36 episodes

Selective Mutism is a social communication anxiety disorder that can be incredibly difficult to navigate and often misunderstood. Fortunately, your host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum DO, has over 30 years of experience in understanding and treating Selective Mutism. This podcast serves to educate those who are struggling (or those who may know someone who is struggling) and to allow their words to be heard. Listen along for tips, strategies, and everything and anything selective mutism.

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

Unspoken Words: A Selective Mutism Podcast by Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum SMart Center

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 18 Ratings

Selective Mutism is a social communication anxiety disorder that can be incredibly difficult to navigate and often misunderstood. Fortunately, your host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum DO, has over 30 years of experience in understanding and treating Selective Mutism. This podcast serves to educate those who are struggling (or those who may know someone who is struggling) and to allow their words to be heard. Listen along for tips, strategies, and everything and anything selective mutism.

For all podcast inquiries please contact Dakota Hornak at dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org

    EP26 (Ask Dr. E): What to do when school-based accommodations aren't working

    EP26 (Ask Dr. E): What to do when school-based accommodations aren't working

    This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting (neweditionconsulting.co) 

    ⁠We Learn more about C&A⁠, our General Mental health Counseling & Assessments division



    In the latest installment of our Ask Dr. E series, we answer four listener questions; including whether or not the use of basic signs is good for a Selectively Mute child, to what to do when specific accommodations don’t seem to be working, to what to do when your child is scared to ask to go to the bathroom at school, and more. 



    Questions: 

    (2:39) I am a kindergarten teacher that uses basic signs with all my students, including my student with SM. Is this ok? 

    (9:56) Despite weekly lunch bunches, my child in pre-school hasn't seen much improvement. Do you have any recommendations on how do we get her past this stage? 

    (20:37) My child doesn’t feel comfortable asking to go to the bathroom in school, so he doesn't drink out of his water bottle. How do we handle this? 

    (26:37) Recommendations for ways to continue progressing during sessions now that the child's mom can no longer be present. 



    Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

    Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

    Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

    Get started at the SMart Center 

    Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 



    For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠

    • 35 min
    EP25: Treating SM & Autism w/ Dr. Vera Joffe

    EP25: Treating SM & Autism w/ Dr. Vera Joffe

    This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting (neweditionconsulting.co) 



    In the episode, Dr. E and autism expert, Dr. Vera Joffe, discuss the coexistence of SM and autism, the differentiation between the two, treatment considerations, school-based accommodations, and the importance of early screening for autism. 

    Timestamps: 

    (2:52) The link between SM and Autism 

    (16:36) “Sometimes, parents are in denial” 

    (23:00) The difference between an individual with SM and an individual with Autism 

    (34:39) Treatment considerations for Autism 

    (44:57) Findings from Dr. Joffe’s SM & Comorbidity study 

    (49:42) School-based accommodations for individuals with SM & Autism 



    Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

    Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

    Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

    Get started at the SMart Center 

    Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 

    Learn more about C&A, our General Mental health Counseling & Assessments division 



    For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

    • 55 min
    EP24: Navigating challenges in the classroom w/ School Professionals

    EP24: Navigating challenges in the classroom w/ School Professionals

    This episode offers valuable insights from Dr. E, Jen, and school professionals, James and Lindsey, on empowering students with selective mutism in the classroom. 

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    Timestamps: 

    (04:16) Student overcomes school anxiety with teacher support. 

    (06:57) Prepare and support children to ease transitions. 

    (11:01) Observe children and note behavior in class. 

    (16:00) Use songs and sounds to engage cat. 

    (18:03) Small groups or one-on-one aid progress. 

    (21:25) Encouraging verbal interactions to move to next stage. 

    (24:48) Be cautious of tallying for motivation. 

    (29:34) Student excels in independent projects, delivers eloquently. 

    (30:22) Fostering student engagement and growth in class. 

    (35:11) Preparing thoughts, sharing verbally, mastering social cues. 

    (39:06) Each child's unique needs require personalized approach. 

    (42:28) Focused support and communication helps student thrive. 

    (45:51) Guide parents on appropriate involvement in school. 

    (47:43) Parents need education on selective mutism support. 



    Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

    Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

    Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

    Get started at the SMart Center 

    Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 



    This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

    For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

    • 49 min
    EP23: Managing Anxiety w/ Lynn Lyons, LICSW

    EP23: Managing Anxiety w/ Lynn Lyons, LICSW

    This episode features a conversation between Dr. E and Lynn Lyons, LICSW. Dr. E and Lynn discuss how to balance parental intervention and accommodations to avoid the pitfalls of excessive worry and anxiety that could cripple a child's development. They emphasized the need for regular parental modeling, skill-building, and promoting flexibility rather than rigidity.

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    TOPICS: 

    (04:48) GENERATIONAL ANXIETY IS REAL 

    (09:41) PARENTS NEED TO BE INVOLVED IN THEIR KID'S TREATMENT, TOO 

    (16:15) HOW PARENTS CAN MANAGE THEIR OWN ANXIETY 

    (37:29) PARENTS NEED A SELF-CARE ROUTINE 

    (47:00) WHERE TO BEGIN IF YOU'RE AN ANXIOUS PARENT 



    MORE ON THIS EPISODE’S GUEST, LYNN LYONS: 

    Lynn travels internationally as a speaker and trainer on the subject of anxiety, its role in families, and the need for a preventative approach at home and in schools. She is a sought-after expert, appearing in the New York Times, Time, NPR, Psychology Today, Good Morning America, the Today Show and other media outlets. Lynn is a featured expert in the recent documentary Anxious Nation. 

