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As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting to pass down.

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The AIDS Activist that Smuggled Drugs to Save Lives

In the 80s and 90s, Derek Hodel was the executive director of the New York Buyer's Club — also known as the People with AIDS Health Group. When life saving AIDS drugs in America were too expensive or not approved yet, Derek bypassed the American healthcare system and brought them in from abroad. He reflects on his work and its impact, nearly 40 years later. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

36 min
DEC 11

Olympic Diver Greg Louganis On Being A Gay Man In Sports

Greg Louganis is often considered the greatest diver of all time. But his sports journey was intertwined with his deep desire to be loved by his parents. He relives the moment when his HIV status, sexual orientation, and diving career all collided at once: the 1988 Summer Olympics. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

39 min
DEC 4

The Gay Children’s Book that Inspired a Culture War

Michael Willhoite wrote the 2nd most challenged book of the 1990s — a children's book called "Daddy's Roommate." The book set off a cultural and political firestorm in America. But Michael recounts how he never sought out to be political. He just wanted to write a children's book. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

27 min
NOV 27

The Founding of GLAAD

Jewelle Gomez co-founded GLAAD, the premier queer media watchdog organization, in 1985. She realized early that media was a tool that could prevent homophobia — or perpetuate it. She recounts why GLAAD was founded and why it's still needed today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

36 min
NOV 20

Noah's Arc: The 1st Comedy to Center Black Gay Men

Patrik Ian-Polk is the creator of Noah's Arc, the first scripted TV show to center Black gay men. The show defied stereotypes and developed a cult following in the 2000s. He discusses the superheroes in his own life that served as his inspirations. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

37 min
NOV 13

The Activist Responsible for Life Saving AIDS Drugs

Peter Staley was one of the most prominent members of the AIDS activism group ACT-UP. He is largely credited as one of the pioneers responsible for the creation of life-saving AIDS drugs. He recounts the most harrowing times of the AIDS crisis — and how he persevered. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

44 min
NOV 6

The Founder of the Trevor Project on Suicide Prevention

This episode contains frank discussion on suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. In 1998, Celeste Lecesne co-founded the Trevor Project, the nation’s leading suicide prevention organization for queer youth. It was born out of an oscar-winning suicide awareness film he wrote called "Trevor." Celeste recounts how the film was actually based on his own life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

40 min
OCT 30

Compton's Cafeteria: The Riot Before Stonewall

Susan Stryker is a historian who unearthed the story of Compton's Cafeteria, the first known full-scale queer riot against police harassment in American history. She describes the events of the riot and how her discovery impacted her own life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Introducing: But We Loved

As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting to pass down. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Such an interesting show

Nov 20

JPUphl

Just found this podcast and I am enjoying every minute.
Thank you!

Sep 2

funier

Congratulations on your show. You are doing a great job and keep it up. You’re doing good and important work.
Stupid

Nov 20

dayziegarcia

Stop being a victim and using being gay as you’re only personally trait.
When you identify yourself

Sep 7

slice and fice

As gay , and make that your primary focus. You will always feel separated and not accepted. There are ao many wonderful and terrible situations too experience here. Don’t make your sexuality the most important theme in your adventures here. Learn self awareness and understanding. This road has so many benefits to build your character. Why waste it on looking for people’s acceptance, when they are no better then you. Move on with balance in your life. 😌

As a gay kid growing up Catholic, in conservative Texas, Jordan Gonsalves knew nothing about queer history. Now, as a journalist, he’s searching for the stories he craved when he was coming of age. Through intimate interviews with LGBTQ+ elders, Jordan uncovers the untold stories of queer history. And in the process, he discovers the role models he always needed and the wisdom they’ve been waiting to pass down.

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