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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

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With over 25 years in the BDSM community and the mental health field, I have gained a unique understanding and respect for the alternative lifestyle.

As BDSM has become more mainstream it is important that people become informed and educated about truth of the BDSM community instead of letting inaccurate books and movies shape minds, opinions, and lifestyles in a way that is both incorrect and unhealthy. Myself and guests, from porn stars to pastors, will dive deep into all sides of the lifestyle to paint an accurate, informed, and unbiased picture of BDSM and the surprising truth behind the psychology of participants.

    Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

    Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

    Recorded: 11/29/2020 /  Published: 6/11/2021
    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true.
    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2) KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3) “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - Four Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22

    - Original Article by Canela López and Julia Naftulin Nov 16, 2020

    -(https://www.insider.com/myths-about-bdsm-according-to-kink-specialists-2020-2?fbclid=IwAR3-QNCNawRCIv0MZe0pRZQknCIh3zg8UdBzSybgRIwdVGIzipz0beTxMjo)

    Here are some of the biggest myths about BDSM, according to kink experts. 

    1: Myth: People who like BDSM are sexual deviants and freaks.
    - Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly condemned by the general public, people who engage in BDSM, kink, and fetish sex have historically been seen as weird or grotesque.

    2: Myth: People who like BDSM are traumatized.
    - One of the most common misconceptions about BDSM and kink sex is that people who enjoy it must have been victims of childhood abuse or trauma. 

    3: Myth: All BDSM has a dominatrix and a submissive.
    - BDSM sexual and lifestyle practices vary greatly beyond the dominatrix and submissive dynamic, including humiliation (being mocked by degrading language), electroplay (being shocked by an electrical source), and gagging. 

    4: Myth: BDSM is just about sex.
    - While sexual dynamics are oftentimes between two people, people who engage in BDSM or fetish sex can form larger communities of support — making their sexual practices go beyond sex. 

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    • 1 hr 31 min
    Five Questions to ask a potential Dom,sub, or Play Partner-S03E21

    Five Questions to ask a potential Dom,sub, or Play Partner-S03E21

    Recorded: 11/22/2020 / Published: 5/24/2021
    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.

    - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21
    - Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.
    - What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?
    - Respectfulness
    - Playful
    - Obedient
    - Friendly
    - Demanding
    - Nurturing
    - Sadistic
    - Exhibition
    - What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?
    - Respect
    - Obedience
    - Thoughtfulness
    - Communication
    - Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation
    - Masochist
    - Alpha sub
    - Loyalty
    - Community service
    - What are characteristics in others that turn you off?
    - Lack of communication
    - Brats
    - Doormat subs
    - Arrogance

    - Now that you have a little better understanding of yourself it’s time to find out a little more about that potential Dom/sub/play partner.
    1: What kinds of scenes turn you on?
    2: What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/sub/play partner?
    3: What experience do you have in power exchange?
    4: What gets you off about being submissive/Dominant/play partner?
    5: What are things that you haven’t tried but would like to?

    Important Links:
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    Show Producers:
    - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
    - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
    - Master Producer ($50/month):
    - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
    - Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
    - Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, and WyldThyme & Deacon Sean
    - Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie
    Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon

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    • 1 hr 26 min
    Trauma Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20

    Trauma Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20

    Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published to Podcast: 5/17/2021

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!

    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com

    Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - WARNING: Potential trigger risks ahead. Listen at your own risk.

    - “Trauma and Community: Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20”
    - By xEmeraldxWolfx https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/6698137
    - I recently attended a munch where part of the focus of conversation revolved around trauma. How we handle it, the mindset we have, where we can get stuck, and just the general approach different people have. I am sure we can all identify or are familiar with people in the various stages or mindsets of processing trauma. The stages were outlined as victim, survivor, and acceptance. Most of us can look back at our lives and recognize when we have experienced one mindset or another, but for some reason, some people never move on from one or another and get stuck there. I am not an expert and I don’t think I can relate to what was explained in a clear concise manner. That being said, this is my understanding of the 3 stages and I wanted to get them out, get some feedback, and see if others have anything to add.

    - Why did you write this?
    - Has there been any blowback from posting it?
    - We’ve all experienced some level of trauma: death of a loved one, physical and/or emotional abuse, sexual assault, violation of limits, etc. 
    - A: What do you think lies within those who are able to move past it and into acceptance?
    - B: What do you think it is about the victim and survivor mentalities that cause people to get stuck here?
    - Do you think it is possible for people to move forward if they have plateaued in one of those two mentalities?
    What is your biggest piece of advice when talking with people that seem to “stuck” as a victim or as a survivor?

    Important Links:
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    Show Producers:
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    -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
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    -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
    -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
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    • 1 hr 27 min
    Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19

    Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19

    Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published: 05/06/2021

    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 

    - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair.

    - Next week Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!

    Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19”

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/319 
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication 
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 
    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic 

    Show Producers:
    -Benefactor ($2,000/month): 
    -Pro Producer ($100/month): 
    -Master Producer ($50/month): 
    -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and Brendan
    -Sr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKayVoss, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Raefe, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, Stella, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, JohnathonHood, Crystal Force, Cali, and PerfectlyThick
    -Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, KJ, Hadea, XxLilyXxX, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Bonneville, Atsila, PWB, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Jace, LilRedRose, Felix, and MsRedSin & AJRJ
    -Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, and Brodie

    Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon

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    - http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
    - http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
    - http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
    - https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist 
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    Contact info:
    Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
    Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
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    Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
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    • 1 hr 37 min
    She Said She Liked it Rough-I Had No Idea Where to Begin-S03E18

    She Said She Liked it Rough-I Had No Idea Where to Begin-S03E18

    Recorded: 11/01/2020
    Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

    In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very educational article from Medium.com titled “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin”. If you are a person that struggles with what your partner wants or if you are the one that wants it and they are the one struggling, this might be the thing that helps both of you understand it better.

    Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin-S03E18”
    By Liam MacAdam https://medium.com/sexography/she-said-she-liked-it-rough-979ce1dfaded

    The other day, my wife Kate was talking to a friend on the phone about her record of falling for the wrong kind of man. She had a thing for bad boys, and was inevitably left heartbroken when they treated her badly.

    “You should do what I did”, Kate said, “find a good boy and teach him how to be bad”.
    I knew she was talking about me. Was that really what had transpired in our relationship?
    When we first got together, Kate let me know that she liked it rough in the bedroom. This was a problem for me. I could do athletic — multiple angles, various speeds — but rough was not in my sexual vocabulary.

    My whole being is about niceness. That doesn’t make me perfect, it just means that gentleness,
    politeness and empathy are programmed into everything I do.
    By the way, I’m not trying to suggest that these are virtues I should be praised for. I did not overcome a mean streak through hard work and therapy. Niceness is my innate disposition, my default mode.

    When I asked Kate what she meant by liking it rough, she said that she wanted to be “thrown around the bed”. Apparently, it was one of the things she enjoyed most during an otherwise disappointing previous relationship.
    I panicked inwardly. Some things that are asked of us we can immediately visualize doing well and with authenticity. For me, this was not one of those things.
    I wasn’t sure what throwing someone around the bed would even look like. How could you make it something sexy, and not just naked wrestling? I had no idea.
    As a pleaser, however, I was committed to giving it a try. The next time we had sex, when we had finished doing it from the front, I flipped Kate over so we could do it from behind. I did it with reckless abandon, with scant regard for her physical safety. Afterward, I asked how she liked it.
    “Liked what?” she asked.

    She hadn’t noticed. It was clear I was out of my depth. I asked her for help.
    The next time we were naked in bed together, she suggested I spank her. Spanking I understood. She got up on her hands and knees and I started lightly slapping her upper thighs and bottom. I enjoyed the sound I could make when I struck her flesh just so with my right hand. I could tell she was getting into it by the moans coming from her lips.
    “Harder”, she urged.
    I spanked her with more and more force as she urged me on, harder than I would ever have felt comfortable doing without ...

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/318
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
    https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
    a...

    • 1 hr 24 min
    Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17

    Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17

    Recorded: 10/25/2020 / Published: 4/12/2021

    - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a hilariously interesting article from BuzzFeed talking titled “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” so we thought we would lighten up a bit and talk about toy safety.

    Rules to Love By:
    1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

    - “Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17”
    Let’s hear from these medical professionals first and then talk about some safety tips that we all need to follow.

    - BuzzFeed Article: “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/things-up-penises-vaginas-and-butts?utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbbuzzfeed&ref=bffbbuzzfeed&fbclid=IwAR1Kuw3MLGsfhojVSNV1Zz972FIi5wSrNbBzRaRys9a1AOMFWy9AUfVVEls

    “We asked nurses and doctors in the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the worst thing they've witnessed in the ER. Here are the genital horror stories.

    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317

    1. A Barbie doll's arm
    2. A knife
    3. A potato
    4. A flashlight
    5. A crochet needle
    6. A Lego butt plug
    7. A lightbulb
    8. A giant dildo
    9. A live rat
    10. A carrot
    11. A shower head
    12. A ballerina figurine
    13. A toy lizard
    14. A bloody cucumber
    15. A long piece of floss
    16. A set of tongs
    17. And Campbell's beef soup

    - Healthy Toy Tips: These should be obvious but obviously they are not.
    1: If it wasn’t made to be a sex toy, don’t use it as one/Don’t use household items.
    2: Clean, clean, and then clean some more!
    3: Know what material your toys are made of.
    No Phthalates!!! They have been linked to male fertility issues, obesity, type 2 diabetes, asthma, neurodevelopmental issues, and more. (pronounced “thawh-late)
    4: Know what lubes can be used with what toys.
    Don’t use silicone lube with silicone toys!
    5: Don’t be afraid to use condoms on your toys.
    6: Buy from a credible company.
    7: Share with care.
    8: Don’t switch holes without using a condom or disinfecting.
    9: Inspect your toys regularly for battery leaks, wire shorts, and overall condition.
    10: Keep them locked away from children!
    11: If it’s broken, trash it! Do NOT try to fix it!

    Important Links:
    Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/317
    National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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    https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
    Thank you:

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    -Pro Producer ($100/month):
    -Master Producer ($50/month):
    -Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, LylacWine, and...

    • 1 hr 42 min

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