7 episodes

Where’s My Mind is a podcast where mental illness is discussed with the same candor as sex during a Sex and the City brunch scene, but with more diverse and inclusive participants. Kimberly Rolfs and Rena Barch met while learning to make coffee, not realizing that latte art would become the pathway to frank discussions about everything from depressive episodes to avoiding talking truth to their therapists. In this long-form podcast, we discuss the the highs, the lows, and the very real in-between.

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    • 4.8 • 12 Ratings

Where’s My Mind is a podcast where mental illness is discussed with the same candor as sex during a Sex and the City brunch scene, but with more diverse and inclusive participants. Kimberly Rolfs and Rena Barch met while learning to make coffee, not realizing that latte art would become the pathway to frank discussions about everything from depressive episodes to avoiding talking truth to their therapists. In this long-form podcast, we discuss the the highs, the lows, and the very real in-between.

    7. Where's My Paycheck? - Mental Health In the Workplace, How to Tell Your Boss About Your Mental Illness, Using Your Sick Days, Creating a Supportive Environment, and Standing Up For Yourself

    7. Where's My Paycheck? - Mental Health In the Workplace, How to Tell Your Boss About Your Mental Illness, Using Your Sick Days, Creating a Supportive Environment, and Standing Up For Yourself

    In this episode, Rena and Kim discuss one of their favorite topics: mental health at work! We discuss how to talk about your mental illness to your boss, when in the hiring process to talk about it, how to create a supportive work environment, coping with panic attacks at work, and using sick days to take care of your mental health. We also talk about bad bosses we've had, how working in the service industry can hurt people's mental health, being mistreated because of our mental illnesses, unconscious bias, not wanting to confirm stereotypes, how stigma about working with mentally ill people can influence the hiring process, and standing up for yourself. This is an important discussion to both of us, and we think you'll get a lot of value out of it too!!

    This is going to be our last episode for a couple weeks as we take a little break from recording, but we'll be back and better than ever very soon with lots of amazing new guests!

    Connect with us:

    Where's My Mind

    FB: facebook.com/wheresmymindpod

    IG: @wheresmymindpod

    Twitter: @wheresmymindpod

    Connect with Rena:

    rbarch.com

    IG: @rbarch

    Connect with Kim:

    kimberlyrolfs.com

    IG: @kimberlyrolfs


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    • 1 hr 14 min
    6. Where's Zoey's Mind? - Zoey Michaels on ADHD, Misdiagnosis, Hospitalization, Fearing Addiction, Dating In Treatment, and Why Her ADHD Is a Superpower

    6. Where's Zoey's Mind? - Zoey Michaels on ADHD, Misdiagnosis, Hospitalization, Fearing Addiction, Dating In Treatment, and Why Her ADHD Is a Superpower

    This week's guest episode features artist and musician Zoey Michaels! We talk about Zoey's ADHD diagnosis, how her diagnosis and view of mental illness has evolved, her experience being hospitalized and in treatment programs, growing up as the child of addicts, having an addictive personality, taking Adderall, and dating someone she met in treatment. We also discuss coping with trauma, toxic relationships, being a "therapist teacher's pet," how ADHD influences Zoey's creativity, and how family dynamics shape the way we behave in adult life. Rena and Kim also talk about taking a break from therapy, considering your therapist's feelings, thinking about death, appreciating the small things, and finding a job you're passionate about. This is a LONG episode, but it's packed with so much amazing content. Enjoy, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe! 

    Connect with Zoey:

    IG: @zoeymichaels

    Connect with us: 

    Where's My Mind

    wheresmymindpod@gmail.com 

    Facebook: facebook.com/wheresmymindpod

    IG: @wheresmymindpod

    Twitter: @wheresmymindpod

    Rena: @rbarch

    renabarch.com

    Kim: @kimberlyrolfs

    kimberlyrolfs.com


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    • 1 hr 43 min
    5. Where's My Self-Control? - Impulsive Behavior, Self-Harm, Alcohol, Hypersexuality, Emotional Eating, Why We Self-Destruct, and What We Do About It

    5. Where's My Self-Control? - Impulsive Behavior, Self-Harm, Alcohol, Hypersexuality, Emotional Eating, Why We Self-Destruct, and What We Do About It

    In this episode, Rena and Kim are talking SELF-DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR.  We hit on all kinds of self-destruction and self-sabotage, from binge drinking to emotional eating to sex to smoking, and we talk about where these behaviors come from for us and get to the root of why we've used them to cope.  We talk about the difference between self-destruction and self-sabotage, why we're more comfortable being unhappy, how impulsive behavior influences creativity, when to embrace destructive impulses, how to avoid getting into patterns of self-sabotage, and what we do in the moment when we feel triggered. We also discuss what it feels like to be in the middle of a depressive episode, getting back into good habits and routines, and the mind-body connection.  

