Losing Part of Me Teresa Campbell

In this episode I speak with the wonderful Josh Connolly about his journey through sobriety and the healing that happened because of it. 
He shares inner work and mindfulness practices that have become an essential part of his  life. We explore the tendency to hide behind leadership roles and the importance of genuine self-reflection. The journey into self-knowledge is acknowledged as ongoing, embracing imperfection and recognizing the complexities of addiction and recovery.
We also discuss his powerful Inner You course, a transformative program designed to explore the intricacies of one's identity, past relationships, and the internal family system. The emphasis on understanding and championing every part of oneself emerges as a central theme, offering a path towards personal empowerment and liberation from the chains of addiction.
About Josh Connolly
Josh Connolly is a Resilience and Accredited Breathwork Facilitator. He is one of the UK’s most influential mental health advocates who regularly speak on BBC, ITV & Channel 5 news. He has spoken in the House of Commons, contributed to mental health policy and even advised the scriptwriting team on Hollyoaks. Josh runs resilience workshops for village schools and global brands alike. He is an ambassador for Nacoa – a national charity supporting people affected by a parent’s drinking.
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In this episode I invite my dear friend Biz Paul. Not only did he know about my sobriety pretty much from day one, he is also sober himself for over 5 years.
In this conversation Biz Paul shares why he decided being sober was for him and how he shared the news and the impact it had. We delve into the power of setting boundaries, using autonomy to make empowering decisions, and finding clarity and fulfilment in a life without alcohol.
We also talk about peoples reactions and how we are brought up in a society that positively encourages drinking and why is alcohol the only drug that people generally get annoyed by you not taking part in?
About Biz Paul
Paul Ince (aka BizPaul to his friends - that's you now) is a marketing strategist, host and presenter who believes that the people working within the business are best placed to talk about it. He helps organisations understand their voice and puts strategies in place to amplify it to their market. With over 20 years’ experience* he has supported many businesses to increase their visibility online, communicate more effectively and grow their business. 
He speaks frequently on the subject of how to improve the way businesses have conversations with their customers and clients via the world of digital, and occasionally analogue, marketing. 
In addition to running his content marketing agency, LikeMind Media, Paul co-hosts the award-nominated news and politics podcast, Humans Exhaust Me. 
*He didn’t want to add in the “over” as he doesn’t look old enough, but it adds to the authority so, you know. 
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www.bizpaul.com 
https://www.instagram.com/bizpaul/ 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/bizpaul/ 

In this episode, I am joined by my dear friend and coach, Mary Hyatt. She shares about her early awareness of my struggles with alcohol and the wisdom of not rushing to 'fix' me.
We delve into Mary's personal journey of being in a relationship with an addict, emphasising her focus on self-management and her unique path to recovery. The discussion explores the boundaries a partner is willing to tolerate and the importance of recognising your own limitations in controlling the other person.
Mary introduces the concepts of big T and little t trauma, explaining their differences and the profound impact they have on our lives. She eloquently explains how unprocessed trauma can manifest in the body, and can lead to addictive behaviours.
Mary guides us through recognising and managing things that activate us, unravelling the physical manifestations of trauma, and building awareness around these moments. We explore the crucial skill of tolerating discomfort without resorting to addictive tendencies.
This thought-provoking episode invites reflection on the interconnectedness of trauma, the body, and addiction, offering valuable insights into self-awareness and healing.
About Mary Hyatt 
Mary Hyatt is a life and business mindset coach who specialises in helping high achieving individuals move from living a life of burnout to a life where they are connected to their emotions, their body, and their spirit. She helps bring her 1 on 1 clients back into soul alignment for greater success, not only in their business but in their life.
As a trained Yoga, Meditation and Breathwork Instructor, Mary brings a level of trauma informed somatic consciousness and soul focused inner work to everything she does. She brings the heart and soul back to life and business, and gives women permission to come back home to the truest parts of themselves.
Social Media Links and website link:
https://maryhyatt.com/text/
https://www.maryhyatt.com
https://www.instagram.com/maryghyatt/
https://www.facebook.com/MaryGraceHyatt/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marygracehyatt/

In this heartfelt episode, I am joined by my husband Paul. We open up about the impact of my decision to stop drinking on our relationship. We delve into the dynamics of our shared drinking habits, discussing the challenges we faced and the changes we experienced when one partner decided to quit.
I reflect on my early realisation of having a drinking problem and the difficulty in conveying this to Paul, who was also a regular drinker. 
Paul reveals the challenges he faced in adapting to this significant lifestyle change. He candidly discusses the impact on weekends, socialising, and the shift in our shared activities. 
Paul expresses his frustration and concern, emphasising the struggle to bring back the element of fun that drinking had previously provided.
Ultimately, this episode provides a unique and raw perspective on the complexities of navigating sobriety within a relationship. 
We also discuss the positive changes in our relationship since I decided to quit drinking. We highlight the reduction in arguments and the improved emotional well-being. Despite the difficulties, we express hope for future improvements, especially during occasions traditionally associated with alcohol.

In this episode, I reflect on the past year of sobriety, sharing the changes, some of which were unexpected changes after a year of being sober.
This journey wasn't a quick fix. It took about 10 months to regain a sense of normalcy and face the world without the crutch of alcohol. Embracing emotions without the numbing effect of alcohol was a challenging yet transformative experience. 
Contrary to expectations, weight loss didn't accompany sobriety. Social dynamics shifted, and reactions from friends and family varied. Pubs lost appeal unless food was involved.
Surprisingly, my sense of humour and extroverted energy remained intact. Sobriety positively impacted my professional life, allowing me to set ambitious goals for my business.
The most profound change lies within me—I've learned to love and appreciate myself in ways I never thought possible. Sobriety is a journey worth every challenge, tear, and craving.
Remember, you're not alone. Sending love your way. You've got this. 💙

In this episode I delve into the intricacies of what led me to quit drinking. The elusive "magic pill" everyone seeks when asking, "How did you stop?" is far from simple, especially when grappling with addiction.
I attempt to share some insights into the factors that contributed to my decision to stop drinking. It's a journey that goes beyond mere willpower and confronts the challenges of addiction.
In the episode I share with you how therapy became a pivotal part of my recovery but how it took years to even bring up the subject of alcohol and addiction. 
One crucial aspect of my journey was the exploration of self-compassion and empathy. I had been exceptionally harsh on myself, berating my inability to control drinking despite numerous attempts. Learning to treat myself with kindness and understanding was a significant breakthrough which was key for my recovery.
I also share the concept of "little Therese's." This concept, influenced by internal family systems theory, helped me recognise that certain behaviours stemmed from a younger version of myself seeking comfort, safety, or attention. 
I also share my love for the book The Realm of Hungry Ghosts by Gabor Maté, recommended by my therapist. Maté delves into the impact of trauma on the brain, challenging the notion that addiction is solely a result of genetics or willpower. His exploration of how early-life experiences shape brain function, influencing our propensity for addiction, was a revelation that shifted my perspective. It wasn't a matter of fault or weakness; it was a neurological response to trauma.
Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and with understanding and empathy, positive change is possible.
Sending you love and strength on your own unique path to recovery. You've got this. 💙