The Pleasure Seeker Lydia Feldman

Energy Coach and Erotic Pole Dancer Allison Finely joins me to talk about the power of your own erotic dance!

I’m excited to say she will be teaching in my upcoming salon: Better Sex in 60 Days!!!  



This is my signature program to help you get into your body, enhance your desire, and deepen your everyday and erotic relationship with your partner.



Would dancing like a stripper make for better sex?



Well, yes! BUT the answer why may surprise you. 

Allison is not only a magnetic erotic dancer but teaches embodiment in such a creative, accessible way so you can feel more empowered in your erotic, sensual SELF and spirit.

In today's interview, we talk about sexual healing through pole and erotic dance, common misconceptions about the dance form, and the



most surprising changes & benefits she has seen in her client and herself (in the bedroom and way beyond)

OH and where she buys her favorite shoes and sexy pieces. ;)



PLUS, learn some easy, sexy AF moves right now!  Click here to watch our YouTube video where she teaches her top 5 moves!

Follow Allison on IG HERE.



Make sure to like and subscribe to my Youtube channel to see lots of fun content to help support you and YOUR PLEASURE.



(If you want to join Better Sex in 60 days, it’s $1000k -- a total steal for all the content, guest instructors, and weekly private coaching you’ll get on your way to enhancing YOUR delicious sex life - send me an email as we begin 10/17/22).

Desire can feel impossibly tricky, especially when that sparky, electric, grab-you-by-the-pants kinda D E S I R E disappears from a relationship.  



Here are three ways to increase your hot WANTING when sex feels like a chore.



If you are interested in 1:1 coaching or joining my next group salon Better Sex in 60 Days we begin 10/10/22. Dm here, on IG @mrslydiafeldman, or email lydia@lydiafeldmancoaching.com

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lydia@lydiafeldmancoaching.com 

What the heck do I mean by "courtesan"??

Ummm err, prostitute? Escort? Street urchin turned harlot turned glorified Woman of the night?

Like, it's a good thing?

Oh yes my friend, we are reclaiming not only this brilliant word & class of elite women from the gutter,

But also embodying what it means for YOU in this modern age.

Be brazen
Be opulent
Be adored & reverered
Be outrageous powerful

& break all the rules.

We are now starting

⚜️
The Elemental Courtesan
⚜️
July 5.
6 weeks
Group & 1:1

Dm for your gilded link!
Click here for Visuals of this audio!

Get good with the discomfort of seeing your badass hotness reflected back at you from your camera. 



Don't let this be complicated, take your phone, find a big window, and let the video roll and screenshot away after.

In this episode, we talk about what makes for a fantastic, unique, and LIT selfie (and guess what, it ISN'T a perfect body or lighting).  

With over 20+ years of experience as a professional photographer, coupled with her work as a Life Coach, Davina Fear gives some real practical tips on how to get out of your head and into your body for the best selfies possible!

Follow this woman! (here on IG, and FB) 

Take her Selfie Siren Series (if you're listening in May/June;)!



ALSO, here's a little taste of my very own Selfie Siren Session from our work together in The Lusty Creative! 


Oh oh OH! And if you want to see the eye candy of my Zoom Room (aka WATCH us live instead of listen on the podcast, CLICK HERE). 

Join us today as I talk with Ayurvedic Yogi Life Coach Dana Skoglund as she talks about the embodied practice of SELF - MASSAGE!   
Self-communion of slow sensual touch can feel surprisingly vulnerable & intimate and has vast effects on health, skin, lymph detoxification, and sexual connection.  The best part is also the busy-ness of my brain doesn't have to be responsible for destressing the body.  
Your hands...  Slippery with oil and love potion essential oil scents,  Slow, deep, rhythmic & circular strokes,  Between fascia, bones & muscles...  And then light and silky glide of fingertips...  Pleasure, relaxation and MAGIC will work their way through your body. 
Literally, loving self-touch releases a love-inducing hormone cocktail in our brains so we ARE more open, connected & resilient.   
So! Wanna try?  
Here's the practice in a nutshell (and follow @danaskoglund for more wisdom!!!)  ** You can also do this with none of the below -- just your hands RIGHT NOW is enough!  
You'll need an oil base (🥑🥥, sesame or almond)  Essential oil (optional) - Most important is that you LOVE it!  👉🏼 for The Love Potion blend try any combo of:  Jasmine (⬆️desire & ⬇️nerves)  Neroli (⬆️arousal)  Sandalwood (⬆️testosterone& drive)  Patchouli (⬆️libido & ED)  Ylang Ylang (⬆️ libido & endocrine system)  Clary Sage (⬆️fertility)  Blk Pepper (⬆️ circulation)  Bergamot (⬇️ stress)  🤲🏽Combine some oil with the desired any combo of scents in a small glass jar or bowl.  🧘🏻‍♀️ Sit or stand on an old towel.  ❤️Use long deep strokes towards the heart, starting with outer limbs working in,  💞Using long strokes on bones & circles on joints.  ⏰ Let it feel GOOD & soak in for 10min, crown to feet. (Could meditate and play with partner massage here;)  🚿 Rinse in a hot shower!  
Curious to give it a try?  Leave a comment and let me know!  
PS. Follow Dana here:  https://www.instagram.com/danaskoglund/  
PPS. Here's the link to my sexy playlist:  https://open.spotify.com/playlist/44eSs3TkOYQVDs2diMVbhe?si=e3e398fbc0de41ae5