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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast Kuldrin Entertainment LLC

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    • 4.6 • 49 Ratings

With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

    When Shouldn't You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36

    When Shouldn't You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36

    Recorded: 3/14/2021

    - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also known as a scene or scening.

    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “When Shouldn't You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36”
    As we go through these remember:
    - Mayfair and I are NOT licensed mental health professionals as this is a psychology heavy episode.
    - Both Kuldrin and Mayfair have personal experience with several different types of mental illnesses and treat this topic with the utmost respect.
    - This is not a complete list and these are not the only reasons not to play.
    - Some of these are and others are not absolute reasons to play or not to play.

    - Physical Health Issues: Diabetes, Blood Pressure, M.S., Blood Clotting Issues, Fibromyalgia, Strokes, Breathing issues, ...

    - Mental Health Issues:

    - Anxiety disorders, Behavioural and emotional disorders in children, Bipolar affective disorder, Depression, Dissociation and dissociative disorders, Eating disorders, Obsessive-compulsive disorder, Paranoia, Post-traumatic stress disorder, Psychosis, and Schizophrenia https://kuldrinskrypt.com/MentalHealthDisorders

    - Personality Disorders listed in the DSM-V https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PersonalityDisorders:
    Paranoid, schizoid, schizotypal, antisocial, borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, avoidant, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive

    - Mood Disorders: Major Depression, Mania, Seasonal Affective Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia,

    - Personality Vs Mood: The key difference between personality and mood disorders are the symptom patterns they cause. The main feature of mood disorders is periods of emotional highs and/or lows. Some personality disorders can cause mood swings, but this isn't the main symptom of personality disorders. (https://www.promisesbehavioralhealth.com/addiction-recovery-blog/difference-between-personality-disorder-and-mood-disorder/)

    - Intoxication: Alcohol, Drugs, Top/Dom/bottom/sub/primal Space

    - Anger, Resentment, and Guilt! OH MY!!!

    - Concern about losing control.

    - A lack of communication.

    - You don’t want to play.

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/336
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic

    Show Producers:
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
    - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
    - Master Producer ($50/month):
    - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and...

    • 1 hr 24 min
    Nevada's 2021 BDSM Sexual Assault Trial-S03E35

    Nevada's 2021 BDSM Sexual Assault Trial-S03E35

    Recorded: 3/7/2021

    - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have to talk about a few hot button issues that are bouncing around right now because of a Nevada court case currently taking place. Some of those topics are victim-blaming, buyer’s remorse, BDSM and the law, and if we have time relationship contracts.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “Nevada's BDSM Sexual Assualt Trial-S03E35”
    “Sex assault trial gets underway in Nevada County courtroom”
    - By Liz Kellar (Staff Writer), February 17, 2021
    -https://www.theunion.com/news/sex-assault-trial-gets-underway-in-nevada-county-courtroom/

    - The issue of consent — and whether a BDSM contract was enforced under duress — was the crux of the arguments of both prosecution and defense as the sexual assault trial of a 62-year-old man began Wednesday in Nevada County Superior Court.

    Wesley Carl Panighetti is facing felony charges of sodomy by use of force, forcible oral copulation, criminal threats, first-degree burglary and dissuading a witness, as well as one misdemeanor count of battery, Nevada County Superior Court records state.
    Panighetti has pleaded not guilty.

    Deputy District Attorney Helenaz Moteabbed Hill told the jury Panighetti and the victim had an on-again, off-again relationship riddled with abuse for 20 years.

    “This is a case about manipulation,” Hill said, adding that Panighetti had taken advantage of the victim’s naïveté and vulnerability and got what he wanted through menace and fear. His victim, Hill said, finally stood up for herself and put an end to the terror.

    According to Hill, a BDSM relationship — bondage, domination, sadomasochism — can exist with the consent of both parties, but that requires that both are playing “freely and voluntarily” on the same field. That was not the case between Panighetti and the victim, whose name was not used during the trial, she said.

    “He wants to claim consent existed through a legally valid contract,” Hill said. “She naively believed contact was binding simply because a notary signed off on it.”
    While Hill detailed some of the abuse sustained in years past — which led to several arrests and a prior prison sentence — Hill said the charged offenses all relate to three incidents that took place in May and June 2020, in which Panighetti is alleged to have sexually assaulted the victim, strangled her multiple times and threatened to kill her.

    The relationship was consensual and on occasion had been initiated or reinstated by the victim, said Panighetti’s attorney, Paul Comiskey. Comiskey cited the gaps in their involvement and the fact that the victim knew contact with Panighetti after his release from prison violated his parole terms.

