Why Intervention Podcast Christopher Doyle

Chris and Danny discuss the value of having supportive people in your corner while dealing with a loved one's addiction. They cover the concept of "bring someone in" from the "DEBBIE Method" in multiple ways. They also discuss the crucial roles of family and professional intervention in the journey from addiction to sobriety and highlight the difference between merely getting sober and staying sober, emphasizing the importance of seeking help, letting go of shame, and changing one's environment. Additionally, Chris and Danny critique the traditional therapy and 12-step meetings for providing limited support, advocating for combined professional interventions for better results.

Episode Highlights
The importance of help accessibility for families dealing with addiction What is The DEBBIE Method? Bringing an interventionist into the situation as the most helpful level of involvement Trusting influential people with addicted loved ones and letting them know some facts as a form of support Breaking the family's secret: Reaching out to uncle with long-term sobriety as the start of a recovery journey The power of bringing people together in the intervention process Accepting addiction as a possibility and knowing that there is a solution available The importance of recognizing when help is required for an addicted loved one Understanding the impact of environmental change for those in treatment Living in the present moment and accepting reality for what it is Overcoming the shame and stigma associated with addiction The benefits of environmental change during addiction treatment Connecting an addicted loved one to the right help and support system The value of getting out of the way and letting experienced professionals take over Learning to step back and let others take over in providing support during recovery. The intervention process: Ways to connect an addicted loved one to help. Family members stepping back and allowing the necessary conversations to take place between an addicted loved one and a sponsor The benefits and limitations of therapy and 12-step programs for families dealing with addiction The importance of engaging with recovery programs and not merely attending meetings


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Chris and Danny discuss overcoming the feeling of helplessness when dealing with addiction, for both addicts and their family members. They emphasize the importance of separating the addiction from the person and recognizing it as an illness rather than a personal issue. Taking small steps such as learning about addiction and seeking help from experienced individuals, can help people regain control and work towards recovery. Effective communication and mindset shifts play a significant role in addressing addiction, and it is crucial to believe change is possible. 

Episode Highlights
Relating the freeze response to family members struggling with a loved one's addiction and their feeling of being stuck The story of Danny dealing with his mother's attempts to manage his addiction and how her eventual withdrawal ultimately led to his treatment The concept of Learned Helplessness and its roots in a 1967 study involving dogs and electric shocks The discovery that the original Learned Helplessness theory actually has it backwards: We have to learn that we have the power to control outcomes Overriding the instinctual drive by looking for small actions that can influence the outcome Recognizing the feeling of being stuck and finding small options to get unstuck in relation to dealing with an addicted loved one Conventional wisdom in addiction and the importance of seeking help and learning new skills to combat learned helplessness Making addiction treatment entirely up to the addicted person, the flawed concept of hitting rock bottom, and the reality of continued use despite negative consequences Sharing insights about people in recovery, many of whom were pushed into it by their families Addressing the feelings of helplessness, permanence, pervasiveness, and personal responsibility in dealing with a loved one's addiction The importance of seeking help from others and avoiding taking personal responsibility for a loved one's addiction Learning more about addiction as an illness and separating it from the person in order to find a solution for the problem Providing an example of successful detachment from a personal perspective to appropriately address a loved one's addiction Developing a skill set to cope with addiction in the family, understanding that it takes work and dedication to reach a level of detachment Overcoming feelings of helplessness and understanding that with effort, change is possible The power of effective communication and how changing the way things are said can influence a person to seek treatment Realizing that addiction is not permanent and sharing examples of countless people who have found recovery The simplicity of saying yes to treatment, and how family members' belief in recovery can make a significant difference in taking that step Recognizing that it's unreasonable to think you can handle the situation on your own, but with proper guidance, you can unstick yourself and make progress in response to a loved one's addiction


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Chris and Danny discuss the Stop D.R.E.A.M.I.N.G. Framework, an essential tool designed specifically for families who are courageously grappling with the complex challenges of a loved one's addiction. This transformative approach not only promises to reshape the way families interact with their addicted members but also increases the likelihood of guiding them towards seeking help, embracing change, and eventually starting their recovery journey.
Utilizing these principles, families will discover the skills required to establish and maintain firm boundaries while renouncing the enabling behaviors that often plague these difficult situations. The hosts shed light on the significance of sidestepping unproductive and repetitive pitfalls such as arguments, misinterpretation, or guessing games. In their stead, a more fruitful alternative is presented: Supporting and motivating the addicted individual to take advantage of the professional help and resources required to gradually regain control of their life.


