoyment in your voices when you do your podcast! I am enjoying your podcast and can’t wait to finish all the episodes!

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