Your Future Therapist Kelly Newsom and Megan Lachowski

Today Kelly and Megan deep into the critical topic of "othering," a concept that resonates across societal, cultural, and political spheres. As they unpack the subtle yet impactful ways we perceive or treat individuals or groups as different or inferior, the conversation illuminates the pervasive nature of this issue.

Main Takeaways:


Understanding "othering" and its implications in everyday contexts, including the experiences of marginalized communities.
Reflecting on personal encounters with othering and recognizing our own participation in perpetuating these dynamics.
The intersection of othering with systemic issues such as racism, homelessness, and educational inequity.
Exploring the psychological effects of othering, from diminished self-worth to perpetuating harmful stereotypes.
Strategies for fostering empathy, breaking down biases, and embracing the richness of diverse cultures and experiences.

Join us as we confront the uncomfortable truths about othering and embark on greater social consciousness. Tune in, reflect, and be part of the change.

Mentioned in this episode:

S2EP11 Where Our Food Comes From  https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/FgJduba6kIb

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The information provided on Your Future Therapist Podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always seek advice from your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before undertaking a new health regimen. We are not licensed psychologists or specialist healthcare professionals. Our services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals.


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Join us for an update on what we're doing now.

Kelly shares her mixed emotions on receiving acceptance into grad school, exploring her struggle with celebrating personal successes and the joy they should bring. Meanwhile, Megan reflects on her experiences at a dance festival, the power of building a supportive community, and the bold steps she's taking to expand her passion for dance into something greater.

Main Takeaways:

- The challenge of embracing personal achievements and the importance of self-celebration.

- The power of community building and nurturing authentic relationships.

- Navigating family obligations and setting healthy boundaries for personal well-being.

- The process of healing from past traumas and the long-term commitment to personal growth.

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The information provided on Your Future Therapist Podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always seek advice from your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before undertaking a new health regimen. We are not licensed psychologists or specialist healthcare professionals. Our services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals.


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Megan discusses the realities behind the produce on our plates, the ethical considerations of agriculture, and the hidden connections that bind us to communities and cultures worldwide. Shedding light on the implications of monocrops, the environmental impact of modern agriculture, and the disparities in food access that shape health and well-being across urban and rural landscapes.

Main Takeaways:


The evolution of human food sourcing and its current globalized state.


Ethical considerations of the seed and agriculture industry.


The concept of food deserts and their prevalence in both urban and remote areas.


The impact of cash crops on local and global communities.


The privilege of food choices and the importance of empathy in understanding systemic issues.



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Reach Megan:Website+Blog: www.novantihub.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/megan_lachowskiPeeves' Gabfest Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peeves-gabfest/id1686738715Novantihub Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/novanti/id1684642100

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The information provided on Your Future Therapist Podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always seek advice from your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before undertaking a new health regimen. We are not licensed psychologists or specialist healthcare professionals. Our services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals.


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Kelly is peeling back the layers of self-deception to uncover the subtle yet pervasive behavior of self-gaslighting. Whether it's downplaying emotions, invalidating personal experiences, or blaming oneself for uncontrollable events, she’s exploring the reasons behind this self-sabotaging behavior.

Discover how coping mechanisms, low self-esteem, avoidance of conflict, fear of rejection, and external influences can lead us to betray our own truths. With vulnerability and insight, Kelly examines the impact of societal norms and personal anecdotes, including a candid recount of a recent encounter with sexism that left her questioning her own experiences. 

This episode is not just an exploration—it's a call to action for increased self-awareness and the rebuilding of self-trust. Kelly provides you with thought-provoking prompts to help identify and address self-gaslighting, all with the goal of fostering healthier self-relationships. 

Main Takeaways:


Understanding self-gaslighting and its origins


Coping mechanisms and how they contribute to self-gaslighting


The role of self-esteem and societal pressures in self-deception


Strategies for recognizing and combating self-gaslighting behaviors



Thought Prompts for Reflection:

The first: Ask yourself, "Do I often dismiss or invalidate my own emotions and experiences?" Reflect on moments when you've felt upset, hurt, or frustrated and consider how you've responded to those feelings. Do you tend to downplay your emotions, tell yourself you're overreacting, or convince yourself that you shouldn't feel a certain way? Recognizing patterns of invalidation can be a crucial step in identifying self-gaslighting behaviors.