    According to Comiskey, the victim had told Panighetti their contract was still valid, even after speaking to an attorney, and that implied her consent to the contract. And if that didn’t constitute consent on her part, he argued, Panighetti had a “good faith belief” there was consent to engage in a BDSM relationship.

    “Keep an open mind,” he urged the jury.

    The trial will resume today. Panighetti remained in custody Wednesday on a $750,000 bond.
    Victim-blaming: When the victim of a crime or any wrongful act is held entirely or partially at fault for the harm that befell them. (Wikipedia.com)
    Buyer’s remorse: The sense of regret one feels after having made a purchase.br...

    • 1 hr 22 min
    Dominant submissives and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34

    Dominant submissives and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34

    Recorded: 2/28/2021 / Published: 10/11/2021

    - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have a live Q&A session about anything and everything BDS, sex, and relationships. Plus, today is the day that two people that filled out the podcast survey will each be winning a $25 Amazon gift card!

    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “Dominant, submissives, and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34”
    - Questions:
    - babylove&Sir: What do you wish new people would ask you?
    What’s the most common question people ask?
    - Alley Hoops: Mayfair, what is a journal topic that you found very useful for understanding the dynamic you were entering?
    - Art Kitten: in one of my groups on fetlife, a Domme posted about her frustrations with submissives who give her a grocery list of what they want like she's supposed to grant their wishes.what do you think contributes to this? lack of education? just plain selfish?
    - LOWBTP1128: what are good questions to ask a new play partner?
    - Haliyi Waya: has anyone asked how to avoid burnout or fatigue
    - Lily Chaos: I have a question. For newer people just going to events that haven’t really had a chance to meet many people, what’s a good way to find people when their looking to scene at an event their attending
    - The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: I arrived a few minutes late. Have you explained contracts?
    - Atsila: sorry to revisit... still wondering how Kuldrin feels about Doms* removing collars, or withholding as punishment. (did I miss his reply to that part earlier?)
    The Play Space: BDSM for Short Attention Spans: Are there things that you think EVERYONE should have in their toy box and aftercare kit?

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/334
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic

    Show Producers:
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
    - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
    - Master Producer ($50/month):
    - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
    - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
    - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
    - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa
    Become a show producer:...

    • 1 hr 1 min
    What you need to know about BDSM with CurtainCall-S03E33

    What you need to know about BDSM with CurtainCall-S03E33

    Recorded: 2/21/2021 / Published: 10/04/2021

    - In this episode of The Krypt I am joined by a fellow lifestyle veteran and new YouTuber to discuss what you need to know about BDSM.
    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    -  “What you need to know about BDSM with CurtainCall-S03E33”
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/CurtainCall 
    is a long-time BDSM educator, munch leader, and a new YouTuber with a truly unique delivery. He is a mentor, a protector, and a friend to many. Please join us as The Krypt welcomes him into the YouTube space, learn the lessons he has to teach, and help him grow his channel to reach more people.

    - Ten Licks (Rapid Fire)
    1. How long have been into Kink?
    2. Top, bottom, or switch?  
    3. Relationship Status?  
    4. Dom, sub, or switch?  
    5. Favorite Implement?
    6. Favorite Roleplay?  
    7. Favorite kink or fetish?
    8. Favorite place for kink?  
    9. Strangest Place you've had sex?
    10. Something kinky on your bucket list?

    - Briefly: 
    Why did you decide to jump into producing BDSM content on YouTube?
    Where did you “cut your teeth”?

    - For you, what is BDSM?
    - Let’s talk about some of your episodes:
    “Top Red Flags”
    “Vetting”
    “Identity”
    “Aftercare”
    “Should You Have a Fetlife Account”
    “Why Can’t I Find a Dominant”
    “Are You Doing it Wrong? The One True Way.”
    - Where do you want your channel to go?
    - What is that one piece of advice you tell every person?

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/333
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 

    Show Producers:
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
    - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
    - Master Producer ($50/month): 
    - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
    - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, BxB, and Saviy
    - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Lily, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove,  Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, BoundHydrangea, Gator, Gizmo, and Ataleena
    - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, and Lexa

    Become a show producer:
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
    a href="https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal"...

