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It's My Pleasure is a podcast devoted to empowering and equipping listeners to enjoy mind-blowing sexuality, hosted by Danielle Savory. As a master coach and sexual mindset maven, Danielle helps ambitious, make sh*t happen women maximize their pleasure potential and unlock more awareness, creativity and energy in every area of their life. With relatable stories, cutting-edge research in neuroscience and psychology, practical inquiries and mindfulness based skills, Danielle will show you how to overcome whatever is keeping you from your pleasure potential and enjoy its many rewards.

It's My Pleasure Danielle Savory

    • Sexuality
    • 4.8 • 78 Ratings

It's My Pleasure is a podcast devoted to empowering and equipping listeners to enjoy mind-blowing sexuality, hosted by Danielle Savory. As a master coach and sexual mindset maven, Danielle helps ambitious, make sh*t happen women maximize their pleasure potential and unlock more awareness, creativity and energy in every area of their life. With relatable stories, cutting-edge research in neuroscience and psychology, practical inquiries and mindfulness based skills, Danielle will show you how to overcome whatever is keeping you from your pleasure potential and enjoy its many rewards.

    Ep. 81: Squeezing Sex into a Busy Life

    Ep. 81: Squeezing Sex into a Busy Life

    Today’s topic may seem similar to things we’ve talked about in previous episodes, but I really wanted to simply talk about flipping the narrative about how we look at pleasure in general. So many of my clients and podcast listeners come to me to figure out how to make time in their life for pleasure and how they can squeeze in their sex life into their day. But what if instead of trying to fit it into our lives, we made sex and pleasure the goal to begin with?







    Topics in this episode







    The socialization of hustle cultureThe expectation and glorification of doing it allWhy we feel compelled to take on extra burdens and tasksThe cost of doing it all, and how that impacts our pleasureSex and pleasure aren’t things to wait for







    It has been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. I hope this episode has given you food for thought about what it would look like for you to really flip the narrative and focus on pleasure, and letting that be the focus that supports everything else around you.

    • 22 min
    Ep. 80: Creating Momentum

    Ep. 80: Creating Momentum

    I talk to a lot of women every week, and one of the main things I hear is the idea that they don’t know where to get started. When you think about taking on your sex life and creating the result of having a pleasurable sex life, it can totally feel overwhelming. This feeling of overwhelm causes our brains to shut down, and we don’t even know where or how to get started. In this episode, I share with you the tools to break down this huge undertaking and walk you through step-by-step with specific examples of how you can create momentum and become a turned-on woman. 







    Topics in this episode







    The indicators that your sex life may not be creating the result of you being a turned-on womanWhat causes us to shut downPause and examine the elementsHave a vision and know what you’re going towardsUnderstanding that pleasure is possible for youPrevious episode, 6 Skills Needed for Better Sex: https://daniellesavory.com/77-6-skills-needed-for-better-sex/The difference between: “What can I do to make my sex life better?” And, “What actionable step can I take in this one area?” 







    It has been my absolute pleasure sharing this with you today. I hope this episode helps you find more pleasure. When you’re looking at everything as being this one huge overwhelming problem to be solved, your brain and your body wil shut down. Give yourself the gift of being a project manager. Break it down into one chunk, and break that down into a smaller size until you get down to a bite-size piece of one specific thing you can focus on tonight to move your sex life forward. Over time, the more that we work on one thought, behavior, or action, the more it will compound and create the result of you becoming a pleasured woman.

    • 27 min
    Ep. 79: Resisting Sex

    Ep. 79: Resisting Sex

    I was talking with a woman the other day and she told me she has had an amazing sex life before. She has felt sexually alive in her body. She also told me that for a variety of reasons, she just doesn’t feel like that person anymore. She feels disconnected from her past-self, but she knows that it can be better again. This conversation is an example of what I’m calling the “pedestal effect”, putting a past version or a future version of yourself, and what is possible for you, on a pedestal. In this episode, I share with you why this can be a problem, and how to look at your current state and the current level of happiness with your sex life with love and appreciation, and why that is so important to taking it to the next level. 







    Topics in this episode







    When we put others, or other verions of ourselves, on a pedestal, we automatically see ourselves as less-thanHow you’re inadvertently rejecting yourself right nowAllowing yourself to look into the future with curiosity and possibilityWe can’t change reality by being frustrated with it When you think about your frustrations with your sexuality, how does it feel in your body? Coming to a place that what you have right now is good enough Being excited about the future of where you can go in your sex life 







    As always, it has been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. I love sharing this reflection about when we’re comparing ourselves to our past or our future, and how to step into not really seeing ourselves as less-than, or rejecting who you are right now, but truly finding acceptance and love, so that you can lean more into pleasure and really grow from this place.

    • 33 min
    Ep. 78: Sex Life on a Pedestal

    Ep. 78: Sex Life on a Pedestal

    I was talking with a woman the other day and she told me she has had an amazing sex life before. She has felt sexually alive in her body. She also told me that for a variety of reasons, she just doesn’t feel like that person anymore. She feels disconnected from her past-self, but she knows that it can be better again. This conversation is an example of what I’m calling the “pedestal effect”, putting a past version or a future version of yourself, and what is possible for you, on a pedestal. In this episode, I share with you why this can be a problem, and how to look at your current state and the current level of happiness with your sex life with love and appreciation, and why that is so important to taking it to the next level. 