Episode Highlights
Recognize denial: Before addressing addiction, it's important to recognize and acknowledge your own denial as the family member of an addicted person Understanding the difference between rationalizing and justifying Heart-to-heart conversations are more effective than head-to-head Establishing boundaries can make a significant difference Addiction can lead to delusion: An addicted person may genuinely believe certain rationalizations for their actions, making it challenging for them to recognize the truth How to recognize the impact of addiction The dangers of enabling behaviors Apologize for past actions and change moving forward Do not minimize the consequences of addiction: Driving under the influence or engaging in other dangerous behaviors should be taken seriously Learn from past experiences to improve future interactions Don't waste time and money guessing Stop negotiating and take control Get help and support from others Dangers of delaying action


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In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss some of the benefits of 12-step recovery, including their effectiveness and common resistance to them. They emphasize the importance of having an open mind and committing to the program, even in the face of setbacks and relapses. The hosts also share personal stories and anecdotes to illustrate their points, and provide resources for loved ones looking to intervene and help their struggling family members. Overall, they stress the importance of seeking help and support, and not giving up on the potential for recovery.

Episode Highlights
How even in the midst of addiction, some people still have a sense of caring for others How people often make excuses for why A.A. didn't work for them They point out that these excuses often have a pro, but there is usually something underlying that makes a person resistant to receiving help Encouraging loved ones to separate the addiction from the person and not to carry the addict's negative words with them The language of addiction is very powerful and can cause people to resist help Repressing feelings due to fear of judgment and shame is a common issue among those struggling with addiction Sharing and being vulnerable in recovery can lead to validation and connection with others The culture of addiction can vary depending on where someone grew up Simple remedial jobs like making coffee and setting up meetings can help build self-esteem and contribute to feeling part of something The root of addiction is selfishness and self-centeredness, and receiving help offers a way to combat it Simple actions like attending meetings and following the 12 steps can lead to significant transformation


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In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss a few case studies that highlight some simple things families can do that they wouldn’t necessarily think to do on their own. 
Connection makes the difference. They discuss the 4-part connection formula families can use to get their addicted loved ones the help they need. Chris and Danny also highlight the importance of recognizing when an emergency situation arises and acting quickly in order to ensure the safety of those involved.

Episode Highlights
Intervention strategies for an addicted loved one Prioritizing the safety of children Dealing with an emergency situation involving children Emergency situations and treatment plans The benefits of family intervention for substance abuse recovery Dealing with emotional outbursts Intervention planning and its success rate The benefits of having an intervention for someone suffering from substance abuse Having a family intervention and discussion on treatment facilities and recovery Recognizing addiction and taking action for help Conversation between two brothers: A story of hope and redemption How a simple phone call saved a life Taking the next step towards recovery Exploring the challenges of addiction Substance use disorder intervention outcome Addiction coaching framework Maintaining singular focus during an intervention Shifting dynamics in the family Leveraging behavioral change for effective coaching Seizing leverageable moments for recovery Leveraging receptive moments to encourage change Making the connections for addiction recovery Benefits of family coaching for addiction treatment Why you should start the intervention and coaching for addicted loved ones


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If you are a family member with a loved one who needs help, it is important to get support before you offer support.
In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss the importance and benefits that come when you Model Recovery, both for your addicted loved one and yourself. They talk about the importance of family members getting involved in recovery programs when their loved one is going through treatment. Chris and Danny share how it can help give the family member a leg up and increase the success rate of their loved one's recovery. Additionally, they enumerate the problems that arise when family members don't get involved in their own recovery program.

Episode Highlights
Model recovery: Immediately talking to family members with addicted loved ones Benefits of a recovery program before your loved one returns home from treatment Having a game plan for addiction recovery Why family members need to adopt a program of recovery Dealing with family anxiety and recovery programs Urgency and intervention for addiction treatment Recovery support for families and friends of loved ones in treatment Exploring the dynamics of addiction and recovery in relationships Unconsciously repeating unresolved childhood issues Exploring supportive resources for addicted loved ones Why you should join a recovery program for yourself and your loved ones Adopting a recovery lifestyle Benefits of 12-Step Programs Co-Dependency and reclaiming yourself Creating awareness and decreasing negative aspects Awareness and shifting perspectives in recovery Intervention Process: Connecting to resources and supporting recovery


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