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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.

Co-Parent Dilemmas Diane Dierks & Rick Voyles

    • Education
    • 4.8 • 59 Ratings

There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.

    S4.E39. Should Dad Hold On or Let Go of This Conflict?

    S4.E39. Should Dad Hold On or Let Go of This Conflict?

    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREJohn asks the all-important question, “Should I fight?” Diane & Rick break down the risks and benefits of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict. They explore the complexity of balancing children’s needs with parental rights and conclude that so much depends on the type and temperament of the other parent. S4.E34. is the show Diane refers to in this episode about how to decide where to set your boundaries regarding parenting plan...

    • 50 min
    S4.E38. An Alienated Father”s Message (on Mother’s Day)

    S4.E38. An Alienated Father”s Message (on Mother’s Day)

    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREDiane & Rick take a week off to spend time with their families, so today’s episode is featuring a new podcast created by a Co-Parent Dilemmas listener! Jack, the host, speaks poignantly about what he’s learned as an alienated dad and how he maintains a strong bond with his children, despite the mountain of obstacles his co-parent puts in their way. Even though it’s releasing on Mother’s Day, a parent is a parent, no matter the label...

    • 28 min
    S4.E37. Surviving the Psychopath: Evolving Your State of Mind

    S4.E37. Surviving the Psychopath: Evolving Your State of Mind

    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREHas the co-parent world gone absolutely crazy? In some ways, yes! Diane & Rick discuss the disturbing patterns they often see in their work, and hear about from listeners, that signal the need for an evolutionary change in thinking for those who suffer their co-parent’s psychopathic behaviors. The hosts discuss the importance of accepting the chronic toxicity, but addressing the acute moments of panic by finding out what children ne...

    • 37 min
    S4.E36. How You Say Goodbye Is A Big Deal

    S4.E36. How You Say Goodbye Is A Big Deal

    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREClaire writes in and asks what to do about a co-parent who takes more than 5 minutes to say goodbye to their daughter at each exchange. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of taking care during exchanges to send the message that parents will be okay, no matter which house the child WANT SPECIAL DISCOUNTS ON POPULAR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR CO-PARENTS? Check out our OFFERS page at www.CPDilemmas.com/offers to link t...

    • 38 min
    S4.E35. The Inconvenienced Parent

    S4.E35. The Inconvenienced Parent

    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREListener Amanda writes to Diane & Rick regarding her co-parent’s complaint about their daughter’s activities being too inconvenient for him and his spouse to endure. The hosts discuss the concept of time with children being the co-parents’ “turn” to be responsible, not their time to dominate the child’s interests. They also explore alternative language to their parenting plan regarding major decision making. WE HAVE A NEW RESO...

    • 33 min
    S4.E34. Caught in the Middle…Between My Ex and My Spouse!

    S4.E34. Caught in the Middle…Between My Ex and My Spouse!

    Have a quick question? Send us a text message! Click HEREListener Ashley is frustrated by both her husband and her co-parent. She frequently finds herself caught between them, and none of it is helpful to her 12-year-old son. Diane & Rick explore the difficulties of navigating this dilemma, and discuss both sides of the equation.WE HAVE A NEW RESOURCES PAGE ON THE WEBSITE! Visit www.CPDilemmas.com/resources to view the email protocol, 20 Responses to Difficult Co-Parents, and other ...

    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
59 Ratings

59 Ratings

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Essential Listening for Divorced Parents

This show is so unbelievably helpful. The answers to coparenting dilemmas are found in these episodes.

lgargala ,

Great advice and information!

As a child of divorce, I’ve enjoyed this show. I think their advice is spot-on and helps parents to keep their kids out of the middle. That is so important. Love both of the hosts as well!

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Helpful

Very helpful for dealing with different issues that arise with coparenting and narcissistic types

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