48 episodes

Tara and David have been married for 30+ years and are the parents of four grown children. Tara is a certified birth doula and childbirth educator. David is an associate professor, director of a masters program in Marriage and Family Therapy, and a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they own With U Projects. They share a curiosity about the world and the people who live in it. By interviewing experts, sharing their perspectives and engaging in others’ stories, David and Tara explore human development, real relationships, and all the things in between…With U.

With U Podcast Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 23 Ratings

Tara and David have been married for 30+ years and are the parents of four grown children. Tara is a certified birth doula and childbirth educator. David is an associate professor, director of a masters program in Marriage and Family Therapy, and a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they own With U Projects. They share a curiosity about the world and the people who live in it. By interviewing experts, sharing their perspectives and engaging in others’ stories, David and Tara explore human development, real relationships, and all the things in between…With U.

    With Love from Idaho

    With Love from Idaho

    How is David surviving the Great Cicada Invasion of '24? While a horde of insects invading our home town, why is Tara far away in a Boise birth center? While we've been busy teaching and training in different states this week, we invite you to join us on a call as we check in with each other and compare our parenting responses to our daughter's epic Amtrak adventure.

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    Picture of actual cicadas in our back yard. Now imagine one million of them flying around your head. Fun fact: cicada noise levels have been measured at up to 105 decibels.

    See more fun photos at WithUPodcast.com

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke


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    • 28 min
    9 Ways to Help a Friend Who's Hurting

    9 Ways to Help a Friend Who's Hurting

    Have you ever wondered what is the right thing to say to someone who is going through a hard time? Do you struggle with the line between persistence and intrusion when trying to provide support? We've been there, and we treasure the lessons we've learned along the way. Listen in for some practical tips that will help you foster deeper, more caring relationships.


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    • 48 min
    Tales from the Family Tree

    Tales from the Family Tree

    An effort to discover David’s family roots led us to more than just a meal of pickled herring on farm in the Netherlands. We also gained a deeper appreciation for the profound impact of family history on personal identity, We explore the ways we can learn from patterns in our family history and build on the strengths of previous generations while also writing our own story.

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    Resources for researching your family history:


    Local libraries


    City courthouse records


    National archives


    Ancestry.com


    Ancestry DNA tests


    Familysearch.org



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    produced by Zach Van Dyke


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    • 54 min
    Why Pets Make Perfect Pals

    Why Pets Make Perfect Pals

    From aquatic frogs to a pet shop puppy, we've hosted a variety of household animals. Though we weren't always on the same page about pet ownership, we agree that animals have enriched our lives and enhanced our families. We reveal some research that shows the true health benefits of pet companionship, and share our personal stories of pets that left their paw prints on our hearts.

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    CDC article about health benefits of pets

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke


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    • 50 min
    Travel Tips & Mishaps

    Travel Tips & Mishaps

    If you’ve experienced lost luggage, bad directions, or a misplaced passport, you know how easily a dream trip can go off the rails. But despite the potential for discomforts and disaster, we believe all travel is worth the risk. Getting outside your familiar neighborhood may challenge your relationships, expand your mind, and open the door to delightful discoveries. Listen up for our top tips for making the most of any travel experience, from family road trips to international adventures.

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    A few recommendations:

    Eating Europe — The Best Food Tours in Europe

    Taller Andaluz de Cocina — Spanish Cooking Class in Seville

    Paka — Alpaca socks

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    produced by Zach Van Dyke


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    • 59 min
    Beyond the Clichés on Graduation Day

    Beyond the Clichés on Graduation Day

    What if reaching for the stars sounds a bit unreachable? What does it really mean to follow my dreams? How do I make a difference in the world when I’m just working a regular job? If any of these questions ring a bell for you or any new graduate in your life, we’ve got some encouraging words. We’ll break down the most common graduation day clichés to help you feel less overwhelmed and more grounded at this amazing time of transition.

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    Gratitude: The Short Film by Louie Schwartzberg

    Check out photos and more info on our website at With U Projects

    We’d love it if you would share this podcast with your friends, and post a review! Thanks so much for supporting us in this way and helping us grow our reach.


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    • 28 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
23 Ratings

23 Ratings

JCRed2001 ,

A Great Podcast for Couples!

Hi David and Tara,
Corey and I really enjoyed this podcast. It was insightful and affirming for us. Being able to listen to seasoned couples share true, real and relatable stories was inspiring. We really enjoyed it. Keep up the good work!

DD now ,

A unique and interesting perspective on relationships

David and Tara are an amazing couple with unique life experiences who do a great job at exploring unique aspects of love, life and relationships.

A. Ban ,

Highly Trusted Voices

Individually David and Tara have impressive skills and experiences and as a team are voices that our generation needs. They are wise, funny, practical and I can’t wait to learn more from them!

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