Love On Neurodiverse Lane: ADHD and Relationships

Kat & Harold
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Love On Neurodiverse Lane: ADHD and Relationships

Tune in to join married partners Kat (ADHDer) and Harold (Non) as they celebrate their differences while discussing all things ADHD & Relationships. Through exploring a wide range of topics from the serious to the outright weird, and along with an occasional guest – the pair share their experiences normalizing life with ADHD.

Episodes

  1. JUL 16

    S02E02: Fabulous & Frustrated Flushes: The Bathroom Reno

    Love On Neurodiverse Lane: ADHD and Relationships

    37 min

  2. JUL 1

    S02E01: Chop, Dice, and Neurospice: The Kitchen Overhaul Episode

    Welcome to season 2, episode 1 of Love on Neurodiverse Lane!    The home has been remodeled, and Kat & Harold are ready to have you visit. Each episode on Season 2 will take visitors to a different areas of the home and discuss the issues and solutions that have transpired over the years.    Episode 1 focuses on the heart of any home... The Kitchen, or as Kat & Harold like to call it, the Food Lab. From strange preferences, to wonderful compromises. The Host have some how created a functional space for their ADHD relationship. How does Harold handle dishes and expectations? Who does the cooking? What changes have they made that help (or not) and why? Tune in to find out as the two open the door for you to visit.

    1h 6m

  3. MAR 26

    Tenth Anniversary Episode

    Join Kat & Harold as they celebrate a milestone 10th Episode Anniversary of 'Love on Neurodiverse Lane' with a special game show edition! Get ready for laughter, love, and a whole lot of fun as they tackle silly questions about each other in a hilarious twist reminiscent of the 'Newlywed Game.' From shower habits to Hollywood casting, no topic is off-limits as they navigate the highs and quirks of their relationship, all while embracing the chaos of their household dogs in the background. Tune in for a heartwarming and entertaining episode you won't want to miss!

    42 min

  4. MAR 12

    Part Time vs. Seasonal Help

    Often ADHDers possess extensive knowledge about various topics, simultaneously confusing and amazing their partners with their often extensive multi-page resume of work history?  Does this sound familiar to you or your ADHD partner? Listen and learn why Kat has a stethoscope, hair cutting shears, and... wait... is that a set of large plastic teeth?! This week, join Kat & Harold at their home on Neurodiverse Lane to uncover the answer to is question and shed some light on this common phenomenon of the dynamic ADHD-driven career path.  Watch as the stories unfold, and they share how this has played out in their relationship throughout the years.

    32 min

  5. FEB 27

    E08 Spotlights & Floodlights

    Hey there and welcome back to *Love on Neurodiverse Lane*! Kat and Harold are here to explore the ins and outs of ADHD in relationships with a sprinkle of humor, a dash of insight, and a whole lot of love. In today's episode, titled "Spotlights & Floodlights," they dive into the delightful world of different thinking styles, shining a light on their own journey towards understanding and acceptance. Throughout their relationship, Kat's unique perspective and thinking patterns have brought some challenges. But fear not, as Kat & Harold open up about some key moments in their shared journey. They'll chat about how their thinking styles have evolved over time and share a major "aha" moment that really brought things into focus. What began as a simple task quickly turned into a learning experience for Harold, as he struggled to keep up with Kat's unconventional approach to explaining things. But through embracing their differences, they've found a deeper level of teamwork, communication, and grace in their relationship. Join Kat and Harold as they dish on the highs, lows, and heartwarming moments that have shaped their journey together. From navigating the backyard to hashing out an insurance claim, each story highlights the power of love and understanding in the face of neurodiversity. So grab a comfy spot and tune in to *Love on Neurodiverse Lane* for a heartwarming chat about the beauty of thinking differently. See you there! 😊🌟

    35 min

  6. FEB 13

    E07 Klingons vs. Vulcans

    Join Kat & Harold this week as they boldly go into the world of Star Trek to find commonalities and differences with some of science fiction’s most well known alien species. The logical Vulcans and the impulsive Klingons each provide a perspective on life that could be paired easily with a Neurodiverse relationship as the fight for deep space wages on…on Neurodiverse Lane.

