104 episodes

Living in a world of f******s, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

A Jaded Gay A Jaded Gay

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 27 Ratings

Living in a world of f******s, homophobes, and inequalities can leave a gay feeling, well, jaded, so tune in for your weekly dose of gay empowerment. We're talking pop culture, politics, and dating hardships, all through the lens of overcoming gay trauma and nurturing our emotional wellbeing.

    103. A Pulse Check on LGBTQ+ Healthcare (with Max Austin)

    103. A Pulse Check on LGBTQ+ Healthcare (with Max Austin)

    Healthcare promotes the wellbeing of individuals and fosters societal resilience by addressing health challenges, preventing diseases, and providing essential medical support. However, marginalized communities, such as the LGBTQ+ community, have historically encountered challenges in accessing inclusive healthcare, facing discrimination, stigmatization, and inadequate understanding of their unique health needs.In this episode, Max Austin, author of How Can We Be Wrong?, joins us to discuss hi...

    • 25 min
    102. Let's Normalize Being Single and Happy

    102. Let's Normalize Being Single and Happy

    Societal pressures surrounding marriage often fuel negative perceptions of being single, creating undue stress and stigma for those who haven't followed traditional relationship paths. Meanwhile, gay men may encounter challenges in forming healthy long-term relationships due to societal prejudices, lack of legal recognition, and historical marginalization, contributing to a higher prevalence of singlehood within the community.In this episode, we’re exploring the joys of embracing singlehood, ...

    • 21 min
    101. Sci-Fi: The Future is Queer (with TQ Sims)

    101. Sci-Fi: The Future is Queer (with TQ Sims)

    Inclusive representation in various literary genres offers LGBTQ+ people a sense of visibility, validation, and connection as they see their experiences authentically mirrored, which fosters a more affirming narrative for readers. One such genre, sci-fi, often serves as a creative and inclusive space, intertwining with queerness to explore diverse identities, relationships, and societal constructs beyond conventional norms.In this episode, TQ Sims, author of Godspeed, Lovers, joins us to disc...

    • 38 min
    100. Best Little Boys in the World: It's Time to Grow Up

    100. Best Little Boys in the World: It's Time to Grow Up

    Gay men often grapple with perfectionism, navigating societal expectations and internalized standards that can intensify the pursuit of an idealized self-image. Known as the Best Little Boy in the World archetype, some gay men overcompensate in certain aspects of their lives, such as their career, appearance, and other achievements, to deflect negative attention away from their sexuality.In this episode, we’re diving into the origins of the Best Little Boy in the World persona, examining rese...

    • 26 min
    99. Coming Out Later in Life (with Kevin O’ Connor)

    99. Coming Out Later in Life (with Kevin O’ Connor)

    In previous episodes, we discussed the importance of coming out, which is a deeply personal and pivotal moment for LGBTQ+ individuals. And while living openly can empower us to be our authentic selves, a number of complex factors can keep us in the closet.In this episode, author, public speaker, and former teacher Kevin O’Connor joins us to discuss his personal journey out of marriage to embrace his sexuality at 55 and live authentically as a gay man.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 77. Com...

    • 1 hr 15 min
    98. Dear Netflix: Stop Cancelling Our Queer Shows

    98. Dear Netflix: Stop Cancelling Our Queer Shows

    Today, authentic LGBTQ+ representation in TV is more important than ever since it reflects the community's diverse experiences, fosters a sense of inclusivity, challenges stereotypes, and provides meaningful representation that resonates with audiences to promote understanding and acceptance. However, in recent years, we’ve seen a trend where LGBTQ+ shows have been increasingly canceled, some after just one season, with Netflix being the biggest culprit.In this episode, we’re examining Netfli...

    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
27 Ratings

27 Ratings

MatiusDaninus ,

A Slightly Jaded Gay Review

First of all, I absolutely love Rob’s podcast! The range of topics he touches on in each episode are things that we within the LGBTQ+ community can benefit and learn from, especially our history that’s often overlooked by mainstream society. The well-being topics he discusses are relevant because we all have *trauma* that we don’t know we have, and they’ve helped me in my therapy sessions. Lastly, this podcast is awesome to feel more connected with the community if one lives in an area which doesn’t have a large LGBTQ+ population. I highly recommend this podcast!

godismydaddy ,

The Podcast Every LGBTQ Person Needs

Rob’s podcast has been a wonderful space for learning and conversation. The topics he discusses each week are thoroughly researched, insightful and provides a great opportunity for everyone to grow in their own knowledge and opinions.

This podcast is a great resource for everyone in the LGBTQ community wherever they are at on their journey. From history to current events and topics that are important to our community, Rob gives a wonderful presentation and provides a safe space for everyone.

Taos Artist ,

Thank you!

Rob creates a safe space with intimacy, vulnerability and authenticity for conversations about a spectrum of topics for gay men. I always feel like I’ve learned something after every episode!

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