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In this episode we discuss the transformative power of sensuality and soft touch to enhance sexual experiences. 
Will describes his birthday surprise, when he was blindfolded and treated to an erotic experience, not knowing who or how many women were touching him…
We explore how to be present with sensations, how to drop into receiving touch, and what happens when we remove goal-oriented thinking from intimate situations. 
We also give you a glimpse behind the scenes at our signature Sensuality Workshop, where couples and individuals learn to connect more deeply using intentional touch and presence. 
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01:42 Beyond Sex As “The Goal”
02:36 Introducing Our Signature Sensuality Workshop
03:42 Will's Sensual Birthday Surprise
11:56 The Dom/Sub Relationship Parallel
14:05 Mindfulness in Sex and Sensuality
16:23 Learning To Receive Touch as a Man: Vulnerability and Masculinity
20:58 Exploring Sensuality Beyond the Bedroom
21:29 Inside Our Sensuality & Soft Touch Signature Workshop: What to Expect
21:51 Sensuality versus Sexuality
23:17 “Eye Candy”: Sensual Energy Beyond Touch
25:45 “Mind Candy”: Fantasies and Sexy Talk
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
 
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
 
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Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.
Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them.
In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some fantasies that we had never revealed before. We explore what makes it hard to express desires that our conditioning labels weird or dirty. We reflect on how liberating it feels to take that leap of faith and be rewarded with love (and sexy opportunity!).
You’ll hear about public sex in kinky clubs, blindfolds and restraints, anonymous touch, and playing with multiple people. Perhaps, listening to us might inspire you or trigger a spicy conversation with your partner...
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01:17 Exploring The Unspoken Desires
03:25 The Allure and Limits of Fantasies
04:01 The Fantasy Of Being Taken… 
05:02 It's Shameful to Express Sexual Fantasies… NOT! 
05:51 Conditioning of Female Sexuality: Why Can't I Be A Slut??
07:28 Embracing and Expressing Fantasies: Playing Within a Group 
09:00 70 Virgins or 7 Sluts?
11:35 We All Have A Masculine And Feminine Side
15:44 It's Important For A Woman To Feel Respected And In Control
16:02 Anonymous Sex In A Club Anyone?
16:41 Another Spicy Fantasy: Tying a Woman up to a Pole in a Club
19:03 When Fantasies Become Real: Experience a Sex Positive Club!
24:09 The Power of Eye Contact in Erotic Spaces
25:44 10 Men Watching??
26:35 Voicing Your Fantasy Will Set You Free
28:10 Recap of Today’s Top 4 Learnings
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
 
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
 
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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It’s the Origin Stories episode! Hear about the journeys that brought Allie, Will and Chiara from conservative childhoods, breakdowns, divorces and body shame to happiness and the strongest relationships of our lives.
We explain how we “fell” into non-monogamy, survived novice mistakes and navigated the circus. 
Hear spicy stories about our first experiences with group sex and how we learned to communicate, trust and stand up for ourselves.
Perhaps you can’t picture yourself in an Eyes-Wide-Shut sex party, and that’s fine – we’re not kink evangelists! We use stories from the fruity end of the spectrum to explore ideas that can empower everybody – singles and monogamous folks included.
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01:14 Introduction to The Episode
02:27 You Should Listen If...
02:51 Will's Journey: From Vanilla to Exploration
05:21 Finding Freedom and Rebirth through Love and Exploration
06:04 Chiara’s Transformation: from Catholic Roots to Kissing a Woman (!)
08:57 From Fantasy To Reality
10:56 Communicate Clearly Before Swinging!
12:52 “Sexperts” Night
14:40 Fun4Two: Our First Swingers Club
15:39 The Dark Room
18:29 "The Hot Tub Lady" Encounter 
21:21 I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It
25:11 Allie's Life Adventure: from Small Town Girl to Adventurous Sex Lover
28:08 If We Cheat We Cheat Together
29:29 The Sexy Castle Adventure... Attempt
33:14 Sorry - I Already Came!
34:30 Swinging CAN Strengthen Relationships
39:59 How Swinging Environments Can Gift Body Confidence
41:24 How to Navigate the Swinging Scene
43:25 Is Swinging for Me? 
45:44 Keeping the Spark Alive
51:02 The Hot Tub Story: The Good, The Bad And The Ugly
51:45 No Condom Asked
55:23 What We Learnt From Our Mistakes At Our First Swingers Club
56:19 Be Open! (To Listen AND To Communicate)
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
 