    Connect with us: 

    Where's My Mind 

    Facebook: facebook.com/wheresmymindpod  

    IG: @wheresmymindpod 

    Twitter: @wheresmymindpod 

    Follow Rena: @rbarch 

    renabarch.com  

    Follow Kim: @kimberlyrolfs 

    kimberlyrolfs.com


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    • 58 min
    4. Where's Haley's Mind? - Haley Jakobson on Depression, Stigma in the Mindfulness Community, Trauma, Being Creative on Meds, and Starting Conversations With Art

    4. Where's Haley's Mind? - Haley Jakobson on Depression, Stigma in the Mindfulness Community, Trauma, Being Creative on Meds, and Starting Conversations With Art

    We're back with another guest episode! Writer, artistic director, yoga teacher, and photographer Haley Jakobson joins us to discuss depression, mood disorders, stigma in the mindfulness community and why it almost prevented her from getting help, forced unpacking of trauma in acting school, why medication is the best thing that happened to her creativity, writing to heal, the importance of art to the conversation about mental health, why she doesn't date people also dealing with mental illness, and... outsourcing your nudes? Also, Rena and Kim talk about repressing emotions to function, breakups, NOT embracing the present moment, "depression face," journaling, and if mindset is really everything. 

    Follow Haley:

    @haleyjakobson

    @haleyjakobsonphoto

    @brunchtheatre

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    www.wheresmymindpod.com 

    Where's My Mind Facebook

    IG: @wheresmymindpod

    Twitter: @wheresmymindpod

    Follow Rena and Kim: 

    Rena: @rbarch

    www.renabarch.com

    Kim: @kimberlyrolfs

    www.kimberlyrolfs.com


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    • 1 hr 17 min
    3. Where's My Serotonin? - Finding the Right Medication, Dealing With Side Effects, and When to Break Up With Your Meds

    3. Where's My Serotonin? - Finding the Right Medication, Dealing With Side Effects, and When to Break Up With Your Meds

    We discuss the trials and tribulations of finding the right medication for your diagnoses, and why we decided to go on medication. We decide which side effects are worth living with in exchange for being able to function every day and how to decide when to go on or off anti-depressants.

    Reading List and References:

    The Collected Schizophrenias - Esme Weijun Wang

    "Psychiatry's Incurable Hubris", The Atlantic

    Mind Fixers: Psychiatry’s Troubled Search for the Biology of Mental Illness - Anne Harrington

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    Where's My Mind Facebook

    IG: @wheresmymindpod

    Twitter: @wheresmymindpod

    Follow Rena and Kim: 

    Rena: 

    @rbarch

    www.renabarch.com

    Kim:

    @kimberlyrolfs

    www.kimberlyrolfs.com


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    • 1 hr
    2. Where's Alex's Mind? - Alex Hughes on Bipolar Disorder, Manic Episodes, Being Hospitalized, Healthy Coping Mechanisms, and Dealing With Mental Illness In Relationships

    2. Where's Alex's Mind? - Alex Hughes on Bipolar Disorder, Manic Episodes, Being Hospitalized, Healthy Coping Mechanisms, and Dealing With Mental Illness In Relationships

    Actor, writer, and director Alex Hughes joins us for our first guest episode (!!) to talk about his bipolar II diagnosis, how hypomania and mania differ, what it was like spending a night in the psych ward, finding healthy coping mechanisms, how the way you act in therapy mirrors how you act in life, and his hesitation around going on medication. Also, Rena talks to Alex and Kim about their friendship and creative partnership, how dealing with mental illness helped their friendship evolve, and how they went from a toxic and codependent relationship to one in which they both support each other's mental health (spoiler alert: a LOT of communication). 

    Follow Alex:

    @ahughes1313 

    alexarjunahughes.com

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    www.wheresmymindpod.com 

    Where's My Mind Facebook

    IG: @wheresmymindpod

    Twitter: @wheresmymindpod

    Follow Rena and Kim: 

    Rena: 

    @rbarch

    www.renabarch.com

    Kim:

    @kimberlyrolfs

    www.kimberlyrolfs.com


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    • 1 hr 24 min

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