4 episodes

Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!

Pillow Talks Vanessa & Xander Marin

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 191 Ratings

Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!

    Should Sex Happen Naturally?

    Should Sex Happen Naturally?

    Should sex happen naturally?
    This is one of the most common questions we get asked, and it can cause some serious tension in relationships. You may want to work on improving your sex life or making changes, but your partner refuses because they think it should just happen naturally. 
    In this episode, we're going to uncover the truth about how sex really works in a long-term relationship. We think you’re going to be pretty surprised...
    Get full show notes and resources mentioned in this episode here: www.vmtherapy.com/episode3
     
    GIVEAWAY ALERT!
    If you leave us a review on Apple Podcasts before June 20 and we'll enter your name into a drawing to win any one of our courses for free! That’s up to a $1,000 value! 
    (Just make sure to take a screenshot of your review and DM it to us at @vanessamarintherapy. Apple doesn’t like to show every review, so we want to make sure you get added to the giveaway.)
    Thank you in advance for taking the time to leave us a quick review!
     
    If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

    • 39 min
    Can You Actually Solve Problems In Your Relationship?

    Can You Actually Solve Problems In Your Relationship?

    Has this phrase ever been uttered in your home: “We’ve talked about this a million times before”?
    So many of the arguments we get into with our partners are different versions of the same argument we've already had. And it can feel exhausting and demoralizing to keep having the same conflict over and over. 
    In today’s episode, we’re introducing you to the concept of unresolvable conflict. According to research, 69% of conflicts in long-term relationships are unresolvable.
    What does that even mean? And what are you supposed to do if you can’t resolve a conflict? Tune in to find out!
    Get full show notes and resources mentioned in this episode here: www.vmtherapy.com/episode2
     
    GIVEAWAY ALERT!
    If you leave us a review on Apple Podcasts before June 20 and we'll enter your name into a drawing to win any one of our courses for free! That’s up to a $1,000 value! 
    (Just make sure to take a screenshot of your review and DM it to us at @vanessamarintherapy. Apple doesn’t like to show every review, so we want to make sure you get added to the giveaway.)
    Thank you in advance for taking the time to leave us a quick review!
     
    If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

    • 50 min
    The Secret To Hot Sex? Talking About It!

    The Secret To Hot Sex? Talking About It!

    How comfortable are you talking about sex with your partner? If you’re like most people, your face is already bright red! You need to be able to talk about sex if you want to have an extraordinary sex life.
    So to kick off the Pillow Talks podcast, we’ve got your back with a step-by-step process for talking about sex in your relationship - even if you never have before. 
    In this episode, we’ll walk you through five steps you need to take to get comfortable talking about sex. We’ll share funny stories of our own communication mishaps, and give you the courage to open up! 
    Get full show notes and resources mentioned in this episode here: www.vmtherapy.com/episode1
     
    GIVEAWAY ALERT!
    If you leave us a review on Apple Podcasts before June 20 and we'll enter your name into a drawing to win any one of our courses for free! That’s up to a $1,000 value! 
    (Just make sure to take a screenshot of your review and DM it to us at @vanessamarintherapy. Apple doesn’t like to show every review, so we want to make sure you get added to the giveaway.)
    Thank you in advance for taking the time to leave us a quick review!
     
    If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

    • 36 min
    Welcome to the Pillow Talks Podcast with Vanessa + Xander

    Welcome to the Pillow Talks Podcast with Vanessa + Xander

    Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!
    Whether you’re looking to learn how to orgasm, skyrocket your confidence, or rekindle the spark with your partner, Vanessa & Xander can help you identify and overcome your blockages around, and learn how to have more fun in the bedroom. Head over to vmtherapy.com

    • 3 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
191 Ratings

191 Ratings

kiru3 ,

Feel more optimistic already!

Recently found Vanessa and Xander on Instagram and just listened to the first episode of the podcast. My marriage has always been rocky, and stress/awkwardness about sex is at the core of that. Their tips, conversations, and insights already have me feeling more hopeful that we can change that before it’s too late. They have a lot of good info but present it in a very friendly, laidback way. Much less stuffy or uncomfortable than some other resources I’ve tried!

kgistheboss ,

Love Vanessa and Xander!

Really enjoy listening to these two! Their Instagram account has been one of my favs for a while now.

lgagne89 ,

Love this!!!

Vanessa and Xander give the best advice on how to keep your sex life alive! If you’re going through a rut this is the podcast for you! We all need to spice it up once in awhile!

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