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
 
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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Today’s episode is all about a very common problem for both men and women: body image.
You’ll hear how negative perceptions can impact intimacy and relationships, and how healing and personal growth can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship.
Women in particular often feel negatively about their appearance due to societal standards, so Chiara vulnerably shares her journey to overcome shame that her boobs were “too big”, and then “scarred”. We explore how the lens of positive self-perception can boost sexual confidence: deeper sexiness comes from feeling confident and comfortable in one's skin, rather than conforming to external beauty standards.
For those that might be curious, you’ll also hear how non-monogamy and swinging can be platforms for receiving genuine feedback from others that don’t necessarily have a vested interest in just giving you a compliment - like a husband or friend would do.
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01:13 Body Confidence for Better Intimacy
01:19 Body Image and Self-Perception: “my boobs are too big!”
02:09 The Impact that Body Image Can Have on Intimacy
02:26 Overcoming Body Image Issues
02:29 The Role of Mindset in Sensuality
03:41 The Influence of Media on Body Image
04:06 The Disconnect Between Appearance and Self-Perception
04:53 The Importance of Self-Acceptance
05:37 Redefining Attractiveness
06:17 “Beautiful” Doesn’t Mean “Sexy”: The Impact of Arrogance on Attractiveness
07:12 The Journey to Feeling “Comfortable”, not “Confident”
09:17 How Moderate Physical Activity can Improve Your Body Image Perception
11:04 The Importance of Healthy Eating
12:06 The Power of Positive Self-Perception
12:58 Embracing Your Body is Liberating!
13:51 Chiara's Breast Reduction Experience
13:55 Embrace the Changes in Your Body
19:15 Men's Perspectives on Body Image and Self-Acceptance
21:46 Redefining Sexiness: Beyond the Physical
22:13 The Impact of Confidence and Comfort on Sexiness
28:32 The Importance of Compliments in Relationships
32:11 The Power of Feedback and Self-Acceptance
33:21 The Beauty of Imperfection: Embracing Your Body Post-Childbirth
37:53 The Impact of Physical Appearance on Self-Perception
37:53 The Incredible Impact of Feeling Good on Your Sexual Life
39:13 Practical Tips for Improving Body Image and Confidence
39:59 Positive Self-Talk and Compliments
42:18 Conclusion: Embracing Happiness and Confidence in Your Skin
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
 
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
 
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this special edition which we recorded naked (!!), we cover the differences between transactional sex vs. deeper, more intimate and sensual connections. 
We share our personal journey of learning how to shift boundaries in the kinky world that we sometimes play in, and draw lessons for how intimacy and sensuality can supercharge erotic connections in all kinds of relationships. 
We talk about how rare it is to find partners who share a similar emphasis on slow, intimate play, and we will provide a few tips on how to communicate  intimacy in your relationship, so that you can harness the power of focusing on the present moment to have mind blowing experiences.
 
01:56 A bold start: we are recording NAKED today!
02:31 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Norm
05:16 Personal Boundaries and Evolving Relationships
07:44 The Power of Sensuality 
17:55 The Impact of Trust and Respect in Sensual Encounters
22:48 The Essence of Sensuality: Being Present and Connected with Each Other
30:07 Navigating Safety and Comfort 
36:56 Is He Worthy Of You?
38:11 Exploring the Paradox of Intimacy in Swinging
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
 
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
 
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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In this episode we talk about how non-monogomy can strengthen relationships, contrary to what many people fear. You’ll learn something seemingly counterintuitive: how can adding more “bodies'' into a relationship strengthen a bond? 
We unpack concepts like open communication, trust, honest conversations, respecting boundaries, and navigating complex emotions together. 
Allie shares how she made her man’s fantasy come true by organizing a surprise birthday party, where he got to play with a bunch of naughty secretaries in his office… While you might get excited by the hot details, this story is actually a great example of how communication and trust made the whole experience even stronger.
We’ll give you the ins and outs of how to prioritize the couple’s intimacy, desire, and mutual pleasure while maintaining a strong emotional connection with each other.
We also talk about: personal growth, how sharing fantasies can help you increase trust, how to communicate that there is something wrong by processing information before making a scene, and how to ask for what you need.
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02:49 Exploring Swinging: Strengthening Relationships Through Shared Experiences
04:18 Allie’s POV
04:18 The Power of Communication and Boundaries in Swinging
04:48 Unleashing Fantasies: The Journey of Sharing and Exploring Together
05:11 Chiara’s POV
06:48 The Best Birthday Present: A Naughty Fantasy Come True 
15:56 Will’s POV
21:06 Chiara’s View On Respect
21:13 Navigating Challenges and Emotions in Swinging
26:31 The Importance of Confidence and Teamwork in Swinging
28:59 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Relationship Dynamics
40:36 “We Don’t Need This” 
42:59 A Magical Connection When Sharing Pleasure and Intimacy
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WHO IS WILL
Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.
 
WHO IS CHIARA
Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.
 
WHO IS ALLIE
Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.
 
For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.
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 >> Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner”
>> Sensuality & Soft Touch Workshop: Join The Waitlist
>> Email us your questions and suggestions  
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