BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

1 DAY AGO

An Ode to Altadena

Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 14m
JAN 14

Forgive, But Don't Forget

Happy 2025! This week we discuss the wild ride that is already 2025, forgiveness and how folks can navigate ideation (we have added a chapter for Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam so you can skip). In addition, we also discuss the SoCal fires and why we are done with Influencers. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 14m
JAN 7

Rewind: Life is Better (Featuring Kid Fury)

Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE! Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Kid Fury: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 9m
12/31/2024

Rewind: Laugh at My Pain (Featuring Amber Ruffin)

Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here. Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black.Fat.Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and How to Love Yourself" here! Check out more information on George Floyd Square here. Check out Amber's new show, "Have I Got News For You" here. Follow the show on social: Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website Follow Amber Ruffin: Twitter | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 19m
12/24/2024

2024, There's the Door! - A Best of 2024 Episode

Hey BFF's! Yes we've reached the final episode of the year. We asked you all to share your favorite moments and we mashed them all together to give you all the high's (and lows) that made you chuckle. Black Fat Femme will return with new episodes Tuesday, January 14th, 2025. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 7m
12/17/2024

Knotty Pine!

This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 18m
12/10/2024

Betting On Yourself (featuring Archie Jay)

On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and Archie: The Podcast host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow Archie: Instagram l Podcast l Tik-Tok l Website Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1h 9m
12/03/2024

A.M. E-40

This week your BFF's talk Black telekinesis, what makes A.A.V.E. (African American Vernacular English) so special and how we plan to stop being so hard on ourselves in 2025 - because honestly, life is already hard enough. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Also, don’t forget to watch and subscribe on YouTube! Follow the show on social: Instagram | BlueSky | Tik-Tok Follow DoctorJonPaul: BlueSky | Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok Follow Jordan: Instagram | Website | Tik-Tok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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“The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black change makers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

06/21/2022

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291 Ratings

Great

11/12/2024

xoxo**

Always has me cracking up and thinking deeply. Love!
Day One Listener

10/07/2024

Dwight1108

I just absolutely love the show, you two are so amazing and funny! Please, keep up the phenomenal work.
Ground breaking

12/27/2023

ibribaby

This podcast is educational, entertaining, funny, emotional, ground breaking, and so much more. The hosts are fantastic and so well spoken. There’s a reason why this podcasts has so many accolades and public recognitions.
Huh

05/17/2024

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what is this bro this is like my grandma and elephant combined with a little McDonald’s. Y’all need a quit and do somethin better like… goin to the ✨gym✨

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

Channel

Outspoken
Creator

iHeartPodcasts
Years Active

2022 - 2025
Episodes

132
Rating

Explicit
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BFF: Black, Fat, Femme