85 episodes

We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?

We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcas‪t‬ Mr & Mrs Jones's Swinging Adventures

    • Sexuality
    • 4.7 • 535 Ratings

We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?

    The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends?

    The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends?

    Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested?

    What if you are the recipient of a 'let down' message? Do you want to know why or would you rather just move on to the next couple? Does the sting of rejection ever get easier?

    We invite you to listen in as we discuss this topic from both sides!

    • 1 hr 22 min
    The Struggle is Real

    The Struggle is Real

    Not only does real life often get in the way of engaging in the lifestyle, but simply staying sexually connected as a couple is a struggle. Add a global pandemic to the mix and you have the perfect storm of events that make this struggle almost impossible to avoid.

    In this episode we really don't have solutions to the issue, we simply share where we are in this so that as a couple you know you are not alone.

    • 1 hr 16 min
    The Compatibility Conversation

    The Compatibility Conversation

    We believe there are three important components of compatibility that we need to consider when trying to find connections with people in the lifestyle: General Compatibility, Safety & Health Compatibility and Sexual Compatibility.

    In this episode we define these components, discuss why they are critical for success and how to know if such compatibility exists when you're meeting new friends.

    • 1 hr 20 min
    The Language of the Lifestyle

    The Language of the Lifestyle

    In this episode we discuss the idea that there is a unique language spoken by those of us in the swinging lifestyle. We believe this language is comprised of four distinct elements: the language of speaking, the language of listening, the language of the body and the language of behavior.

    We also believe becoming fluent in this language will help smooth the pathway forward and help you more easily connect with others.

    • 1 hr 25 min
    Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle

    Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle

    We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe.

    In this episode we offer tips on what it takes to be successful finding and building special relationships with those who will become true friends! 

    • 1 hr 21 min
    Can We Afford the Lifestyle?

    Can We Afford the Lifestyle?

    It's not a secret that engaging in the lifestyle can be expensive! In this episode we discuss budgeting tips for your lifestyle adventures and why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment in our relationship.

    • 1 hr 9 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
535 Ratings

535 Ratings

Tdaniel199514 ,

New to the scene

Mr. O and I, Mrs. O, have been married 26 years and are new to the lifestyle. Your podcast has truly helped us to navigate the do’s and do nots, and eased the anxiety of expectations! We are still stumbling around, lol, but having more fun doing it. And I have to say, I truly feel so much closer to Mr. O, when I didn’t even think that would be possible!!! Who knew?!! Oh, and P.S. I kissed a girl, AND I LIKED IT!!!! WHO KNEW THAT EITHER?!!! Lol, my hubby is a happy man

ENMonogamist ,

As exciting as oatmeal

This podcast is exceptionally bland. It reminds of of oatmeal. I feel like I’m listening to churchy grandparents talk about their bedroom escapades, NPR style. Apparently that’s their thing.

Krahmitus ,

Awesome

Love the podcast. My beautiful wife and I have been married 26 years now, and just started dipping our toes into the lifestyle and live it, can’t believe what we’ve been missing all these years. We have met the most incredible people, and your podcast has been a huge, helpful resource as our journey continues to evolve. Thank you.

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