57 min

Episode 144: Mastering Communication In Relationships The Proclivity Podcast

    • Health & Fitness

Imagine a world where messages are consistently misinterpreted, leading to confusion, conflict, and missed opportunities. Without shared meaning, communication becomes a game of chance, fraught with misunderstandings and inefficiencies. In the digital age, effective communication is paramount. Mastering communication is key to success in personal relationships, professional endeavors, or societal interactions. In this episode, Joel and Emily delve into the importance of mastering communication and how achieving shared meaning can enhance every aspect of our lives, so tune in to today's episode to improve your interpersonal relationships.

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Show notes:

What is communication? 

03:21 - Shared meaning between a sender and receiver


Unspoken expectation


Why do we need to understand before we want to be understood



07:25 - How do we come with a shared meaning


Good communication technique


Result of poor communication



10:43 - How to restructure the perception of an individual


Importance of asking questions


Self talk


Typical reaction and ideal reaction when in flight or fight mode



15:03 - Dealing with upregulated responses


Setting safe boundaries


Being vulnerable



21:10 - Overcoming the fear of being judged


Sharing emotions to avoid resentments


Importance of feeling accepted and seen



25:25 - Top 3 tips to master your communication


25:45 - Know what conversation you are in 




Practical (Help)


Emotional (Held)


Social (Heard) 




33:32 - Match the emotion 




Recognize the energy and match it




48:48 - Curiosity and Connection 




Ask 3 questions minimum 


Affirm the emotion and connect through personal experience 


The power of Vulnerability



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Spotify:

https://open.spotify.com/show/21GEz9MRdgD04mQy5BIiRT?si=7a8339ec94634e6b



Apple:

https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/episode-50-the-supplements-you-should-take/id1512646984?i=1000542263359



THE PROCLIVITY METHOD: 


Information: https://www.proclivity.co/proclivity-method
Connection Call: https://www.proclivity.co/connection-call

Imagine a world where messages are consistently misinterpreted, leading to confusion, conflict, and missed opportunities. Without shared meaning, communication becomes a game of chance, fraught with misunderstandings and inefficiencies. In the digital age, effective communication is paramount. Mastering communication is key to success in personal relationships, professional endeavors, or societal interactions. In this episode, Joel and Emily delve into the importance of mastering communication and how achieving shared meaning can enhance every aspect of our lives, so tune in to today's episode to improve your interpersonal relationships.

.

.

.

Show notes:

What is communication? 

03:21 - Shared meaning between a sender and receiver


Unspoken expectation


Why do we need to understand before we want to be understood



07:25 - How do we come with a shared meaning


Good communication technique


Result of poor communication



10:43 - How to restructure the perception of an individual


Importance of asking questions


Self talk


Typical reaction and ideal reaction when in flight or fight mode



15:03 - Dealing with upregulated responses


Setting safe boundaries


Being vulnerable



21:10 - Overcoming the fear of being judged


Sharing emotions to avoid resentments


Importance of feeling accepted and seen



25:25 - Top 3 tips to master your communication


25:45 - Know what conversation you are in 




Practical (Help)


Emotional (Held)


Social (Heard) 




33:32 - Match the emotion 




Recognize the energy and match it




48:48 - Curiosity and Connection 




Ask 3 questions minimum 


Affirm the emotion and connect through personal experience 


The power of Vulnerability



.

.

.

Spotify:

https://open.spotify.com/show/21GEz9MRdgD04mQy5BIiRT?si=7a8339ec94634e6b



Apple:

https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/episode-50-the-supplements-you-should-take/id1512646984?i=1000542263359



THE PROCLIVITY METHOD: 


Information: https://www.proclivity.co/proclivity-method
Connection Call: https://www.proclivity.co/connection-call

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