    24 min

  7. JAN 30

    E06 Innies vs. Outies

    For this week’s episode, come sit round the kitchen table and listen to the Dynamic Duo's infamous story of the Meat Tray. An insightful tale from their college years, and a poignant moment in Kat & Harold’s relationship that set the foundation of their differences. Kat, very much the ADHD extrovert, goes on to share her passion for Explentures: a creative mixture of Exploring & Adventure, which are essentially those days when she takes Harold out of the house for some fresh air. Harold, on the other hand and very much the introvert, shares his passion for not talking to other people.   It’s another spinning tale that ends up in a tailspin of hilarity and honesty. Enjoy!

    49 min

  8. JAN 16

    E05: The Young & The Only

    Join Kat and Harold as they return from the Holidays with an all new hour long episode of pure domesticated bliss delivered to your front steps on Neurodiverse Lane. This week, Kat shares what growing up was like as an attention seeking “baby” of four siblings with a stay at home unmedicated ADHD dad, while Harold divulges his deepest, innermost, darkest secrets of life as an only child. The conversation bobs and weaves as Kat & Harold share their experiences like two prize fighters in the Marital Ring. Two people with vastly different upbringings with differences that shaped their perspectives totally.  Picture Kat finding her voice within the organized chaos of a family always on the go, from hand-me-downs to secret sibling codes. On the flip side, see Harold in his youth reveling in the perks of undivided parental attention and the imaginative territories of playing alone.  Come start the year off with your right with your favorite couple down the block on Neurodiverse Lane.

    55 min
  9. Hi-Fi vs. Low-Fi

    12/19/2023

    Hi-Fi vs. Low-Fi

    In this episode, join Kat and Harold on a musical journey as they explore the diverse ways people experience live music. Harold (NT), a meticulous planner, revels in the anticipation of ticket purchases and crafting dream setlists. On the other hand, Kat (ND) lives firmly in the present, immersing herself in the magic of the live moment. Together, they delve into the contrasts between meticulous preparation and spontaneous immersion, debating the merits of each approach. Whether you're a meticulous planner like Harold or a live-in-the-moment enthusiast like Kat, this episode invites you to ponder the myriad ways we connect with and savor the beauty of live music.

    24 min

  10. 12/05/2023

    E03: Eating vs. Feeding

    In their big “O-Three” episode, Kat and Harold open up about the challenges of cooking intertwined with their ADHD experiences. Struggling with precision in the kitchen, they recount endearing yet chaotic anecdotes about the differences in needing to eat and needing to be fed. Their conversation delves beyond the kitchen chaos, touching upon food preferences, sensitivities, and the impact of conditions like Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID). While Kat explores varied tastes, Harold navigates a world of textures and temperatures that trigger discomfort, stemming from childhood habits and family dynamics. Join them for a heartfelt conversation that goes beyond the surface, addressing the intricate connections between food, identity, and relationships with a touch of sincerity and vulnerability.

    26 min

  11. 11/22/2023

    E02: Time Blinds & Time Lords

    In this episode, Kat and Harold dive into their different experiences with time and how it impacts their relationship. They discuss time blindness among people with ADHD, as well as Harold's almost uncanny internal clock and ability to unconsciously track the passage of time. They cover how these differences lead to issues like Harold constantly interrupting Kat right before the end of her TV shows, their opposing ideas of how long chores will take, and the various tactics needed over the years to get chronically late Kat out of bed. With plenty of banter and laughs along the way, they share enlightening examples of navigating and accepting their neurodiverse perspectives on time.

    24 min

  12. 11/05/2023

    E01: Love and ADHD: Premiere Episode

    Welcome to the wacky, wonderful world of Love on Neurodiverse Lane! In this first episode, married couple Kat and Harold embark on a podcasting adventure exploring relationships where one or both partners have ADHD. Kat and Harold dish on the ups, downs, laughs, and headaches of their own neurodiverse marriage. Together they hope to normalize the experience of relationships impacted by ADHD and provide fellow partners in love (and chaos) with hope, solidarity, and a healthy dose of laughter. So buckle up and get ready for a wild ride as Kat and Harold bring their own brand of fun and wisdom to illuminate the struggles and joys of embracing both the differences and the togetherness that makes romance thrive on Neurodiverse Lane!

    22 min
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Tune in to join married partners Kat (ADHDer) and Harold (Non) as they celebrate their differences while discussing all things ADHD & Relationships. Through exploring a wide range of topics from the serious to the outright weird, and along with an occasional guest – the pair share their experiences normalizing life with ADHD.

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