    With a special interest in breaking the generational cycle of worry in families, Lynn is the author/coauthor of several books and articles on anxiety, including Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, and the companion book for kids, Playing with Anxiety: Casey’s Guide for Teens and Kids. Her latest book for adults and teenagers, The Anxiety Audit was released October ’22.  

    Lynn is the co-host of the popular podcast Flusterclux. 



    Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

    Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

    Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

    Get started at the SMart Center 

    Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 



    This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

    For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

    • 51 min
    EP22: Dr. E chats with parents about school accommodations, fostering independence, the need for a treatment plan, managing friendships & more

    EP22: Dr. E chats with parents about school accommodations, fostering independence, the need for a treatment plan, managing friendships & more

    This episode is a Live Chat with Parents, hosted by Dr. E and moderated by LisaMarie. This is a special recording focused on children ages nine to 12 with selective mutism. Three parents, Daphne, Edwin, and Julie, engage in conversation, sharing their experiences and asking Dr. E questions related to their children's specific circumstances.

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    Questions: 

    (3:40) HOW CAN I BE THE BEST ADVOCATE FOR MY DAUGHTER IN SCHOOL? WE ATTEND A PRIVATE SCHOOL. 

    (9:54) PUBLIC SCHOOL VS PRIVATE SCHOOL. WHICH IS MORE EFFECTIVE FOR A CHILD WITH SM? 

    (15:25) HANDLING THE MISCONCEPTION THAT KIDS WITH SM ARE DEFIANT OR NON-COMPLIANT 

    (26:19) HOW TO ENCOURAGE A YOUNG TEEN TO BE MORE OF AN ADVOCATE FOR THEMSELVES 

    (35:36) IF WE LIFT MY CHILD'S SM, IS THERE A CHANCE THAT IT'LL COME BACK? 

    (39:58) WAYS TO BUILD COMFORT IN SCHOOL AND SETTING IMPACTFUL IEP GOALS 

    (44:39) HOW TO REGAIN THE MOMENTUM AFTER A DIGRESSION 

    (49:00) WAYS TO MAINTAIN OLD FREINDSHIPS AS YOUR CHILD'S INTEREST GROW AND EVOLVE 

    (51:45) WOULD A MONTESSORI SCHOOL BE BENEFICIAL FOR MY CHILD?



    Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

    Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

    Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

    Get started at the SMart Center 

    Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 



    This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

    For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

    • 59 min
    EP21 (Ask Dr. E): Ways to get your child to speak in school, how to get past the verbal intermediary stage, when you should consider AAC devices or apps & more

    EP21 (Ask Dr. E): Ways to get your child to speak in school, how to get past the verbal intermediary stage, when you should consider AAC devices or apps & more

    In the latest installment of our Ask Dr E podcast series, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum answers five wide-ranging listeners questions relating to Selective Mutism. 

    Questions: 

    (1:45) WHAT TRAINING AND QUALIFICATIONS DO I NEED TO BEGIN TREATING INDIVIDUALS WITH SELECTIVE MUTISM? 

    (7:17) MY SEVEN YEAR OLD SON DOESN’T SPEAK IN SCHOOL. ANY SUGGESSTIONS? 

    (1:18) HOW DO I GET MY CHILD PAST THE VERBAL INTERMEDIARY STAGE?  

    (9:17) WHEN SHOULD WE USE AAC DEVICES OR APPS IN TREATMENT? 

    (28:01) HOW DO WE GET OUR CHILD TO STOP WEARING THEIR MASK AT SCHOOL? 



    Ask Dr. E a question of your own! 

    Learn more about the host, Dr. Elisa Shipon-Blum 

    Explore our SMart Center success stories! 

    Get started at the SMart Center 

    Listen to other episodes of Unspoken Words here. 



    This podcast was produced by New Edition Consulting 

    For all podcast inquiries, please contact Dakota Hornak at ⁠dhornak@selectivemutismcenter.org⁠ 

    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
18 Ratings

18 Ratings

sfk vegas ,

Attended communicamp

We attended Communicamp summer ‘23 with my 9 yo daughter. We’re also in NV where services are lacking. I don’t know how we would have started/gotten through the school year. We are working closely w/teachers, speech therapy, psychologist. We added accommodations to her IEP. I continue to listen to Dr. E’s podcasts. Dr. E’s family approach is essential. As parents we use the tools we learned at Communicamp daily.

Pickin_My_Pockets ,

I am very grateful to Dr. E!

I’m revising my daughter’s IEP which requires me to regroup (& improve) all the information I’ve provided annually. I’m so happy that you now have content in my favorite platform, a podcast. It’s unfortunate that such a common disorder is treated like it’s so rare. Or that evidence based treatment couldn’t be found in Nevada. YET, I couldn’t be more grateful for Elisa dedicating her career to children like our daughters.

jsbdoen ,

So helpful

This is my favorite pod bc the hosts and guests break down the complex concepts into really easy bits and strategies to understand

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