51 episodes

For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it.

How to Do It with Stoya and Rich Slate Podcasts

    • Health & Fitness
    • 3.6 • 94 Ratings

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For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want.

    My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want.

    This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.
    Mentioned in this episode:
    My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein
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    Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate here.
    Production by Chau Tu.
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    • 27 min
    My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend

    My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend

    Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.
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    Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!
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    • 13 min
    I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands

    I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands

    This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal.
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    Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!
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    • 24 min
    The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag

    The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes Me Gag

    This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who wonders what they can do to have a better experience giving oral sex, and they discuss a letter from a woman looking for advice on how to explain her specific dating needs. 
    Mentioned in this episode:
    Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor
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    Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!
    Production by Chau Tu.

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    • 26 min
    My Girlfriend Insisted I Have Sex With Another Man

    My Girlfriend Insisted I Have Sex With Another Man

    On this week’s second episode, exclusively for Slate Plus members, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man who wonders how to talk to his girlfriend about a possible change in his sexuality.
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    Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

    Production by Chau Tu.

    I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem

    I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem

    This week, Stoya and Rich advise a woman whose partner complains that she orgasms too quickly, and they discuss a letter from a woman who’s puzzled by why her boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex very often.
    Mentioned in this episode:
    So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex by Ian Kerner
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    Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!
    Production by Chau Tu.
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    • 24 min

Customer Reviews

3.6 out of 5
94 Ratings

94 Ratings

golgikanji ,

1.5 speed

Good show but consider covering 3 questions instead of 2. Too much repetition of points etc makes it seem you are stretching it out to fill time. I listen at 1.5 speed, which works.

I don't need anything ,

Absolute dregs

Bottom of the barrel. Go podcasting 2.0 !

cactusluver ,

Come back! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Come back!!!!

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