    • 1 hr 37 min
    Abuse of Power and Authority in BDSM-S03E32

    Abuse of Power and Authority in BDSM-S03E32

    Recorded: 2/14/2021 / Published: 09/26/2021

    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, discuss a problem that is so common in the scene most people don’t even realize they do it; abuse of power and authority.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “Abuse of Power and AuthorityBDSM-S03E32”

    - Abuse of Power, also known as Abuse of Authority, is defined as the use of one’s position to gain an unfair advantage over another outside of that position’s scope.
    To be clear, although writing about this can come across as more clinical and less dramatic, purposeful misuse of power is indeed a form of actual abuse, and its use should not be tolerated.
    Abuse of Power can be done in many ways, consciously or unconsciously, and can come from a variety of sources. Some examples of this include, but is not limited to:
    Using the Household name as a means of elevating one’s self in order to gain an unfair advantage over another
    Trying to exert power over something that was not negotiated or agreed upon.
    Using one’s title to inappropriately exert power over someone not in your sphere of influence.
    Pushing a scene further than you are capable of to “show off”
    Bullying or shaming
    Interjecting unwanted advice into another party’s conversation
    Shifting responsibility for a scene onto the other party if things don’t go well
    Being a “Protector” to someone and also being involved with them romantically or dynamically
    Using the dynamic as leverage against the relationship
    Changing rules or protocol to suit you without notifying, considering, or negotiating with the other party
    Purposely finding or creating loopholes in rules or protocol to suit you
    Purposely defying boundaries, triggers, or limits
    Pushing another to “pay” beyond their means (via time, money, energy, or other forms of “payments”) to be with you
    Withholding communication, sex, or dynamic (outside of negotiated terms) to get your way
    Using your position or title to justify doing something you shouldn’t have done

    Things to remember:
    Abuse of Power does not necessarily mean it is always directly related to a dynamic. Being a part of a Household or simply having many active years in the scene can very well make someone else feel like you hold more power and sway than they do, which makes it possible that this power can be abused.

    It does not always come from the top. Since what we engage in is a Power Exchange, bottoms hold a degree of power as well. Abuses of Power can come from a top, bottom, dominant, submissive, master, or slave. It can come from a well-seasoned kinkster who’s been in the scene for decades or the newbie just getting their feet wet. It can be wielded by anyone.

    When power is abused in the scene it can cause a multitude of problems, foremost of which is the victim who can suffer physically, mentally, psychologically, or even spiritually. As an abuse, the responsibility falls solely to the abuser, but the victim often carries the inner scars from it in the forms of distrust, depression, anxiety, and loss of self-worth amongst others.

    It is important to note that the primary concept here is that power has been used inappropriately. We must all be aware that each of us is capable of Abusing Power and should strive to use it appropriately.

    As a Mentor, you should be looking for an...

    • 1 hr 32 min
    BDSM Etiquette Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31

    BDSM Etiquette Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31

    Recorded: 2/7/2021 / Published: 9/23/2021

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2.

    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 
    1: Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    2: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    3: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity

    “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
    “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31”

    A brief recap:

    The dictionary defines Manners as:
    Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
    A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
    The socially correct way of acting.
    Manners really are important no matter what lifestyle you lead, it is the basic common courtesies which most people learn as they grow up. The please and thank you, not speaking with a mouthful of food, not interrupting a conversation, etc. All things that should apply in all situations.
    Protocols and Etiquette, though related to good manners, are really what many people associate with our lifestyle, and many scene people place great importance on both.
    What is a Protocol? What is Etiquette?

    Protocol is defined as:
    A code of correct conduct
    The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:

    Etiquette is defined as:
    Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
    The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations

    From these definitions, it is obvious that protocols are more widely recognized as being official behavior, whereas etiquette is predominantly social behavior, but the basic element is the same, they are about correct behavior in certain situations.”

    The difference between a title and honorific.

    Title: an earned position that has been granted by another.

    Honorific: a name used by a subordinate as a sign of respect and to recognize the difference in position and status.

    Let’s start at the beginning, introducing yourself?
    Public mixed playspaces
    Private/home/dark parties
    Charity events
    Dom to Dom Interactions
    Negotiating play with a partner, sub, or slave
    Post scene communication
    Dom to another’s sub or slave or to someone not collared?

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/331
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 

    Show Producers:
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
    - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
    - Master Producer ($50/month): 
    - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
    - Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, and BxB
    - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven,...

    • 1 hr 33 min

Customer Reviews

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About the podcast

I have been in and out of bdsm for 8 years and I came across your podcast less than 8 months ago when I was looking up something for primal play and I enjoy all of it and I would recommend your podcast to anyone who would like to get into to lifestyle

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I recently discovered Master Kuldrin’s podcast and now look forward to every new episode. Wonderful for new explorers and seasoned lifestyles alike. Thank you!

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