In Bed with Koaty & Sumner

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In Bed with Koaty & Sumner

Join adult influencers and reality TV personalities Koaty & Sumner as they explore the world of love, dating, and relationships from a reality and adult film world point of view. So take off your clothes, it’s time to get in bed with the duo that does more than each other. 

Episodes

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    11 Collabs in 7 Days, Koatys First Content House!

    Season 2 of In Bed with Koaty & Sum kicks off with a bang! We’re diving into one of the wildest, most productive weeks Koaty has ever had! For seven days leading up to the GAYVN Awards in Las Vegas, he stayed in a content house with some of the biggest OnlyFans creators—all set up by his agent. His goal? To film 11 collabs. But, of course, things didn’t always go as planned. Sumner, who does do studio porn, is full of questions as he gets all the details about what it was really like—how Koaty scheduled everything, the unexpected challenges, and even the days when he managed to film three scenes in a row. From the chaos of coordinating collabs to the reality of living in a house full of adult creators, we’re breaking it all down. If you’ve ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes of a packed week like this, you won’t want to miss this one. And trust us—there’s plenty more coming soon!

    26 min

  2. 12/11/2024

    Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship

    In this episode, we dive into the topic of physical intimacy and how it plays a crucial role in our relationship. We open up about how often we need it, the highs and lows of our sex drives, and how we’ve learned to balance and meet each other’s needs. We also get real about the challenges—what happens when one of us feels like it’s not enough or when the dynamic starts to feel one-sided. Join us for an honest and vulnerable conversation about keeping the connection strong and the passion alive.

    17 min

  3. 11/27/2024

    Bottoming Should Be Fun

    On this episode, the couple dives deep into the art of maximizing your experience as a bottom. From preparation tips and mindset shifts to their favorite techniques for enhancing pleasure, they share honest, uncensored advice based on their own experiences. They also discuss how communication, trust, and self-awareness can elevate your confidence in the bedroom, ensuring every moment feels empowering and satisfying. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or exploring for the first time, Koaty and Sumner provide practical, relatable insights to help you take your bottoming game to the next level.

    21 min

  4. 11/20/2024

    How Doing SeanCody Affected Our Relationship

    In this episode, Koaty and Sumner dive into the complexities of life as a gay couple in the spotlight. They discuss navigating the highs and lows of being a social media duo, their experiences filming threesomes and exploring studio adult content with SeanCody, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional dynamics. Reflecting on their hardest year together, they open up about mental health struggles and the steps they’ve taken to strengthen their relationship, offering an intimate look at love, resilience, and growth.

    29 min

  5. 11/13/2024

    Erectile Dysfunction: Myths, Causes & Real Talk on Aging & Intimacy

    Hey everyone, it’s Koaty and Sumner, and on this episode, we’re getting real (and a little cheeky) about something that affects way more people than you’d think: erectile dysfunction! We’re diving into ED myths, true-or-false games, and some fun facts that you probably haven’t heard before. Whether you’re curious, concerned, or just here for the laughs, we’ve got you covered with a mix of humor and honesty as we tackle the reality of ED at any age. We discuss everything from the surprising causes of ED (spoiler alert: it’s not just about age!) to ways to keep the spark alive even when things don’t go as planned. You’ll hear our take on physical vs. mental causes of ED, the stigma that still surrounds it, and why a little humor can go a long way in handling those awkward moments. Plus, we’ve got a true-or-false quiz that’ll surprise you with some strange but true ED facts—like whether or not tight underwear or bad sleep habits really make a difference. So grab your partner (or your earbuds!) and join us as we unpack erectile dysfunction in a way that’s open, fun, and totally judgment-free. From how lifestyle changes impact sexual health to the importance of communication and confidence, we’re covering it all right here, in bed, with Koaty and Sumner. Whether you’re just curious or looking for ways to support someone, this episode will have you laughing, learning, and seeing ED in a whole new light. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if you enjoyed it!