The second.  Consider your internal dialogue and self-talk. Ask yourself, "Do I frequently criticize or blame myself for things that are beyond my control?" Pay attention to the language you use when talking to yourself. Do you often engage in negative self-talk, berate yourself for perceived mistakes, or hold yourself to impossibly high standards? Reflecting on the tone and content of your self-talk can reveal whether you're engaging in self-gaslighting by internalizing blame or devaluing your worth.

The third.  Do a little Reality check: Reflect on instances where you've questioned your own perception of reality or doubted your memory. Ask yourself, "Have I ever found myself doubting my own thoughts, feelings, or memories?" Look at situations where others have challenged your version of events or made you question your own sanity. Reflect on whether you've ever second-guessed yourself or deferred to others' interpretations of reality, even when your own experiences tell you otherwise. Recognizing moments of self-doubt and uncertainty can be indicative of self-gaslighting tendencies.

Mentioned in this episode:

Wiki gaslighting: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting

Contact us - send questions and comments to:Text a question or comment to 530-733-6400Email: yourfuturetherapistpodcast@gmail.com

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The information provided on Your Future Therapist Podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always seek advice from your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before undertaking a new health regimen. We are not licensed psychologists or specialist healthcare professionals. Our services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals.


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Kelly and Megan invite you to the beginning of an essential conversation on food insecurity and the broader implications of social and economic inequities. This episode is not just about food scarcity; it's a call to expand our empathy and understanding of the diverse struggles within our communities.

Get ready to dive deep into the complexities of equality versus equity, the global interconnections of our food systems, and the stark realities behind the produce that graces our tables. From the challenges faced by those with disabilities to the unseen barriers that prevent equal access to nutritious food, Kelly and Megan peel back the layers of privilege and invite us to critically examine the words we hear and the assumptions we make.

Mentioned in this episode:


The true meaning of food insecurity


The distinctions between equality, inequality, equity, and inequity


The impact of globalized food production on local communities


The concept of 'othering' and its consequences



Mentioned in this episode:

Hunger Map: https://hungermap.wfp.org/

Most Valuable Crops: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_valuable_crops_and_livestock_products

Health Inequities and Their Causes: https://www.who.int/news-room/facts-in-pictures/detail/health-inequities-and-their-causes

World Food Map: https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2016/06/13/481586649/a-map-of-where-your-food-originated-may-surprise-you

Contact us - send questions and comments to:Text a question or comment to 530-733-6400Email: yourfuturetherapistpodcast@gmail.com

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Reach Megan:Website+Blog: www.novantihub.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/megan_lachowskiPeeves' Gabfest Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peeves-gabfest/id1686738715Novantihub Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/novanti/id1684642100

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The information provided on Your Future Therapist Podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always seek advice from your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before undertaking a new health regimen. We are not licensed psychologists or specialist healthcare professionals. Our services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals.


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Kelly answers the following question: Will holding a boundary lead to conflict or damage a relationship? The answer is complex and rooted not in the act of setting boundaries itself, but in the reactions it provokes. Let’s unpack it.

Mentioned in this episode:


The importance of boundaries for personal well-being


Reflection questions to affirm the necessity of your boundaries


How to handle others' reactions to your boundaries



Contact us - send questions and comments to:Text a question or comment to 530-733-6400Email: yourfuturetherapistpodcast@gmail.com

Reach Kelly:Website: www.kellynewsom.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/kelly_newsomSubscribe to Kelly’s newsletter: https://kellynewsom.substack.com

Reach Megan:Website+Blog: www.novantihub.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/megan_lachowskiPeeves' Gabfest Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/peeves-gabfest/id1686738715Novantihub Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/novanti/id1684642100

Resources:MarcoPolo App | https://www.marcopolo.me

The information provided on Your Future Therapist Podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment. Always seek advice from your physician or other qualified healthcare provider before undertaking a new health regimen. We are not licensed psychologists or specialist healthcare professionals. Our services do not replace the care of psychologists or other healthcare professionals.


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