    Topics in this episode







    When we put others, or other verions of ourselves, on a pedestal, we automatically see ourselves as less-thanHow you’re inadvertently rejecting yourself right nowAllowing yourself to look into the future with curiosity and possibilityWe can’t change reality by being frustrated with it When you think about your frustrations with your sexuality, how does it feel in your body? Coming to a place that what you have right now is good enough Being excited about the future of where you can go in your sex life 







    As always, it has been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. I love sharing this reflection about when we’re comparing ourselves to our past or our future, and how to step into not really seeing ourselves as less-than, or rejecting who you are right now, but truly finding acceptance and love, so that you can lean more into pleasure and really grow from this place.

    • 34 min
    Ep. 77: 6 Skills Needed For Better Sex

    Ep. 77: 6 Skills Needed For Better Sex

    In this episode, I wanted to share with you the six skills to practice for better sex. This is the foundation for the work I do with my clients, and they are the key to unlocking pleasure, pleasurable sex, and for being a pleasured woman. With these skills, you will be able to connect with your body, give yourself grace, and make incremental changes so that over time, your sex, and your life, keeps getting better and better. 







    These skills are part of the foundational work we do in my group coaching experience, Better Sex in 90 Days, starting September 17th. If you’re on the fence at all, I encourage you to fill out an application and hop on the phone with me. This work changes your life. This isn’t to be waited on as something to do later. The longer we wait to make this a priority and don’t work on practicing these skills, is time that we are just letting life happen to us. This is the shit that matters most. To learn more and to apply, email me at daniellesavorycoaching@gmail.com or go to https://daniellesavory.com/group/







    Topics in this episode







    The 6 Skills to Practice for Better Sex1. You have to believe in pleasure in general, and sexual pleasure2. Practice having a playful presence. 3. Focus the brain4. Develop sensual awareness5. Processing emotions6. Sex assessmentsIf you don’t believe that pleasure is possible, you’re cutting yourself off from being able to access itPassion versus arousal Emotions as physical sensationsProcessing versus indulging your emotions 







    As always it’s been my absolute pleasure being with you, and I hope that you’ll take these skills and practice them, either on your own or with us in Better Sex in 90 Days. There’s nowhere in these skills that relate to spicing things up. I don’t talk about new positions, toys, or finding your G-spot, because none of that stuff really matters unless all these other skills are practiced and worked on. These are the foundational skills that are needed for pleasurable sex, and with these skills, you’ll be able to create a better connection and a pleasurable sex life.

    • 35 min
    Ep. 76: It’s Not Them, It’s You

    Ep. 76: It’s Not Them, It’s You

    A common misconception that the reason we’re not having orgasmic sex is because of our partner, or our children, or something else that is standing in the way. So many women truly feel that if things were different in their relationships, then they would be able to have better sex and it would be more attainable for them. In this episode, I explore some of these excuses and share with you why it’s not them, it’s you, and that instead of feeling guilt or shame, this is a powerful step in taking back control of your sexuality. We have to reprogram our brains on how it comes to thinking about your partner, yourself, and your sex life, in order to create the environment for pleasure, and that is what empowerment is all about. 







    This is the exact work I do with my clients all of the time, because it’s about creating a process and a skill set so that you are changing who you are being as a woman. You become a turned-on woman. You become an orgasmic woman. You become a woman who actually wants sex more. This is possible for you too. To be a part of my group coaching experience, Better Sex in 90 Days, go to: https://daniellesavory.com/group







    Topics in this episode







    Masterclass, The Orgasmic Sex Playbook: https://better-sex-in-90-days-with-danielle-savory.mykajabi.com/Orgasmic-Sex-PlaybookThe partner problemThe excuses, that aren’t actually the problemEven if all of that stuff changed, it doesn’t mean that who you are as a woman has changed The brain will find something else to think about so that it still feels pressure and shame when it comes to sexLooking at the emotions that come up around sexYou have the power to change you. It’s super easy to blame somebody else. But at the end of the day, it doesn’t make you feel in control







    As always it’s been my absolute pleasure to be with you today. I can’t wait for you to start seeing the shifts of where you’re blaming your partner, and instead, taking on the responsibility that this is actually about you. You have the ability to become a turned-on woman. It is the most empowering and freeing thing that you can believe about your sex life.

    • 34 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
78 Ratings

78 Ratings

EJLedford ,

This podcast has changed my life

I can’t sing Danielle Savory’s praises enough! I have been in a relationship for 17 years. Danielle and this podcast is responsible for resuscitating our sex life. I LOVE the “nerdy” parts when she really gets into the brain aspect. It’s a podcast about sex, but MOSTLY it’s a podcast about our brains and lives.

Betsy Jensen ,

You had me at Neuroscience! And Pleasure!

I am fascinated with the brain and a big fan of sex, so Danielle’s podcast is a perfect fit for me.
I love the mindshift she provides.
Even though I consider myself quite sexually open, I think some programming from my religious upbringing has kept me from being sexually empowered. But this podcast is helping me find these old limiting beliefs and root them out.
I am a big believer in the importance of sexual energy for vitality and prosperity. So huge thank you to Danielle on this podcast for helping me cultivate that power! Thought work is already a big part of my life so her podcast aligns perfectly with what I already believe.
I love it!!!

Mcbdale ,

Every woman needs to hear this 💚

Danielle is so warm and easy to hear this info from. I’ve felt so much shame around not wanting sex and avoiding it. Hearing Danielle talk so warm and kindly AND helping me is like the perfect combination. Thank you! 💚

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