    30 min

  6. 11/06/2024

    How We Chose the Perfect Wedding Venue

    We are beyond excited to share that we’ve officially chosen Villa de Amore as the perfect venue for our wedding! In this video, we’re taking you inside our wedding planning process as a gay couple, sharing all the details about why this venue spoke to us and how we’re organizing every step to create our dream LGBTQ+ wedding. If you’re looking for wedding tips or need help managing wedding stress, this is the video for you! From choosing wedding decor and deciding on non-negotiables for our special day to figuring out how to balance wedding traditions with modern wedding ideas, we’re diving into every aspect of making this day unique. We’ll talk about how we’re preparing for potential surprises, dividing up the tasks, and keeping our vision clear amidst the challenges of wedding organization. Planning a wedding can be stressful, but we’re here to show you how we’ve made it a fun and personal experience that reflects our personalities. Whether you’re planning a destination wedding, looking for wedding inspiration as a couple, or just interested in following our wedding journey, this video will give you all the behind-the-scenes action! Get ready to hear our take on everything from wedding day preparation to crafting personalized wedding details, and balancing the excitement with the occasional wedding stress management. If you’re planning a gay wedding or just love watching wedding vlogs, be sure to tune in! Send us your own unique wedding ideas and suggestions in the comments, and let’s celebrate this exciting chapter together!

    35 min

  7. 10/23/2024

    Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy

    We’re Koaty and Sumner Blayne, a gay couple engaged and building our dream life together. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequently asked questions we get—how do we make an ‘open-ish’ relationship work? For us, the answer is simple: we’re emotionally monogamous but sexually open. We’ve figured out how to maintain deep love and trust while embracing freedom and exploration. Being in the adult industry and managing our relationship means navigating a unique dynamic that works perfectly for us. We’ve been through the ups and downs of figuring out boundaries, handling jealousy, and prioritizing emotional connection. This episode gives you an honest look at how we balance our sexual openness while keeping our emotional foundation strong. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy or just want to know more about how we live our lives, we’re answering all your burning questions and sharing our biggest tips for anyone considering an open relationship. Come join us for this raw and real discussion about love, sex, trust, and everything in between.

    31 min

  8. 10/16/2024

    DeBunking Stigmas About Gay Porn Stars

    In this episode, we’re diving into some of the biggest stigmas surrounding the porn industry that we’ve faced personally. There’s a lot of misunderstanding and judgment out there, and we want to set the record straight. From misconceptions about relationships and intimacy to the stereotypes people still cling to, we’re here to share our experiences and shed some light on what it’s really like. It’s an honest conversation about the realities of our work and the stigma that comes with it. If there’s a stigma you’re curious about, drop it in the comments—we’d love to talk about it!

    13 min

  9. 10/09/2024

    Inside Open Relationships: Gay vs. Straight in the Adult Industry – Real Talk with Kazumi & Reggie

    In this episode, Koaty and Sumner sit down with Kazumi and her boyfriend Reggie to dive deep into the dynamics of open relationships, comparing the experiences of gay vs straight couples. We explore how navigating an open relationship intersects with working in the adult content industry, sharing our own stories and tips on maintaining trust, boundaries, and communication. Whether you're curious about polyamory, open relationships, or the realities of being in adult entertainment, this candid conversation will give you an inside look into the challenges and rewards.

    37 min

  10. 09/27/2024

    Hooking up with a 3rd vs a Couple, Jealousy Vs Envy

    In this episode, we dive into the fun and sometimes complex dynamics of our open relationship, sharing whether we prefer hooking up with a third person or exploring with other couples. While bringing others into our relationship has always been part of the excitement, we reveal our personal preferences and how they shape our experiences together. Unexpectedly, we also open up about moments of jealousy and envy, which is something we've rarely talked about before. For the first time, Koaty hears me share some of my own insecurities, leading to a vulnerable and intimate conversation between the two of us. It’s a raw and honest look into how we handle these emotions while maintaining our bond.

    10 min

  11. 09/27/2024

    Dealing with Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom

    In this episode, we open up about our own experiences with performance anxiety in the bedroom, especially during those one-night stands and small flings from our past. We've both felt the pressure to perform, and we think it's time to normalize talking about it. By sharing these moments, we want to show that performance anxiety is more common than people realize and that it's okay to talk about your vulnerabilities. For us, it's not always about performance; sometimes, you're just seeking a genuine connection. We discuss how being present and feeling understood can be more important than focusing on the act itself. We hope that by sharing our stories, we can help break the stigma and remind everyone that it's okay to prioritize emotional connection over any pressure to perform. Like, share, and subscribe!

    13 min
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Join adult influencers and reality TV personalities Koaty & Sumner as they explore the world of love, dating, and relationships from a reality and adult film world point of view. So take off your clothes, it’s time to get in bed with the duo that does more than each other. 

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  • Creator
    UBNGO Podcast Studio
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright UBNGO Podcast Studio
  • Show Website
    In Bed with Koaty & Sumner

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