Purity Hacks Podcast Jeff Fisher

Jeff of PurityCoaching.com talks about the importance of your recovery story. You have Deliverance stories and you have Work In Progress stories. He talks about the difference between the two.
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Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com shares tips on how to travel and be successful in your purity journey. Practical tips. Straight truth. No fat.
jeff@puritycoaching.com

On the last podcast we talked about our Porn looking behaviors.  Today we go deeper.  Our porn looking is driven by our porn longings.  And really, our longings are not for porn at all, but for much deeper things.

Here are the key points from the podcast.  Use these to help reflect an evaluate what's really going on underneath the surface.

Porn means something to you.
How does it make you feel?  (before, during, climax, after)
What are you in need of?
Jesus wants to inhabit those places
The spiritual battle for your heart is huge.
The sin / flesh battle is huge.  Your power is not enough.  Your solo devotion to Jesus is not enough.  You need "one another".
What alarms are going off inside you?  Not just an attraction to nudity or sexual things.  The visuals are triggers that set off something deeper inside you.

Intro / Outro Music:  “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com
Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal -  FreeMusicArchive.org

Why do you look at PORN? Why can't you stop when you want to? Why can't you stop your bad behaviors?

1. Your habit grew over time
2. Lots of physical things are happening in your brain and with your body.  Things that you like.
3. It feels good.  The brain chemicals.
4. You have influences in your past that have shocked you, pushed you and nudged you in this direction.
5. Key people in your life have encouraged you in the porn direction.
6. You have key "milestone" experiences in your past that you look back on as building blocks.
7. Your environment encourages you to access and look at porn.
8. You keep secrets.  You cover up, hide, lie, and deceive others in order to keep your secret.
9. You have no defenses.
10. You have no accountability.
11. You have no self-discipline.
12. You have no boundaries (rules, guidelines)

Jeff@puritycoaching.com

Intro / Outro Music:  “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com
Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal -  FreeMusicArchive.org

WHY DO YOU NEED A TEACHER?
You lack experience
You lack knowledge
Your thinking is immature
You have blind spots / self-deception
You need a safe person / place to practice winning and failing with
You need someone to challenge you

WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – TOP AWESOME 3 – GO FOR THESE
Purity ministry leaders
Sexual addiction support groups and leaders
Counselors that understand sexual addiction

WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – HIT OR MISS – BE CAREFUL WITH THESE
Ministers
Wise friends around you
Best friends|

WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – BOTTOM 3 – NOT YOUR TEACHERS
Spouse
General friends
Books / videos / podcasts

KEY CORE REALIZATIONS

You have to say “yes” to your need for a teacher
You have to say “yes” to making first contact
You have to say “yes” to continuing to reach out; persevere until you find the right teacher
You have to say “yes” until you find the teacher with the right chemistry for you

Jeff@puritycoaching.com
Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox

Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com talks about:
What hacks are.
How purity hacks can help you.

And he goes through the first hack you need to learn of Motivations.

HOMEWORK; Make a Top 5 list of reasons you want to stay pure, or reasons why you don't want to do certain sexual behaviors.

HOMEWORK: Reach out to someone else for help with your purity journey.

jeff@puritycoaching.com