593 episodes

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. 
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's  lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. 
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. 
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re  professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong‪?‬ Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 3K Ratings

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. 
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's  lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. 
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. 
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re  professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

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    FF: New Schedule, New Ventures, New Drama

    FF: New Schedule, New Ventures, New Drama

    ANNOUNCEMENT: We have a new schedule!
    Monday - But Am I Wrong?Tuesday - See You Next Tuesday (But Am I Wrong Votes)Thursday - Don't Blame Me!Friday - Fisting Friday (Weekly Catch Up)
    Meghan and Melisa are officially business partners! Get ready for exciting updates on their new venture. We're diving headfirst into the Love Is Blind finale drama, and then switching gears to discuss the potential of Kamala Harris as president. Buckle up for some serious laughs as we dissect the GOP's not-so-subtle fear of her.
    From fangirling over the new Bridgerton sensation to sharing the latest on Kenneth Mejia, we've got you covered. Plus, we're spilling the tea on LA's terrifying spider infestation and a potential superhero sighting in Melisa's hometown. And wait, there's more! Meghan shares her ENT scan results, and Melisa might have a surprising diagnosis.

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    • 53 min
    BAIW: Bride Wants a Clean Cut Wedding

    BAIW: Bride Wants a Clean Cut Wedding

    But Am I Wrong:
    Meghan - The Olympics should only be in a handful of cities, forever.Melisa - The National Anthem should be sung at games at the skill level that the country is operating at at the moment.
    But Are You Wrong:
    Bride wants bridesmaids to cover our tatsFriends want to borrow my unreliable car
    But Are They Wrong
    Meghan - Sticker MulesMelisa - Delta Airlines
    Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com
    Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
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    • 55 min
    SYNT: It's a Hodgepodge of Hot Topics!

    SYNT: It's a Hodgepodge of Hot Topics!

    Meghan's on a mission! Can she finally convince Melisa to find love on Love Island? ️Meanwhile, Melisa flips the script and introduces Meghan to the wild world of... Raw Dogging Flights? Buckle up! ✈️
    Plus:
    The latest on the Cody Ko drama - what does Brittany Broski think?Melisa makes a shocking announcement: she's retiring from gaming! (But what's next?) Donna Kelce is joining the cast of Holiday Touchdown: A Chief's Love Story (Get ready for romance!)Meghan shares a juicy update on her garden - is it finally thriving?We delve into the bizarre world of an illegal casino operating right here in Los Angeles!
    This episode is a rollercoaster ride of pop culture, personal updates, and a dash of the unexpected. Don't miss it!

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    • 40 min
    DBM: Don’t Know My Sex Buddy’s Name

    DBM: Don’t Know My Sex Buddy’s Name

    This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
    Content Warning: Body weight for submission #3 

    Introducing your dad to your partnerEveryone’s Living Their Best Lives, And I’m In DebtDealing with trolls online as a microinfluencerCalling your hook up by his embarrassing nicknameDon’t Blame Them: Quitting Your Hobby
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    • 1 hr
    FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Depriving Kids of Independence Day

    FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: Depriving Kids of Independence Day

    Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong Episode: Depriving Kids of Independence Day.
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    • 19 min
    BAIW: People Think I Hooked Up With My Roomie

    BAIW: People Think I Hooked Up With My Roomie

    Content Warning: Baby Death (Meghan's BATW)
    But Am I Wrong:
    Melisa - Don’t be a greedy bitch and pay people what they’re worthMeghan - Billboard needs to cap chart rankings
    But Are You Wrong:
    Questioned about dating your room mateBabysitter not doing activities with kids
    But Are They Wrong
    Melisa - Oklahoma Judge Brian LovellMeghan - Matthew and Alyssa Wroblewski
    Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com
    Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
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    • 1 hr 3 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
3K Ratings

3K Ratings

Christina_ ,

Forever Listener, M

I typically listen through Spotify, (so sorry Apple) however I haven’t figured out how to leave a review through that platform so here we are. I came across Meghan in the Youtube era of Lilly and Jocelyn (adored the content then and still adore it now). But, January of 2016 is when I became an avid follower. I was personally struggling mentally and as a freshman in college at the time I was away from my support system. Meghan had posted a video “What Having Anxiety Feels Like” on her channel and I’ve followed along ever since. I came across Melisa through this podcast and instantly fell in love with her personality. Both woman offer so many people such a safe space with their platforms and I don’t know if you both truly understand the impact that you have. So, I will be graduating with my PhD this summer and I truly don’t think I would’ve gotten through all those late nights without the familiar voices and positive outlooks of these two strong woman. Thank you.

niknakpattywak99 ,

if you haven’t listened yet, we have beef

this is absolutely my favorite podcast in the world! meghan and melisa are the wisest and most profound philosophers of our time. they not only provide flawless advice but they also bring us laughter, joy, and community! if they had a cult i would join 🫱🏾‍🫲🏼🤝🏾

t_squared15 ,

Longtime listener

I love all editions of the podcast. I love the differences between Don’t Blame Me and But Am I Wrong. Meghan and Melissa are the best and I look forward to these podcasts every week.

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