6 episodes

As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting to pass down.

But We Loved Outspoken

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 28 Ratings

As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting to pass down.

    Coming Out On YouTube (ft. Ingrid Nilsen)

    Coming Out On YouTube (ft. Ingrid Nilsen)

    Coming out on YouTube has defined a generation of young queer people. In 2015, Ingrid Nilsen posted one of the most viewed coming out videos of all time. She reflects on the positive and negative impact it’s had on her life and millions of others.
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    • 37 min
    Mr. Marriage: The Man Behind Gay Marriage

    Mr. Marriage: The Man Behind Gay Marriage

    Evan Wolfson was a major figure in the fight for gay marriage in America. He shares how - ironically - he never thought he'd get married, what changed his mind, and how his 32 year fight for marriage equality changed America.
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    • 41 min
    The Lesbians Who Led the AIDS Response

    The Lesbians Who Led the AIDS Response

    Jean Carlomusto is an Emmy-nominated documentarian. But in the 1980s, she was a scrappy filmmaker documenting the AIDS crisis for ACT UP. She reflects on the impact that lesbians like her had in responding to the deadly epidemic that was mostly affecting gay men. 
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    • 45 min
    Meet Your Host (with Eric Marcus)

    Meet Your Host (with Eric Marcus)

    In this special episode, we learn more about our host, Jordan Gonsalves, in an interview with Eric Marcus from Making Gay History. Jordan shares his coming out story, the inspiration behind But We Loved, and what listeners can expect from future episodes.
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    • 27 min
    That One Night at Stonewall

    That One Night at Stonewall

    Martin Boyce was part of the historic Stonewall Riots in June 1969. He recounts the events of that night in detail and reflects on how his actions changed America for generations to come.
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    • 36 min
    Introducing: But We Loved

    Introducing: But We Loved

    As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting to pass down.
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    • 2 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
28 Ratings

28 Ratings

nikausxx ,

Gorgeous moving storytelling!

Jordans interviews are so engaging to listen to and I love the way he frames these important stories with kindness and curiosity. This podcast is necessary, it makes space for these stories to be passed on.

Ronald1128 ,

So Beautiful!

A beautiful podcast exploring much needed conversations with queer elders. I’ve taken so much away from this podcast already. The host is lovely and asks such insightful and thought provoking questions. Definitely take a listen!

DaddysNickyBoy ,

Stonewall

Respectful. I love how Jordan was respectful to the queens of Stonewall. Especially, he was respectful to the man he was he interviewing.

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