192 episodes

gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual  orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero! This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone.This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts.Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives:·       How do I get and stay sober in the queer community?
·       Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer?
·       What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like?
·       Where do sober gay and queer people hang out?
·       How can I have good sex sober?
·       What are tips and tricks for early sobriety?
·       How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery?
·       How will my life change if I get sober?
·       Can you be queer and sober and happy?
·       How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?

gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show Steve Bennet-Martin

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    • 5.0 • 44 Ratings

gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual  orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero! This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone.This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts.Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives:·       How do I get and stay sober in the queer community?
·       Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer?
·       What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like?
·       Where do sober gay and queer people hang out?
·       How can I have good sex sober?
·       What are tips and tricks for early sobriety?
·       How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery?
·       How will my life change if I get sober?
·       Can you be queer and sober and happy?
·       How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?

    No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)

    No Fighting in the Life Boat with James Sweasy (#190)

    Sober Steve is joined by James Sweasy to share his experience, strength, and hope on navigating sobriety while helping others through their own journeys.

    **Episode Highlights Include**
    - **Identify, Don't Compare:** How focusing on our similarities rather than our differences helps keep us connected and sober!
    - **Finding Value in Sobriety:** You need to value your sobriety to recovery as a whole person and keep an open mind!
    - **Finding Value in Yourself:** James shares just how much he went through and how he came out the other side believing in his own value.
    - **And Much More! **

    **Where to Find Us:**
    - James Sweasy's Website
    - James on Facebook
    - James on IG 🟢
    - gAy A on IG 🟢
    - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️

    Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober!




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    Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)

    Working with Your Partner Sober ft. Joey B (#189)

    Sober Steve is joined by Joey Bachrach from Rainbow Hill Recovery to peel back the curtain and discuss what it’s like working in recovery with his husband, Andrew Fox.

    **Episode Highlights Include**
    - **The Role of Community in Recovery:** Insights from my visit to Rainbow Hill Recovery and how my sober community helped me get through my insecurities in Los Angeles. 🤲
    - **Building Professional Fulfillment:** Joey discusses the growth and success of Rainbow Hill now being DHCS certified and their dedication to making recovery accessible to EVERYONE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
    - **Joey’s Sober Heroes:** Honoring individuals like Manny Rodriguez, whose authenticity helped pave the way for Joey and others in the recovery community. 🦸‍♂️
    - **Navigating Relationships At Work and At Home:** Exploring the delicate dynamics of relationships after addiction, emphasizing routine, communication, and mutual growth.🏣🏡
    - **And Much More! **

    **Where to Find Us:**
    - Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣
    - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡
    - Totally Sober 🔴
    - Joey’s IG 🟢
    - gAy A on IG 🟢
    - gAy A everywhere else 🖇️

    Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober!




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    Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)

    Grief & ADHD Sober ft. Andy (#188)

    In this episode, Sober Steve chats with our special guest, Andy, who bravely opens up about his journey to sobriety through grief and ADHD. Andy shares his struggles with alcohol, how he found his place within the queer community, and built a network of sober friends. Andy shares his challenges of traveling while sober, and the positive shifts in lifestyle that come with sobriety. You don't want to miss Andy's inspiring story and the valuable insights shared in this episode. 

    Steve then dives into the correlation between ADHD and addiction with some facts and stats that may surprise you! Do you have an ADHD diagnosis already? Or might you have ADHD and have not been diagnosed yet? If you are in recovery, your chances of this affecting you are higher than you might think!

    Connect with Andy on IG @andyalsop

    Connect with Steve everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve@SoberSteve.com

    Until next time, stay sober friends!

    Source for ADHD Mentions: https://www.addictions.com/blog/adhd-in-addiction-recovery-and-how-it-affects-people/


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    Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B

    Trans Figured in Sobriety ft. Brian B

    Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we delve into the inspiring story of Brian Belovitch, author of Transfigured. He is a resilient individual who has navigated through societal pressures, personal struggles, and the challenges of identity and sobriety. Brian also has the unique experience of transitioning from male to female in his youth, and then a transition back to male in sobriety.

    Join host Steve as he sits down with Brian to explore his transformation, his experiences and insights on sobriety, and his mission to carry a powerful message within the queer community. Together, they discuss navigating the complexities of reclaiming one's identity, the importance of asking for help, and the significance of embracing change. Get ready for a raw and empowering conversation you won't want to miss!

    Check out Brian's book, Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man, here: https://a.co/d/dEB7DrC

    Connect with Brian online: https://www.facebook.com/brian.belovitch1

    Connect with Steve and the podcast online everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve at steve@sobersteve.com

    Want more content? Head over to Patreon for bonus episodes and early releases at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast


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    Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V

    Success in Sobriety ft. Christopher V

    Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we dive into the inspiring journey of our guest, Christopher, a fragrance and skin care developer and fashion designer. He shares his experiences with sobriety, the challenges he faced, and the resilience he developed. From creating his own line of fragrances to navigating personal struggles, Christopher's story is one of strength and determination. 

    Our host, Steve, also discusses his own sobriety journey and the impact of joining a kickball league on his perception of team sports. Plus, we'll explore the importance of community support and the evolving perspectives on sobriety. 

    Check out Bloke NYC at www.blokenyc.com and find Christopher at https://www.facebook.com/chris.valiante

    Engage with Steve on the socials @gayapodcast, email him at steve@sobersteve.com or add him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/steven.bennet.90/

    Enjoy exclusive content and early access at over at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast
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    • 47 min
    Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work

    Creativity in Sobriety: Leo S on Being a Creative Sober and Uncomfortable Work

    Welcome back to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, where we celebrate sobriety, resilience, and creativity. 

    In today's episode, our host, Sober Steve, shares his personal journey of sobriety, reflecting on 1026 days of continuous sobriety and the approval of his workshop on overcoming shame and trauma in the context of sex and recovery for the Florida roundup. 

    We then dive into a captivating interview with the talented Leo S., who shares his 35-year sobriety journey intertwined with a successful music career and struggles with alcohol dependency and anxiety. Leo's story explores the themes of personal growth, artistic perseverance, and the power of giving back to the community. 

    From navigating uncomfortable conversations about race in creative work to the challenges of forgiveness and compassion in sobriety, Leo's wisdom and experience provide invaluable insights. 

    So sit back and get ready for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Leo S. on gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show.

    Want to connect with Leo? Visit https://leoschwartz.com/ or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/leo.schwartz.1

    Connect with Steve and the podcast everywhere @gayapodcast or by email at steve@sobersteve.com

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Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
44 Ratings

44 Ratings

adamlightfoot3 ,

Hooray for queer voices in recovery!

As a gay man trying to stay sober, I wanted to find LGBTQ+ specific resources, and I’m a big podcast guy so happened across GAyA and it was exactly what I was looking for!

Steve who created and hosts the show does a great job of giving his guests space to share their story and also posing questions to gain more insight.

I am currently 793 days sober and love listening to this show!

NeemaP ,

Great resource

Steve provides a valuable resource for individuals navigating both aspects of their identity, offering insights, support, and personal stories. The podcast's unique focus on the LGBTQ+ community and sobriety adds a meaningful perspective to the broader conversation.

CassidykJ ,

Great resource!

Gay A is a great resource for someone who is just beginning their sober journey or have been sober for years.
Steve really keeps you engaged!

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